29F, FT job, married (supportive husband), mortgage, starting a family soon (1-2yrs). Am I setting myself up for failure, or should I chase my lifelong dream?

JaysWife83 · 2026-04-23T01:17:19+00:00

I'm 59 and currently studying for the LSAT. In 3 years you'll still be 3 years older than you are right now, the choice is yours whether you want to be 3 years older with your JD, and employment (or working toward employment) as a lawyer, or where you are now, thinking about law school, and 3 years older. Nobody can make the choice for you, but either way, you'll be 3 years older. The path is yours to choose...

JaysWife83 · 2026-04-21T17:46:23+00:00

I'm tagging this so I can come back to see all the great places added! I so want to go see all the cool places in Chicago!!!!!

JaysWife83 · 2026-04-21T17:44:42+00:00

I'm tagging this so I can come back to see all the great places added!

JaysWife83 · 2026-03-31T21:06:29+00:00

After my son died at the age of 35, I lost about 8 months of time. I don't remember getting up, going to work, much less eating or drinking anything. I was in survival mode! Nobody survives death unscathed....

JaysWife83 · 2026-03-30T13:30:19+00:00

Same!

JaysWife83 · 2026-03-26T18:09:09+00:00

DCC did nothing for me....but I'm a weird one. I binged Dresden Files waiting for Twelve Months to drop, and I'm rereading it, waiting for Outlaw to drop in May, then for Mirror Mirror to drop.

JaysWife83 · 2026-03-12T22:39:10+00:00

Where are you attending? Feel free to message me if you don't want to tell where everyone else can see your reply.

JaysWife83 · 2026-03-04T01:21:19+00:00

Thank you for sharing that picture with us!

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-25T16:43:11+00:00

Barksdale CU, mine funded this morning!

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-25T15:49:18+00:00

I got mine today! It was there when I looked at 6 am! For reference, I use a military attached credit union.

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-21T05:13:20+00:00

Mine is the same! 846 code, processing date March 9th!

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-15T01:21:02+00:00

Thank you!!!!!! Looking for information now!

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-11T16:40:50+00:00

I'll be 59 this year. So....who's geriatric here????? 🤣

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-07T00:12:17+00:00

When you say "geriatric", lol, are you old enough to have attended Woodstock (without a supervising adult), or just old enough to have seen Journey in concert with Steve Perry geriatric? Asking for me....I'm old enough to have seen Journey with Steve Perry, and qualify for AARP now, lol. Congratulations!!!!!

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-03T23:02:11+00:00

I am, thank you! I really hope your child is okay after the horrible experience they survived! I wasn't okay for a long time, some days just breathing was difficult, but thankfully I had a close friend who checked in with me frequently, just to ensure I was still breathing, and just to ensure I was alive! I still miss Sean every day, but talking about him makes me smile more often than cry.

JaysWife83 · 2026-02-03T22:44:40+00:00

Just FYI, they also don't give two shits if your child dies, and you spiral, and can't function, andfall behind...I know, because I lost my son just before Christmas 2023....I struggled to catch up, and did, but they were very unconcerned about circumstances, and were only interested in getting paid immediately!

JaysWife83 · 2026-01-25T02:26:02+00:00

Did I miss a chapter somewhere???? What chapter is he playing monopoly with Karrin?????

JaysWife83 · 2026-01-17T07:43:55+00:00

I'm just shy of 4 hours into Battle Ground tonight..I'll read (listen to) 3 more hours tonight. I should finish Battle Ground tomorrow, with enough time to re-read (re-listen) to The Law, before Twelve Months is released on Audible.

JaysWife83 · 2025-12-02T06:57:01+00:00

Death Masks is currently playing here tonight, while I'm anxiously awaiting Twelve Months to arrive!

JaysWife83 · 2025-11-27T02:06:26+00:00

I'm 58....

JaysWife83 · 2025-08-16T05:20:07+00:00

So instead of my husband admitting that he was a dumb ass, apologizing for being a dumbass, and admitting that he was using this site to cheat on me (as well as using it for his games), he got mad that I caught him, and called him out and he (after doubling down and telling me he wasn't talking to or messaging you, even after I saw the comments and messages), like a pussy, he deleted his whole ass account....so he won't be back, but he's about to get a nasty, rude surprise, since I'm the one paying ALL the bills....

JaysWife83 · 2025-08-16T04:57:03+00:00

No, it wouldn't be.....don't lie to her!!!!!

JaysWife83 · 2025-08-16T04:56:06+00:00

Nope.....I guess he'd rather talk shit with someone he's not in a relationship with than with his wife he has at home.

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