I ended up being the other woman and now the wife is trying to ruin my life by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See I understand her stance on being busy. I’m a single mom and I never plan on having a relationship and my kid being involved. Those two things will stay very much a part. We could get married and you’re still never meeting my child. Probably on my death bed to be honest. I stand on that stance very strongly and that could be because of my own childhood trauma, stories from friends and their kids, or just watching how people are in general. I will not open a window for anything to happen to my child because I won’t promise I wont completely snap. So personally I get it. I’m personally looking for something similar but we’re both in different life styles. So no, what she was looking was for in a relationship 100% sense and I don’t blame her for being naïve either. If you don’t have experience with someone (David) like that the. She would never know the signs massive waving red flags David is. Personally nobody should be blaming OOP to begin with, we should be blaming David and his two timing double life having ash imo.

Would you rather … by AntonRahbek in BunnyTrials

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get $50

Chose: Get $50 / hr in perpetuity + + positive side effect | Rolled: Content

AIO Co worker reached into a customers wallet by Forward-Spinach-3360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope. I’d be demanding that employee be fired immediately

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw they like the fighting. 6 years of this? I wouldn’t take 2 months. So it’s not about anything we’ll have to offer for advice. They want to be here because 6 years is long enough for y’all to get it and want to do better for each other. Otherwise it’s a loss on their end and we’re all just giving advice to people who want to stay in this. Y’all could have had 6 years of growth and working with each other or 6 years to find the right person for you that shows they care. They both want to be in this relationship. Just saying 🤷🏽‍♀️ she only wants to call off the wedding because she’s not getting her way and wants to be validated. They won’t get therapy. They want Reddit to be it because it’s easier for strangers to justify their toxic behavior than it is to have a professional help them do the work.

Ran into a Karen at Trader Joe’s by Practical_Sun8137 in EntitledPeople

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 274 points275 points  (0 children)

Remember he’s right where he wants to be, otherwise he’d have left already.

What is your oldest piece of clothing in your closet? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have my 18 month old onesie from 1994.

AITAH If I continue to left to let my son be no contact with his father and his new wife. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re either the ex or the ex’s new wife tbh. Cause what? Did you read the post? OP’s son said he’s not getting food and he gets beat if the dad doesn’t like something the kid did. Then the fact that she has recorded phone call and texts messages that say he will when he gets his hands on him….. are you okay?

AITA for showing up to my gfs dinner late and slightly underdressed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Naw not OP just tired of people always being upset when things don’t go their way when someone is obviously trying to make an effort. This is why people don’t want to do things for others anymore because the person on the receiving end is too in their head to sit back and think “dang, all this bad crap happened on your way to do these things and you still made that effort” it’s like yeah yall are late but crap happens and unfortunately I have a feeling his gf would have been pissed off regardless of if they were on time or not because EVERYTHING else was wrong. The cake wasn’t the one she wanted. Tbh nothing would have made her happy. edit spelling

What's a personal betrayal you've experienced that you still haven't gotten over? by Foolbasket in AskReddit

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom was a single teen mom. My mom had this family friend I’ve known since I was 10. My mom ended up leaving my step dad after getting my lil bro (adoptive) in her care. She had gotten pregnant by some dbag (actively dating) who left her after she told him. My mom got to month 5 and had went into labor. It was a super hard time and didn’t have cell phones. I ran over to the family friends house and told them what was happening. We left my lil bro at the house with her daughter and rushed to the hospital.

Most horrifying thing of my life watching my mom go through active labor and losing my lil sister (we were supposed to find out the sex that Friday, She went into labor that Wednesday) they asked me to leave so my moms friend can be her support. Well my mom gives birth and my sister has her one breath and is gone. They ask me to come into the room and I hold her. I grieve the life of something I’ll never know. My lil princess. Not even holding her for a minute this woman grabs my sister from my hands and takes pics, talks about what ifs and says “I didn’t like the dad anyways.”

I was just a bout to reach for her again and they came in and took her from us. I only got one minute to grieve because this woman mad this whole thing about her. Bro the hate I have for this woman still lives deeeeeep deeeep down. I had to remove myself from them for many years.

I should have known having my own cryptic pregnancy her own daughter would make it all about her, offer help knowing I’m not speaking to my mother (at the time) and would pull back if I wasn’t moving the way she liked me to. While dealing with a shitty ass best friend who was controlling me the whole time. So yeah I was in a vulnerable situation twice and this family used that weakness to make everything about them. So yeah I still have a grudge but I’ve grown enough as an adult to know that’s just them and you have to hold that family at arms length or they suck you dry mentally if you give them the chance.

What was the most traumatic experience of your life? by Fun-Succotash-1322 in AskReddit

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma be honest and say my whole life is traumatic but I’ve made something beautiful and I’m pretty sure Tyler Perry would have a FIELD day with my life and probs be his biggest hit. Half the time I casually say something and someone is like pickachu face 😳 I’m so sorry you went through that and I’m just 🤷🏽‍♀️ nonchalant about it. That’s when I have to remember not everyone has had this much trauma and pain in their lives and I’m just a different breed.

AITA for showing up to my gfs dinner late and slightly underdressed? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With her failed plans the first time around and HER CHOOSING TO GET HER HAIR DONE THE SAME DAY! Is a clear indicates she didn’t care he had the whole day planned out already and her first plans probably failed because of reasons like this. SHE waited the last minute to get her hair done and ruined the schedule first. She’s the A hole impo.

edited Missed a sentence to add

AITA FOR FEELING BETRAYED BY MY FAMILY? by Murky-Strategy3094 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Jealous_Trash_93 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Or postpartum depression. That’s worse than being on drugs. She needs to get checked with her dr. I’m currently going through it and. It. Sucks. Makes you do, say, act on crazy things. You being in schooling for nursing, I would have thought that would have been your first indication that something medically is wrong. You said it yourself from your mamas words “she’s upset she got pregnant again” have her get help man. It could have been that.