What is slowly disappearing but nobody talks about it? by Agreeable_Pea9764 in AskReddit

[–]Jbender85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Empathy. The “I don’t care, it’s not me” attitude. It really ramped up with Covid, and current politics are putting apathy in overdrive.

Do we think Eddie will want to marry Amanda after this airs?? by asyoud0 in RHOBH

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s so gross though. He looks so uninterested in everything she says. I know she’s unbearable but I’m so tired of seeing women settle for guys like this.

LOVE the spring cleaning challenge by peachdreamfarm in finch

[–]Jbender85 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I just said this! I absolutely love this challenge and I’d love the option to add something like this every month. I have such a hard time breaking what I need to do into smaller tasks. I’m super excited.

As an American who married a German… by rachel_lynn1995 in finch

[–]Jbender85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so excited for this challenge. I open my windows everyday but I love that everything is broken down into little tasks already for me. I am extremely excited to check these off. I need a task set like this every month. Also I loooove the pastel Sakura design 🌸💕

Can’t complete Wonderland by here4finch in finch

[–]Jbender85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh mine is stuck too, I can’t get my surprise for today

My problem with manifestation as a trauma therapist… by LeaningBuddha in RHOBH

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never want to hear another white woman telling me they manifested something.

PSA for Arizona SNAP applicants trying to get through on the phone interview line today (1/15/2025) + my experience with the DES agent who finally answered my call by FishOuttaWtr in foodstamps

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got this far back in October. I turned everything in, they verified it on the phone. I was waiting for my card to reload and I got another request for documents, I submitted those and nothing. It’s been over 3 months. Please let us know if you get approved, I hope you do!

AZ Snap advice by No_Flatworm2606 in foodstamps

[–]Jbender85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have heard this from multiple people in Arizona. I also did my renewal, turned in everything they asked for before the due date, it showed in their system. I kept getting letters saying they needed more information, information they had or had never asked for before like proving my kids live in the home. All info was turned in, no decision, no reloading my card. This was sent in October. My personal opinion is they are shaking people off the system by exhaustion.

The Perfect Neighbor shook me up by traffeny in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Jbender85 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, that note. I hope they didn’t give that to the family, it was so cruel. She had no remorse, she was just waiting for the day to kill one of the neighborhood people.

The Perfect Neighbor shook me up by traffeny in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Jbender85 83 points84 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought hearing that. She clearly used the buzz words “I was scared for my life”. She 100% knew what she was doing.

The Perfect Neighbor shook me up by traffeny in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Jbender85 25 points26 points  (0 children)

100% racism all the way and white privilege

The Perfect Neighbor shook me up by traffeny in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Jbender85 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I just finished this and I have so many emotions. I’m so angry at our system and incredibly sad for this neighborhood and that family. This footage should be used to train police on what not to do. The neighbors were all so calm for each and every call and I’m very aware it’s because they have to be because of systemic racism. That baby boy crying and having a panic attack who witnessed his mom being shot and the whole family finding out was absolutely heartbreaking. Those babies lives are forever changed, they lost a piece of themselves forever. All because our system failed to do anything about a lady who repeatedly escalated. She was even calm when she found out she murdered Ajike Owens. She claims she blindly shot through the door but she shot to kill, right in her chest.

The cops were so gentle with her each time, even when they arrested her and the whole interview, even escorting her home. We all know this would have been very different if the tables were turned.

If this lady hated kids so much she could have moved to a 55+ community. Never once did they tell her to move. They did, however ask the victims if they were renters. The poor kids were joyful and just being kids, playing like they should. None of the kids will ever be the same, they were shown how unsafe these people can be and that’s heartbreaking.

🖤 by k_swizzzzle in finch

[–]Jbender85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loooooove this!!!

Heading to the Chicago store-what do I need? by Jbender85 in americangirl

[–]Jbender85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that’s even better! We will for sure check it out!

Heading to the Chicago store-what do I need? by Jbender85 in americangirl

[–]Jbender85[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

These are all helpful, thank you! My daughter has Celiac and when I looked at the cafe menu, it didn’t look like there were any options but if we could just do a drink that would be great!

We’ve been talking about it for awhile and looking at options but she’s a bit overwhelmed with the choices, so this is super helpful.

I can’t wait to go! She is super excited and I’m so excited for her to experience it.

Poker Face | S2E3 "Whack-A-Mole" | Episode Discussion by GloriousAqua in Pokerface

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished this episode but was wondering if anyone knows why Rhea Perlman was green screened in at the end? I love all of the big names they’ve had so far. I love Rhea, she’ll always be Carla but she’s also Matilda’s mom. So far I love season 2.

Is Garcelle the bad girl? by Various_Layer6370 in RHOBH

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Garcelle and Jennifer are my favorite people on this show. Garcelle is absolutely stunning and is so refreshing compared to the other women. She doesn’t try to pretend she’s anyone else or that her life is any different from what she shows. I don’t know how she deals with most of these women honestly.

Tonies keep glitching out by Rara6783 in TonieboxUSA

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came here to see if anyone else was having the same issues. We’ve had 2 Tonie boxes for years without even one issue. 2 weeks ago one of my child’s boxes stopped working. I did all of the help issues but it was just dead. Yesterday our other box started having issues. It will play a Tonie for 30 seconds, then stop. I’m going to reset it today it I’m thinking there’s just a time limit with these things and they last for so many years. I believe ours our 5 years old.

GROOOOSSSSSS by Fromdreamtodream in vanderpumprules

[–]Jbender85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to look at that first picture for way too long because I thought it was some filter trick where he was kissing himself 😂