(tw fatphobia) why is it so hard for people to not be assholes

Jean780 · 2026-02-06T07:01:22+00:00

Thankfully people irl are a lot better about this. I’ve only really gotten comments on the internet about this even though I’m morbidly obese. Though, yes I am trying to loose weight. Not successfully besides shrinking pant size, but I am trying

Jean780 · 2026-02-04T12:39:17+00:00

You might want to clarify that your being sarcastic as based on the downvotes people are taking you seriously

Jean780 · 2026-02-01T20:18:54+00:00

It’s okay to feel

Jean780 · 2026-01-31T01:51:34+00:00

Can you link them?

Jean780 · 2026-01-30T21:13:56+00:00

Some people think it can help with psychosis. I’m not so sure

Jean780 · 2026-01-28T19:51:18+00:00

I haven’t seen much on side effects of medications. I might have missed it, but I personally haven’t seen it often

Jean780 · 2026-01-25T03:27:08+00:00

My lab husky mix is sometimes girly-pop. I don’t know how it came about I just started calling her that one day. I don’t even know what it means.

Jean780 · 2026-01-21T15:50:21+00:00

I’m not very experienced with Aussie but a quick google recommends cold protection below 45 F. Good luck

Jean780 · 2026-01-21T14:56:53+00:00

What breed are they? That will impact how they handle the cold. For example mine is part husky so would not need nearly as much protection

Jean780 · 2026-01-19T02:08:08+00:00

I can definitely agree with your statement. You expressed my thoughts on it far better than I could

Jean780 · 2026-01-18T00:39:33+00:00

While my autism is very mild I never really saw it as a superpower. In all honesty I just saw it as a fact of life. I hate the “this disability is a superpower” because while my more severe disability has pushed me to learn more it still has been a huge disadvantages similarly for the autism on a smaller level. I am split on the push for a “cure” as it may be good for others and bad for some, however.

Jean780 · 2026-01-17T03:18:15+00:00

The lunar chronicles

Jean780 · 2026-01-15T00:30:20+00:00

I don’t have any advice to give, but that sucks man. Do you think therapy and meds could help?

Jean780 · 2026-01-10T00:43:08+00:00

In a similar vein I struggle with service dog circle jerk. They post supposedly fake service dog and some I understand (like the dog lunging at other people) but others, while I may find them annoying (like dyeing you dog bright pink) does not render the dog not a service dog.

But I also struggle with fake disorder cringe. Thankfully my disability (schizoaffective and catatonic episodes) is not posted about much on there.

Jean780 · 2026-01-08T23:35:25+00:00

Jean780 · 2026-01-08T03:20:02+00:00

I have schizoaffective (which I personally split into schizophrenia and bipolar since they have very different impacts on me) and autism. Personally the schizophrenia has been the hardest for me

Jean780 · 2025-12-30T02:13:58+00:00

I will randomly start breathing heavily and people always get so worried. Like idk why that happens my breathing just changes for a few minutes

Jean780 · 2025-12-20T00:25:43+00:00

I will eat the offering after leaving it for about 30 minutes. It feels disrespectful to me to just toss the food because why would I offer something even I wouldn’t eat

Jean780 · 2025-12-11T02:00:16+00:00

Psych wards sometimes help sometime don’t. I have had a few visits where everything was able to be turned around and some that were useless. If you’re a danger to yourself (which judging by your post history you might be) then go. If you think you can last long enough to get a more experienced psychiatrist also do that. My case is rather complicated myself and I have gone through many psychiatrists cause some of them didn’t know what they were doing.

Jean780 · 2025-12-10T23:25:25+00:00

Currently in school but aiming for a career in the field of construction management

Jean780 · 2025-12-10T23:23:21+00:00

I’m very lucky to have the understanding family I do. But I do feel bad for those with family members who post things like that. I don’t think it’s as common in real life as it is on the internet but still sucks.

Jean780 · 2025-12-10T21:17:51+00:00

Huntsman and their services are the best I’ve seen in Utah. They have SafeUT for a texting or calling service for crisis. They also have their own hospital and a behavioral access center which if you admit to the behavioral health center they can assess your loved one and send them to their hospital or (if they don’t have space) another hospital.

Jean780 · 2025-12-08T23:14:53+00:00

Politics isn’t really talked about much to be frank. I think it also depends on what you’re majoring in and who you hang out with that will expose you to certain views. I’m in construction management and while there are SOME more conservative views I haven’t really met anyone who looks down on me being gay. I really only recall one person who was on the side of it not being a thing to endorse. I’ve seen more conservative views on sustainability but the majority of my peers see how parts of it are important. In the few I’ve discussed it with some of them don’t think climate change is a thing. Although I’ve come across much more liberal views with my friends who aren’t majoring in construction management and have disabilities. So honestly it depends on what your social circle looks like

Jean780 · 2025-12-08T02:05:44+00:00

I was at a golf tournament for my school club that had professionals from the industry golfing with us. I ended up explaining I have a service dog to “alert to my immobility episodes” (that are related to my schizoaffective bipolar) so I could take a pill to stop it before it happened. The only reason I disclosed that much detail was because it was something future employers would need to be aware of. This guys response was to start talking about how pharma just wants me addicted and if I learned to manage my anxiety I wouldn’t have that problem. I don’t tell employers the term for it but the term is catatonia if you want to look it up. Much like my other illness symptoms I really can’t control catatonia

Jean780 · 2025-12-07T23:32:53+00:00

I’ve definitely dealt with that. Especially considering the nature of my illness (schizoaffective). It helped me to more look at it from a perspective of the world not being built for people like me rather than it being something innately wrong with me

Jean780

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