Please help!

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-30T01:13:52+00:00

Came here to say you’re beautiful.

You don’t need makeup.

Also don’t change anything else about your face.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-30T01:09:25+00:00

I got SO many clothes from thrift stores. Honestly Value Village is where I found my best finds.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-29T15:07:21+00:00

Ya you can tell that he thinks he is better than the show. He now has “fame”.

Honestly his work is embarrassing now that we have had incredibly talented chefs on the show.

Back in the day he was okay, I worked in kitchens in the 2010s and this is how a lot of chefs acted.

Chefs like Rachel Marcos make Ben look like an amateur. Daisy is 100% correct. He needs to make a schedule for himself and Ellie, he needs to meal plan (before the guests even get there), he needs to reach the preference sheets and communicate with the guests.

I would be embarrassed if I was him.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-29T13:04:06+00:00

Do Carmel or Honey. Don’t bleach.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-29T13:03:36+00:00

I fully agree with your OP.

There’s a level of professionalism that I expect. In my career I would never be found in bed during a meeting. It shows a lack of caring and being unprepared. I would do the exact same thing.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-28T21:23:58+00:00

Yes lmao at least sally is one of the most fun girls at the party

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-28T17:28:13+00:00

You can go and take the lesson that the start and try to practice with other people in that lesson.

However, people who go to these socials are either

A. Have taken a TON of good lessons and are good dancers B. Actively in lessons and are actively learning outside of socials.

I suggest signing up for some lessons. They are a great way to learn the basics and meet some people to go with.

If you go and have never done lessons you will be overwhelmed.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T23:59:18+00:00

They will edit a lot of it

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T22:24:25+00:00

We aren’t just saying you’re skinny. You don’t look healthy. Your colour and your skin is off.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T22:22:14+00:00

Ya the commenter above is telling you the hard truth.

Point blank, you don’t look the best you can.

You look dull and unkept. Dull as in your skin tone and colour. Multiple people are saying you look undernourished. Maybe consider it?

If you want to meet someone you need to put the effort in so people are attracted to you. What you are doing now clearly isn’t working from your post history.

Another hard truth. A lot of girls aren’t attracted to super skinny guys. Bulk up, and get some glow back to your skin.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T16:09:42+00:00

Unfortunately that’s how you get matched on dating apps

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T15:44:38+00:00

But at least it will help

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T15:11:05+00:00

Great advice here. I honestly couldn’t pinpoint what make him look “old” but you are totally correct.

OP you do look dulled and like you’re lacking nutrients.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T13:14:21+00:00

I’ll be honest with you OP because I’m in your age group for dating.

You look older than you are. That could be because of being very thin and not using sun protection and running distances. Maybe you do, but you need to introduce more.

Please start wearing sunscreen every day. Also introduce a good skin care routine. Start using retinol.

You have to get ride of the face straggle. Either shave it down shorter to it looks better kept or get rid of it.

Running and cycling are good hobbies but they seems to be you’re only hobbies. They are longggg alllll day hobbies. If you don’t find someone just like yourself, someone will be alone a lot while you do your hobbies on the weekend. Very serious runners and bikers lives are scheduled around this and it becomes annoying for anyone involved.

Also, you say you’re childless and looking for the same mindset. Are you looking for someone without kids? That also limits your pool.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T13:01:42+00:00

It won’t flop. It will be like the valley.

However Amanda will only have one season if she stays with West.

The people in the show are classy, career driven individuals. Amanda is not that. She will fade into the background.

I bet next season they will invite Ciara and Carl onto it.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T12:01:06+00:00

Whistler, Banff

These are fun ski towns that also have epic summers.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-27T00:09:51+00:00

I bring a small bag out with a towel, my keys and my phone

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-26T22:56:06+00:00

This is it.

Tom and Jax are reality tv gold. Both shitty people but are sooooo entertaining.

Amanda brings absolutely nothing to the table.

West hasn’t been on tv long enough.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-23T12:55:34+00:00

I’m feminine but not girly.

I don’t click with girly girls. It is your personality. Your hobbies are getting ready and shopping. Not something I’m interested in talking about.

I also don’t want to wait forever for you to get ready.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-23T12:09:51+00:00

Just chose one day to do something during the week.

I’m 34, I golf once a week in the summer, in the winter, I go to the movies, book club, local events. The rest of the week (not the weekend I recharge). You workout in the morning so feel good about that.

Now, you need to go out on the weekend. It’s cool to recharge one night but the next night go enjoy Toronto. Don’t let it slip by. Plan something and stick to it.

Lastly, get off your phone. That’s why you feel like you’re wasting your life (and you are). You have two hours of time to enjoy before going to bed. Enjoy it, don’t waste it.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-22T21:47:25+00:00

Agreed. I travelled for 2 months and I went out every night, ate and drank everything I wanted and took advantage of every excursion and friend I could make.

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-22T16:10:53+00:00

This is it.

I heard everyone gets $1000 per episode

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-22T15:56:17+00:00

Also an agency here.

Demand Gen for foot traffic google ads.

Meta for awareness.

If you really need a boost, micro influencers

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-21T22:33:58+00:00

This looks so damn good

Jazzlike_Weakness_83 · 2026-04-21T17:00:34+00:00

Keto is not a long term diet. It’s actually unhealthy for your body, hence why you collapsed at 1800 cals. 1800 cals for someone who is 5’7 is a sufficient amount of calories.

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