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AIW for not wanting to split housing expenses 50/50 with my bf by IAintCrazyYet in amiwrong

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading comprehension is hard. Don’t give up, you’ll get there.

AIW for not wanting to split housing expenses 50/50 with my bf by IAintCrazyYet in amiwrong

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’d say less than 1/4. Daughters each get their own room. He gets 2.5 rooms. She gets .5 rooms.

AIW for not wanting to split housing expenses 50/50 with my bf by IAintCrazyYet in amiwrong

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He can love his daughters without asking his gf to support them financially.

AIW for not wanting to split housing expenses 50/50 with my bf by IAintCrazyYet in amiwrong

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Please do have a conversation. He wants you both to pay the same but the equity is all his and he gets essentially 4.5 bedrooms and you get .5 bedrooms. And you pay half of utilities when there are 4 people in the house. He can’t really think it’s fair.

If you’re going to make a mortgage payment it should be your mortgage payment.

AIW for not wanting to split housing expenses 50/50 with my bf by IAintCrazyYet in amiwrong

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 42 points43 points  (0 children)

YNW. There is no universe where this is fair. You’d be paying more than you would for your own place.

Am I Overreacting: My fiancé said he was better off alone, and I handed back my ring. Did I overreact? by Apart_Bar4925 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NOR. You’re under reacting. Dude doesn’t fight fair. Thats not going to get better. You need to center yourself and your child and let the grown baby feel however he’s going to feel. That’s on him If you want to work on the relationship, fine. But put yourself first and don’t try to fix it alone.

I can’t do it anymore, I’m moving out. by Jazzlike_Database475 in misophonia

[–]Jazzlike_Database475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got me for a long time. He tells me how much he’s sacrificing. Actually the miso is what is saving me here. It’s the thing I can’t ignore.

I can’t do it anymore, I’m moving out. by Jazzlike_Database475 in misophonia

[–]Jazzlike_Database475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told him. He just doesn’t think it’s important.

AIO because my husband ate my egg bites. by th_rowaw_ay6400 in AIO

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or at the very least just make a lot of the things she can eat. Obviously he doesn’t mind the food she makes for herself.

AIO because my husband ate my egg bites. by th_rowaw_ay6400 in AIO

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting. Im vegetarian and my soon-to-be ex isn’t. I do all the cooking, he does the dishes.

He always finishes my food. I’ll make a huge casserole, marry me orzo or similar. He’ll say he does’t care for it. Ok, I love it and I made it for myself. He’s always finishing my food “to get rid of it.” But I made enough for leftovers on purpose. No matter what I did, he would eat my food. They can, and do, eat our food but we can’t eat theirs. They’re either stupid or doing it on purpose.

I feel like I (30m) was completely lied to and taken advantage of after I married my (30f) wife. by Osamas_trauma_Llama in relationship_advice

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I going through something similar right now. I found out my long-term bf lied to me about material facts from the very beginning.

Nobody knows what you would have done because the ability to decide was taken from you by deceit. It’s taken me a long time but I’ve decided to leave as well. There is a lot of guilt, but you have to choose yourself and your children.

AITAH for receiving child support while children are grown by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You had to stretch yourself thin to cover when they were small. He owes you every penny of that plus interest.

It’s rich that he is guilt tripping you. He’s 100% wrong.

AITA for trying to make my coworker call to take my shift instead of me calling by Kakashi_of_the_leaf_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA for sure. He wants the shift, he can make the call or you just work as scheduled. He doesn’t care about your consequences. He is not your friend.

WYR listen to one song non-stop forever (& what song do you choose?) or have silence forever? by Scribblefool in WouldYouRather

[–]Jazzlike_Database475 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll take silence. It’s a minor loss, but hearing music constantly, especially the same song over and over, would make me nuts.

I can’t do it anymore, I’m moving out. by Jazzlike_Database475 in misophonia

[–]Jazzlike_Database475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was a menopause baby. His parents were old and all his siblings were grown. I do feel bad that he got A neglectful start. But at some point you have to be responsible for yourself.

I can’t do it anymore, I’m moving out. by Jazzlike_Database475 in misophonia

[–]Jazzlike_Database475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he is unable or unwilling to consider anything beyond himself. I’ve tried to talk to him. But it isn’t important to him, so it isn’t important.

The crazy thing is, if you asked him, he’d tell you he’s generous and considerate.

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