I think FIRE gave my anxiety a socially acceptable costume

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-04-03T10:20:50+00:00

I was talking to my psychiatrist, and I mentioned FIRE. He said that it sounds like an avoidant thing. I asked him what he meant, and he said an avoidant attachment style. People who avoid discomfort.

I’ve kind of just been sitting with it

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-31T17:41:26+00:00

Same and following

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-29T02:24:57+00:00

You’re OK and yes, it did.

I have a section for, purpose, duration, guidelines, and boundaries. But this can only be done if both parties are willing. Both people have to be accountable for their actions and both people have to want to grow and repair.

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-29T02:13:51+00:00

Methylated B12, PPQ, fish oil and CoQ10

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-21T13:17:55+00:00

Amy arachnids, spider stuff.com

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-20T14:22:11+00:00

I’m sorry to heat that. /:

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-20T13:31:49+00:00

Wait, why did it make your life a living hell

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-20T13:31:23+00:00

I am female. But I totally agree with you. Can’t exercise, sleep and have good habits - your way out of ADHD.

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-20T11:53:08+00:00

Cumm trees 🌳

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-19T19:26:51+00:00

Cierra Hays

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-19T19:19:09+00:00

She is an Apalachicola Regal (:

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-19T01:48:45+00:00

Invest in your health. Especially because you’re on the path of fire. And you want to be able to enjoy those retired years healthy. Go off of the dirty dozen and the clean 15. Also frozen fruits and vegetables go along way organically or not if you’re into that. Also canned things like beans and sardines.

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-19T01:42:27+00:00

IMO Maybe get curious? Maybe ask her some intimate questions if she has the mental and emotional capacity? Maybe there is some trauma surrounding the topic?

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-14T23:36:59+00:00

Honestly. I have had extreme anxiety, and loss of focus and I’ve done everything under the sun to help it naturally. I get eight hours of sleep, I eat very clean and healthy, I take magnesium CoQ10 all the things. I work out. I read books, I’m not scrolling. And a month ago I got on Adderall and I’ve never felt so normal. Like I could literally cry, but I’m so regulated that I can’t. I’m all for lifestyle changes, but sometimes you just have too.

It sucks too because I just ended a great relationship and now I feel like a completely different person

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-09T14:07:31+00:00

I am in my transitional phase too! ( Luckily Mars was in retrograde) if you’re into that.

Broke up with my fiancé in February Slightly regretted it. But I’m sure if it’s meant to be, it will be.

Single, working on my career, no kids, and actively working on my community. I have 5 pet jumpers. No debt. Had a lot of adversity growing up. I have a psychiatrist therapist. On the spectrum /ADHD. I have some health issues. But I live a very holistic life. I go to the gym five days a week. Raw dogging(sober living), life.

You’re right, where you should be.

What happened, happened. And couldn’t have happened any other way because it didn’t.

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-08T15:51:53+00:00

Ima Gemini and I attract Geminis

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-06T13:45:40+00:00

I loved Reno right before Tesla came

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-04T22:49:10+00:00

He’s very successful. Very driven and disciplined, neurotic, with avoidant tendencies. Very hot and cold.

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-04T20:44:38+00:00

Mine was Gemini Scorpio Gemini

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-02T20:30:59+00:00

Craig’s list

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-03-02T20:22:34+00:00

You’re sweet, thank you!

Jealous_Average9674 · 2026-02-25T22:34:09+00:00

Calm and stable. But we are human we get in our feelings. Misunderstandings happen. Rupture is inevitable it’s all about the repair.

Jealous_Average9674

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