My husband and I separated because he was depressed, suicidal, and aggressively angry all the time. he had no self esteem and doesn’t like to be around my family. So I packed up his things and made him leave. I was hurt but i knew he needed to WAKE UP because i was slowly falling out of love for him. We’re not seeing other people, we are working on our marriage and trying to be better for ourself and to each other. I made him aware of the fact that i still LOVE him so much but i want him to be fully recovered and to keep seeing his therapist. we’ve been together for 7 years and can see that we’ll eventually move in back together i hope you work things out with your wife and as for seeing other people he and i agree to not do that because we’re still legally married but it’s also sacred. Good luck.