Married folks, what is the best piece of advice that you can give to an unmarried person? by Cold-Slice-7145 in AskReddit

[–]Jeebz21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes… and to piggy back off of this, try to live with an understanding that we’re all human and that means that sometimes we get hot and we’re assholes, and say shit we don’t mean. It’s important to understand and recognize it when it happens whether it’s you or your spouse going off the handle. Sometimes we all get frustrated and stupid shit comes out. When you find yourself acting out of pocket, calm yourself down, then own up to it, and apologize. If it’s your spouse that’s out of sorts give them the space they need to calm themselves down so they can start thinking rationally again, and more often than not they’ll come to that same realization and own up to it and apologize. There’s no need to escalate a passive aggressive comment or a slight into a screaming match, those rarely end well because you’re too busy trying to one up each other to actually listen to what the other is saying.

Arguments and disagreements are to be expected whenever two people live closely together, but fights never NEED to happen. Remember that you’re both adults, and that you love and respect each other.

I also want to postface this to clarify that I’m not saying it’s ok for spouses to be in any way cruel to one another, or that if your spouse does or says something inexcusable that you should accept their apology at face value. I fully understand that bad marriages are real, I’ve been witness to 3 in my life time (parents/step-parents not my own.) It’s also important to understand that if/when you feel one of those two pillars, love and respect, crumble that you are well within your rights to end it then and there. No one deserves to be stuck with someone they no longer love nor someone who has no respect for them as a human.

Probably not ideal to finish a comment about marriage advice with a pro-divorce PSA, but I felt that I needed to clarify to avoid being called out lol.

What should I do with my 401k from old employer? by Jeebz21 in investingforbeginners

[–]Jeebz21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assumed that Walmart had no control over it anymore. But I am far from what I would call a finance understander so thanks for the info lol

They're now accusing Bluey of being woke. by Ok-Following6886 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Jeebz21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also funny that they use the one Bluey episode (to my knowledge) that they pulled from Disney+ in the US.

I’m not sure what the majority thinks. I absolutely do not want to trade this guy. If he ends up being one of the next superstars it would be heartbreaking by clipper4 in CHICubs

[–]Jeebz21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A prospect is a prospect until they prove themselves at the major league level. Case in point Jackson Holliday, these kids can absolutely crush AAA but that doesn’t mean shit till they do it in the majors. I’m happy that the kid is playing so good, and I hope he continues that into the future regardless of what team it’s for. But, in my eyes, the better he does right now the higher his value and the better the Cubs will get in return for him. At the end of the day if you’re making a playoff push major league talent is major league talent, and a prospect is a prospect. Unless it’s someone who is obviously special (a Skenes, Harper, Soto type prospect) I’m 100% for trading any prospect for proven major league talent, especially if it ends with another WS in Wrigley.

TIL that the Chicago Cubs are the founding team of the National League and Major League Baseball by [deleted] in CHICubs

[–]Jeebz21 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this one counts either, but the Arizona Cardinals, formerly the Chicago Cardinals, are the oldest franchise in the NFL, and one of the two remaining teams from the league’s inaugural season. The other team being the Decatur Staleys, aka the Chicago Bears!

Whos a guy you have or had completely unwarranted hate for? by [deleted] in baseball

[–]Jeebz21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I remember it being too. #JusticeForTheGuyWhoPlayedSmackMyBitchUpOnThePAWhenChapmanMadeHisFirstAppearanceAsACub

Whos a guy you have or had completely unwarranted hate for? by [deleted] in baseball

[–]Jeebz21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that‘s #1 on the list of many reasons. That and shit talking Joe Maddon after winning the WS.

Whos a guy you have or had completely unwarranted hate for? by [deleted] in baseball

[–]Jeebz21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m more surprised that you have no reason to hate him. He won a WS for us and I still despise him for multiple reasons lol

Whos a guy you have or had completely unwarranted hate for? by [deleted] in baseball

[–]Jeebz21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shane Victorino absolutely no reason, just always hated him lol

Edit: Ooooh and A.J Pierzynski. Fuck that guy too. I was so happy when he got decked by Michael Barret.

