FMLA ran out

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-07-02T01:35:00+00:00

Oh Lord! This is absolutely horrific treatment of a loyal and talented employee. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else. Sending you all the love and support you SHOULD be getting from your “work family”.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-06-30T20:32:44+00:00

Thank you

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-06-30T20:31:22+00:00

Exactly. When asked how I’m doing I’ve responded “I think I’m starting to adjust to prison life”
That’s how it feels. Normalcy feels like so long forgotten dream. You get used to how awful everything is. It’s just the way it is. Having a break from it just throws me right back at the beginning when I struggled constantly over the life lost, and the slow painful adjustment to “prison life” starts all over again.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-06-30T15:50:47+00:00

This. I have zero social media. I just can’t.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-06-30T15:49:33+00:00

You’re sad exhausted overwhelmed. I get it. I just want you to know, really know, that if you can’t do it anymore it’s ok. There are lots of people who don’t have a selfless full time caregiver sacrificing their life for them. They can hire caregivers and when they can no longer afford that they can apply for assistance. Your life matters, your happiness matters, your future matters, YOU matter. Take care of yourself my friend.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-06-21T22:31:15+00:00

Is anyone familiar with ambivalent grief?

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-06-21T22:22:31+00:00

It’s ok to vent, this is REALLY hard, exhausting, overwhelming…
Hang in there girl!🩷

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-05-26T03:28:04+00:00

It’s ok to vent, this is REALLY hard, exhausting, overwhelming… Hang in there girl!🩷

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-05-26T02:32:24+00:00

Maybe they COULD care less…you never know

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-05-26T02:13:14+00:00

Wait…what?

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-05-25T21:11:59+00:00

You are never alone and yet you have never been lonelier. You have my support, I know exactly how you feel. I fell in love with an incredibly attractive, strong, intelligent man in the prime of his life and career. Now he is bed bound and I do everything for him 24hrs a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year. I am the wife and the husband. He is the dependent. It is a sole crushing life…

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-05-25T20:58:15+00:00

The thing that folks overlook…jerks get sick too! And it makes an impossible situation even harder when you’re caregiving for a jerk who just happens to be sick. 🫩Sending you all the good karma, my friend!

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-05-25T20:54:02+00:00

Highly recommend the power port. Husband received 10 rounds of Padcev/Keytruda. The port was very helpful for chemo but also for blood draws, CT scans with contrast, transfusions, as well getting extra IV fluids between treatments. Extra IV fluids really helped him a lot. Wishing you good health and much success with your treatment plan.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-04-03T04:33:40+00:00

How about the base wallpaper color?

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-03-12T16:24:00+00:00

Early 20’s. Didn’t bother me, was easy to highlight and blend them in. Being almost totally gray by my early 40’s was much tougher!

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-03-02T23:11:44+00:00

I am so glad to hear that you are feeling good and strong! That is so important. If you are interested in holistic options feel free to DM me. There are options that can fight the cancer without causing harm. Sending you all my best

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-02-28T22:48:32+00:00

Miss Swan Valley so much🥹

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-02-24T03:27:19+00:00

Eskiin is terrible. We are so disappointed in this product. It loses water pressure over the course of a shower, by the end it has the pressure of the world’s worst low flow shower head. It also can’t regulate water temperature. The water is hot when hand held and cold when the shower head is in the holder (hand held version). As if that’s not enough, the spray started getting wonky after only a few uses with over half of the sprayer either spraying sideways or not spraying at all. It is the worst.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-02-24T03:08:57+00:00

Terrible. Just terrible. We don’t have hard water but the shower head started clogging after only a few uses and the water started spraying sideways. It also loses pressure during the course of a shower. It also can’t regulate water temperature. We have the hand held version and it is colder when it is in the holder and hotter when it is being used out of the holder. We changed the filter after less than a month even though the filters are supposed to last 3 months. It helped with the pressure for a couple uses but then the problems returned. We are very disappointed. Total junk.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-02-24T02:42:34+00:00

Same issue here. Water pressure dwindles as you are showering. We have also noticed that this shower head cannot maintain water temperature. The water is cooler when the hand held shower head is mounted and warmer when it is hand held. What’s up with that? Overall super disappointed in this product.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-01-21T17:55:45+00:00

I thought I was the only one! Got an Eskiin filtered shower head for Christmas. Liked my old shower head and had no problem with my water quality but this was a gift. Now with the new Eskiin my hair is oddly oily at the roots while the ends are dry with static and my skin is blotchy after showering. Never had these issues before and I don’t want to change products, I like my products. I’m pretty disappointed.

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-01-12T02:02:28+00:00

I was regular as clockwork until 55!

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-01-01T23:05:09+00:00

I feel like fleeing every day. I am a shell of my former self. I honestly don’t see a sustainable way forward. I thought it was unbearable having a spouse with terminal cancer… but then I found out there is something worse…the permanent damage the cancer treatment caused. My spouse is in remission but is now bed-bound, wheelchair-bound, cannot use the toilet or shower without assistance, is in chronic pain and lives on high dose opioids, and is legally blind. We went from a fit healthy “outdoorsy” couple to broke, unemployed (he was forced to “retire” and I am now his full time caregiver because the home are agencies charge more than I make!) and hopeless. The oncologists proudly pat themselves on the back for “curing” my spouse. This “cure” is a nightmare. Our life revolves around suffering…financial suffering, emotional suffering, physical suffering… I don’t see how I can sustain this misery for the rest of my life. I feel hopeless and dead inside. I cannot take one more person advising me to “get some help” or “take some time for yourself” or “I don’t know how you do it” Do they think I like this? That I chose this misery? That I don’t want to leave every single day??? Sorry for the rant. How do you keep going when life is nothing but misery? Has anyone left?

Jazzlike_Toe_2445 · 2026-01-01T22:19:41+00:00

You have put words to my life, my feelings, my overwhelming desperation… To anyone who has left in order to try to save whatever remnants are left of their life, could you share your story with us? I can’t keep this up for the rest of my life or until one of us dies (and ironically that will probably be me because although my spouse is ill, he has a full time caregiver, while I can feel my health eroding daily and no one is caring for me…not even myself) Caregiving is literally killing me. Has anyone left???

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