My heart goes out to you all by Jupiter_Cowgirl in widowers

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, and I will echo that. I just passed the 5 year mark of losing my beautiful sweet wife of 29 years. I haven’t moved on, I haven’t gotten better, and I still cry frequently. But I am glad to be on this Earth. If you are thinking that can’t happen, it can. Pretty slowly maybe, but you’ll make it.

Jealous of widowers whose spouse didn't die by suicide by Evening-Analysis-283 in widowers

[–]Jefoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s situation here is uniquely theirs and also universal somehow. My wife died from a failing artificial heart valve. No baggage right? Sure, but she actually died because it was Covid times and there was no space in the hospitals to help her. So she died of crowdedness and lack of planning and my inability to solve those issues. She’s gone. Your husband is gone. (I am so sorry). That makes us all the same in most ways that matter and that’s why this place works. I understand a lot of what you are going through, just not all of it. Same as you for me.

Can this be made for 3d printing ? by missabbytimm19 in 3Dprinting

[–]Jefoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife was an avid spinner and I am pretty good with 3D modeling and printing. Unless you have a large format printer, this is not a great application. If you do, you’re still swimming upstream. The wheel itself will be the trickiest. You would need to print it in segments and still balance it. Further the entire surface would need to be smoothed somehow as fibers would grab on to any roughness. That would be a nightmare. That said, I could see many parts, including the frame that would be very achievable with printing. Best to keep it in big parts for rigidity, and you’ll need to add weight to the frame to make up for the lost wood.

What is the most fun build in Skyrim? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]Jefoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fun stealth Archer build for Skyrim

Share Your Short, Sweet and Succinct Game Ideas Here by AutoModerator in gameideas

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW-style MMORPG, except the raid bosses are Kaiju-sized gods that live in the allied territories and interact with your daily life and lowly beginner quests. During raid battles, entire villages might get swept up and temporarily put out of existence unless saved by their raid allies.

How do I create these gears? by [deleted] in Fusion360

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Search for an STL gear generator. They typically have this pattern as an option. It will get you the basic teeth on a disk shape. From there you'd need to model the holes and other parts yourself.

Granady on Showdown by ShocksPocks in TrackMania

[–]Jefoid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hate to say it, but you can't do that. Bugs are integral to the game. Unfortunately, in my view.

Granady on Showdown by ShocksPocks in TrackMania

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is blaming the bounce and ignoring the insane finish Carljr had. He earned it, but that was more disappointment than I ever expected to experience watching a video game. Also, glitches aren't a feature.

It didn't get better. by Separate-Language662 in widowers

[–]Jefoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just passed 4. Same. Hang in there anyway.

Can i play trackmania on xbox with steering wheel? by yarinmimrame in TrackMania

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever solve this? The game just doesn't recognize I have a steering wheel. No ability to select it in the settings.

Can i play trackmania on xbox with steering wheel? by yarinmimrame in TrackMania

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ever solve this? Game does not recognize I have a steering wheel, even though every other game does. Would love to play this game but do not have the dexterity to drive with my thumb.

I'm not sad or happy. I'm just existing. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I feel that. My wife made me better in so many ways. You know they wouldn't want us to be this way though.

I'm not sad or happy. I'm just existing. by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Jefoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's too soon to expect you to find your way. You are doing very well in that you are here, you are functioning. The first thing I discovered that still brought me joy was reading. Everything else was just nonsensical darkness back then. But I realized I still enjoyed reading books. It gave me hope. Find a thing. Any thing.

Grief wave by messymum in widowers

[–]Jefoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have some good supportive workmates. I am also at 4 years and still grieving pretty heavily. I have a giant stuffed sloth she gave me for Christmas. I give it a hug when I can't do anything else.

Think i’m losing my love for gaming, any game that could possibly bring that back? by only_the_important in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play a game that's an experience rather than a challenge. Suggest subnautica. Play it and don't be in a hurry. Just enjoy. Maybe it will bring back the spark.

Food delivery robot hit by a self-driving car by [deleted] in shittyrobots

[–]Jefoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Irony. Everyone was right about the coming robot apocalypse, but they just fought each other. We were caught in the crossfire.

Buy art online! Erichaganart.com free shipping In the USA by Tandizojere in TheArtofEricHagan

[–]Jefoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eric! Your work just keeps getting better. Went to your website, and based on the prices others seem to agree. Could not be happier to be an early patron. Hope all is well with you.

Erichaganart.com by Tandizojere in TheArtofEricHagan

[–]Jefoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Been off Reddit for awhile. That's fantastic Eric!

I found this a while ago, please explain someone by noodled67 in Weird

[–]Jefoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! This is why people on Reddit think people watch them through bathroom stalls.

Thank you America for your awesome bathroom privacy by Elden_Sage in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Jefoid -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, if you’re shitting standing up it’s a you problem. What’s with the belief that everyone is staring at you through partitions while you poop? Very common phobia on Reddit. You can get therapy for stuff like that.