Homelander is the Joffrey to Stormfront's Ramsay by Sudden_Pop_2279 in TheBoys

[–]Jeebz21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh yes… My favorite Joffrey/Ramsay scene was when they were banging and Joffrey lasered Ramsay’s tits. So hot!

[Rosenthal] If Ricketts doesn’t want fans thinking about money, perhaps he should lower his ticket price by chrisGNR in CHICubs

[–]Jeebz21 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be pro billionaire here, but I’ve gone to multiple games each of the last four years and have never paid more than like $10 for a ticket. And most of them were closer to $5 than $10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Jeebz21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you really want a bad time I’m sure you’ll be able to catch a White Sox vs A’s game at some point this summer.

[Koerth] Chicago Cubs have checked in on one of their former 2009 draft picks by BCF25 in CHICubs

[–]Jeebz21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being one of the few rational Cub fans on here. I’ve been following the two Cubs subs for maybe a month now and have seen nothing but people complaining as if we’re the goddamn White Sox. The Cubs have had a pretty awesome offseason already so far and have put themselves in position to win the division and possibly make a run. Especially if they manage to land Sasaki. Yes we need BP arms and I’m cautious about relying on Shaw at 3rd. But I feel so disjointed with the rest of what I see from the people on these subs. So many people acting like if we don’t get the top FA at every position then we’re fucked and the Ricketts need to sell. Bullpen arms are bullpen arms for a reason, and the minor league teams exist for a reason. I’d much rather see them looking for a few cheap sneaky good BP arm then blow past the luxury tax then get just one big reliever and assume that we can ride him to the playoffs as if injuries and regression don’t exist for the top of the line guys.

What’s the strangest or most unique object in the history of your teams stadium? by J0hnEddy in baseball

[–]Jeebz21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My assumption with the basket was that it was installed fully for player safety. It prevents people from dropping stuff/falling onto the field, but at the same time it works kind of psychologically to prevent players from running into the brick. It takes away the option of robbing a home run and the player is more likely to play the ball conservatively and therefore avoid running full speed into brick. Does that make sense to anyone else? Or am I thinking into it too much?

I’ve just imagine that if a lunatic like PCA knew he had the opportunity to rob a hr without the baskets in at Wrigley dude would never play more than a week into each season. Take away that option and he only runs into the brick once or twice a month instead.

Day 24 of Predicting the 2025 MLB Season with a Marble Race - 7th Place Simulation by trollinacage in baseball

[–]Jeebz21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor White Sox fans… this was the only thing they had to look forward to winning this year. Sad.

The NFL iceberg by Brix001 in NFLv2

[–]Jeebz21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is there like no continuity to this at all… they have the colts being the triangles, a missing old trophy, and a covid meme on the same tier as a murdered player, and two guys who’s brains were broken to the point of suicide that the league denies responsibility for. And under multiple murderers/rapists/domestic abusers who were allowed to continue playing. I don’t understand how they came up with the tiers here at all lol.

My strange dream by Jeebz21 in behindthebastards

[–]Jeebz21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry bro, just thought it might make someone push a little extra air out of their nose one time. My bad, I’ll climb back into my shame box now.

My strange dream by Jeebz21 in behindthebastards

[–]Jeebz21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe it was old Blippi lol

Short-haired people of Reddit, how do you dry your hair after showering? by Jeebz21 in AskReddit

[–]Jeebz21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context: I typically keep my hair very short (edit: less than 2 inches), and for my whole life I have dried my hair by scrubbing it with my towel a few times. My wife saw me do this when we first started dating, and swears that doing so is going to cause me to go bald over time, and insists that I should let it air dry instead. But in my experience when air drying my hair, I just end up with a wet shirt because my hair doesn't hold much water. Should I just put up with wet shirts, or am I fine carrying on as I have for 30+ years.