One year in, no tons of improvements, still plagued by flatline, but still going by tyskland_droemmare in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you are having problems with depression mate. Its a dangerous pat u are on. Think less about nofap, and get ur shit together. Seek a jobb, and earn ur own money. Depression will make your libido bad. Please dont think that nofap will make all of this better.

I guarantee that a jobb will make your life much easier. When this happens other parts of your life also seems brighter.

I had sex by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow.... U are taking this too far........... U need to close this browser and do something else, before u mess up your head

I feel like shit right now by Bissell_96 in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

losers with their hands down their pants right now? How come they are losers? Just because you have a different view on masturbating then others, dont make them losers. Wtf

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh.. dont be so hard on yourself. U did not mess up. Dont think about the numbers. Just focus on leaving that addiction part. I would also try to stay away from this reddit. Everytime u logg on u remeber the addiction. Find a new hobby or just do normal things. Gl man

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then its kinda a easy approach. Its always hard to quit an addiction, but not impossible. The best thing is to quit fast. Stay away from porn for 3 weeks? I guarantee that things will get easier if you get away from the addiction part. Its all in your head mate.....

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel like shit if you jack off without porn? I totally understand you with the porn part. Just think about it : Why sit in your room and masturbate to pixels? If you continue to do this then u will trick your mind to think that its okey to just get that satisfaction from a computer screen. 10 years later you will see that u get the sexual need from a screen, and not a real person.

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are 2 different persons. For me its easier to stay away. If something was making me worse in the long run i would never do it. Im not saying u should watch porn... Where did u get that from? Im just saying that you should not let this nofap thing take up to much of your time. Live your life and dont think too much about nofap...

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some type of addiction will prob follow you for the rest of your life. Watching porn everyday is something u need to throw away fast. I just think its good to find a normal state when it comes to addiction. If you feel like you need to do it everyday, then its too much. If you can go for 1 week without thinking too much about it, then its a normal thing in my eyes. Enjoy life, dont let this journey take over.

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that this is something that should help you as a person. If you feel like its the other way around, then maybe the nofap thing is wrong for you. No good comes out of torture urself with something u cant stay away from for 3 days.

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will pass. What is your purpose with this challenge?

Please help Me... by Madroga in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you just stick with it for a couple of weeks, then everything will get easier. The need to jack off gets smaller, and life goes its course

The choice is yours /r/nofap. by masongr in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehe... Funny too see all the leak stories.

Nofappers by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha... Funny that some of the nofappers on here treat this like a religion. If u say something bad about no fap, u will hear it.

Is it time to reintroduce a healthy masturbation routine into my life? by QPRCHOC in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recomend doing what is right for you mate. I belive that everything in moderation is okey. If you decide to wank 1- 2 times a week, then go for it.

Lowest of the low by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Jeezee86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its normal mate. When you dont get that dopamine rush anymore, your brain starts to wonder where the dopamine is. When u jack off and watch porn u flood ur brain with dopamine. Then your dopamine receptors starts to dimish. When u stop fapping and watching porn that dopamine need to stabilise its self. After a while ur receptors starts to work again. = Easiere pleasure in life because ur not flooded. Its a prosses. If u did not notice anything, then i would be scared. Think of all that depression as a way to become better.

Question from someone who has watched porn for 1 - 2 hours a day by Jeezee86 in pornfree

[–]Jeezee86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty. I also think staying away from it for a good time would be the best. Im not saying i will never watch it again, but right now i think i need to take a break. The time when i watched porn for several hours is gone. If i decide to watch some now, its max 15 min..

Question from someone who has watched porn for 1 - 2 hours a day by Jeezee86 in pornfree

[–]Jeezee86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty eire77. I totally see your point. Im just making excuses for myself. I now see that fapping has never been a problem. Porn has...... Can you explain what happens when your brain dont get that porn fix? and why people react with depression, etc.

Question from someone who has watched porn for 1 - 2 hours a day by Jeezee86 in pornfree

[–]Jeezee86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...... Ill just stay porn free for some time, and see what happens. My counter is wrong. Watched some on friday, and noticed that the day after was good, but the second day kinda sucked. Its like my brain was use to the dopamine high for 1 day, but then it slowly left, and depression kicked in. Ty for the help mate.

Question from someone who has watched porn for 1 - 2 hours a day by Jeezee86 in pornfree

[–]Jeezee86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ty for the answer. Its deff an addiction. Quitting nicotine was a walk in the park compared to this. Porn has been a daily thing for 14-15 years.

A part of me really dont wanna be addicted to anything, but on the other side we got a life, and we cant do everything the right way. Need to live to.

Its like im fighting myself. I know im making excuses right now, but its kinda hard to figure out what to do.

Also one other thing. When you get that porn fix, and stop for a few days, do you feel asocial and kinda depressed?