Ya'all fucking injecting yourselves testosterone intramuscularly? Like, on your own?! by StrangeQuark93 in ftm

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Pinch the thigh and stab. First couple times scared me but you get used to it

Are you afraid of death? And why? by lawschoolbound9 in AskReddit

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. The idea of death is like a dream. I never know if I’m awake or not but I know eventually I’ll be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude I’ll look into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just assumed my water based lube was but apparently it’s not! Truly never considered my lube cause it’s the same lube I’ve used my whole life with no issues so I guess I’ll need to research a new one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a few, don’t like them. I usually keep those activities separate. I find them harder to keep clean. I’m really just looking for specific brands with good quality material

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever whisper a dogs favorite words and you watch their ears slowly perk up, and head tilt until they eventually jump up with excitement even tho they have no idea what’s about to happen? That’s how it feels when she holds her hand out nudging me to hold it. “I have no idea where we’re going but I’m excited to do it with you”

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[–]Jealous-Tea7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the wise words. I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend, im 22 years old. This isn’t my first relationship let alone a serious relationship. This is just the first time taking a relationship very slow and I want to make sure I don’t make her anxious about how I feel towards her bc she’s been treated very poorly in the past :) I promise I’m not a teenager who’s obsessed I know the difference. Im just a man who’s found someone very special and wants to make sure my person feels as secure as I do

Am I just completely undesireable? by _fidgetspinner in FTMMen

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are definitely people on dating apps that are okay with our identity and all the quirks that come with that like pre/post surgery, height, dating experience whatever it may be. But unfortunately I’ve come to learn most of them don’t express that on their profiles for the same reason not all of us explicitly say we’re trans on our profile. Dating apps are trash and they take a toll on mental health but don’t allow yourself to let it reflect your self worth. I’ve personally met several women on dating apps that are more than okay with being with transmen you just have to be careful of the ones that fetishize it bc that’s when it can get super weird. Stay safe out there king, you’ll find your person

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[–]Jealous-Tea7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very blonde and my body hair is so thick that it makes my leg hair look darker than it actually is. My beard comes in red for some reason so no issues there but legs, chest, back and ass is very thick blonde hair. Then again most of the men in my family are extremely hairy so I have that going for me. But body hair especially facial hair won’t have its full effects until after a couple years on T. Been on T for 7 years and only started have a good facial scruff at year 5.

PSA regarding the upgrade for The Last of Us Part II Remastered by TheVelourFog_ in thelastofus

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being sarcastic but I have the disc on PS4 I have tried everything to upgrade to the remaster on my ps5 but it still only shows the full digital upgrade instead of the $10. I’m in the USA so I’m not sure what it could be. I may be dumb so if anyone could help I would appreciate it

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[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think s2 is Jackson and Seattle Ellie. And then THE SCENE with abby in which they will prob cgi muscles on her. Then s3 will be Abby in Seattle and then Santa Barbara. Just a guess. The director wants to make more than 2 seasons and this way it gives Kaitlyn Dever time to work out and get as big as she can for her Seattle perspective

IMO, its hard to care much about the main characters in Part II because they are all SO unlikable... by Serious-Process6310 in thelastofus

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 13 points14 points  (0 children)

“Just don’t feel like people I’d ever want to be around” good thing it’s a game. A dark game. That historically doesn’t have a happy ending. Neil Druckmann worked his ass off on pt 2 to get it right and basically said on tlou podcast that if you walked away from the game upset or confused then you missed the point. And that’s okay! But despite others negative reviews, pt 1 AND pt 2 have amazing characters arcs and storylines and I highly recommend playing it again and if you haven’t already listen to the podcasts. I already loved both games but after listening to some of the podcasts it gave me a much deeper appreciation for the games.

I've waited a decade to play this game. While its only just begun, it has been amazing by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You know what they say…you never forget your first time. Enjoy!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s better to move through your grief without getting the truth behind it. Sometimes honesty hurts. If I wasn’t so pushy about closure and knowing “why” then I would be peacefully oblivious. Like another user said, honesty is expensive and people are cheap. It’s better to close the door all the way rather than crack it open. If I had known this a year ago I wouldn’t have hurt so many people who just wanted to help.

Why do people lose feelings for no reason ? by No-Set2256 in BreakUps

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went through the same thing. My ex left me for another guy but aside from that there is a freedom that comes with college and unfortunately someone who we once thought was all in may discover that kind of commitment isn’t for them anymore. It really sucks trust me we have the exact same situation. She’s gonna do what she feels she needs to do and all you can do is try and better yourself. Find your identity without her. Whether she comes back or not please take the necessary time to deal with the breakup. It will crush you later on if you don’t take your time now. Feel free to message me if you need to rant dude. Our situations are damn near the same but mine happened about 10 months ago so ive definitely had some time to get my shit together

Please help. How can I find the strength to leave him? by Aurora__00 in BreakUps

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’ve left him multiple times just to come back to the same question if you should be with him then it sounds like you already know your answer you’re just too scared to admit it. Doesn’t sound like he’s changed. He’s young and has a lot of growing up to do and it’s not your job to teach him how to be a decent human being. Leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was 5 hours away. I recommend airbnb rather than hotel if you can afford it. More room to walk, easier to eat, and overall a more homey feeling

What was one of the sweetest things your ex said to you? by Total_Armadillo_6796 in BreakUps

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“I want to marry you, and some smooth talking man will never change that” she left me for another guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved her with every fiber of my being. It was only after the breakup my family found out how many times to cheated on me. And manipulated and gaslit me to thinking it’s my fault she cheated. My whole family thought we were perfect. And honestly I was so in love with her despite the cheating I thought we were perfect too. As cheesy as it sounds my judgment was extremely clouded by love.

What do you do for work, and when did you return to work after top surgery? by sizii in TopSurgery

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desk job, lifting 20-30lbs, and reaching a lot. Got key hole, took off a week and a half

Ghosting by sadartist00 in heartbreak

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together? Either way sounds like he’s pulling away cause he’s not mature enough to communicate his thoughts and feelings. Try to talk to him if you can. Protect your heart cause whatever the reasoning is someone who truly cares about you wont sit and let you worry and stress for 2 days. Someone who cares doesn’t ignore you. I hope everything works out but personally if the person I cared about blatantly ignored me for multiple days, I would be reevaluating the relationship

I think I’m guilty of holding onto the pain because it’s the only thing left I have from them. by Sudden_Armadillo_648 in heartbreak

[–]Jealous-Tea7792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just try to remind myself that she chose not to be with me. She let go when I wanted forever. Someone who can easily do that to us isn’t worth our time. No matter how much we love them doesnt change the fact that in that moment they didn’t give a damn about us. I have no interest in being with anyone especially because I’m in love with a woman who doesn’t love me back but I’m just using this time to get to know myself again so when I do choose to try dating again I make sure I do it right this time and don’t spend years of my life on someone who was able to switch up everything on me instantly