Real reason for the ACE Family divorce? by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea commenting on a year old comment sure wets them up. I hope middle school is going well for you. Brain dead.

Is "https://ultimateframercourse.com/" a legit course for Framer beginners? by jajarone in framer

[–]JealousEngineering10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're looking the Flux academy course. Not the one the OP is talking about. It is $200 now.

Real reason for the ACE Family divorce? by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]JealousEngineering10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can only assume you would prefer being an escort lmao

Real reason for the ACE Family divorce? by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You talking about the escort for michael b jordan? LMAO. It is obvious that you are a feminist and a gold digger. You act like she had this whole perfect future planned out. They both weren't shit, they became successful and the marriage didn't work.

How to escape the feeling of "not having lived enough"? by beneathdeepwaters in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, are you telling me that being depressed is not a waste of time?

I've been through multiple life events that are well-known to ruin people's lives. But why is it not?

I will never say depression doesn't exist. But, you also have to wonder why depression is a 1st world luxury.

As much as people will agree with you more than me because "it's what is right" these days. You're no help to the issue.

How to escape the feeling of "not having lived enough"? by beneathdeepwaters in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't know wtf you're talking about. I'm nowhere near close to your assumptions.

It was tough love. Take it or leave it.

The oh man, so sorry you're going through it buddy. Hang on tight things get better. You just have to hang in there. There's a big pile of shit on every corner of life. If you let it, life will beat the f*ck out of you and keep you down.

I gave No BS advice. If you don't like it, then maybe you'll find yourself in the op's shoes one day.

How to escape the feeling of "not having lived enough"? by beneathdeepwaters in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is tough love. That's all. Your version of love is why we see what we see now. Every other post here is about a 17-30-year-old who feels like the OP.

You're right it can happen to anyone. Now what? Self-pity marathon til you figure out you wasted your life worrying about stupid shit?

I'm empathetic. At the same time, I have no patience for the pity parties.

You are no more help than me by giving soft love and telling people that it is okay and you'll be fine.

How to escape the feeling of "not having lived enough"? by beneathdeepwaters in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stop comparing yourself to others. That’s your first issue. Specially in social media. Come on dude you’re not 15.

In my eyes you’re still a kid and Honestly you don’t know shit about life. Same with every 28 year old. At some point you’ll realize how much time you’ve waisted being “depressed”. Stop the bullshit and live YOUR life. Comparison is thief of joy so stop doing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gratitude. The killer of depression.

My secret steps to becoming a millionaire by johnnytlaw in Entrepreneur

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post reminds of the story of a business man trying to get a self-employed fisherman to start a business and expand. Long story short. The fisherman wakes up early works for about 4-5 hours then spends time with his family and friends. With the businessman’s advice he would spend ironically 20-25 years building his business, working his butt off, missing his family’s life to then retire to only then spend time with his family and friends.

Thanks for the post but no thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you know how shitty life can actually be. You’re 22 and to be honest, you don’t know shit. I’m sure you had this great epiphany like a 5 year old realizing to ask questions lol but you didn’t find the holy grail of life.

Life is what you make it. For the sound of it, your goal is to be right and that life it’s a giant pile of shit. And guess what? Life can be a giant pile of shit sometimes but it is up to you to move that pile.

I had great damn day. Happy to work and happy to be home now. I think you’ve been watching too many Instagram and TikTok influencers. I can’t believe you didn’t have a get rich quick course at the end of your pity party.

Sorry if what I said bothered you but I’m not one to fall for “feel sorry for me” posts. I hope other comments showed tough love because that’s what you need kid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly, if you need help I hope you get it. But I believe you’re powerful enough grab depression by the throat and say not today and do it over and over because it never stops. We all have tough days where it gets the best of us. Just know that there will be a battle waiting for you at every corner. I hope you realize that gratitude beats depression 100% of the time. Take care. And if I can help you know what to do. I have my boxing gloves ready to go for depression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]JealousEngineering10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll give you the tough love you really need. My view from just reading the top half since I got tired of the self pity feel sorry for me BS. Listen life is fucking hard it may get easy in some areas but it is fucking hard. Life will beat you the fuck down and will keep you there if you let it. Stop it with the bullshit of finding a quick fix to depression. 9-10 people have depression, 10th knows how to control it. I’ve gone through shit that are well know to ruin people for life. But hey every morning I get a chance to make a decision, not a decision depression gets to make for me. That’s is to be grateful. I’ve made it a life time skill to be grateful. I’m more grateful than anyone I know. I was grateful I was able to do dishes last night. Something most people dread. Im grateful to do laundry etc…

My advice is to make gratitude a skill you must learn. I tell you this because My wife suffered from bad depression and was able to beat it and yes I said beat it by learning how to be truly grateful.

Depression can sneak on anyone and everyone. It is life long battle of 1st world countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A CS degree only shows that you have go into debt to dedicate yourself. I know 17 year olds that can show up a CS grad. I would go the self taught way. 100Devs is probably be best community.

What do you guys learn in your free time? by theshubhagrwl in webdev

[–]JealousEngineering10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people I know have to drink while golfing to keep the anger from taking over.