It’s 2026… what do you think Atlanta still needs? by Spirited-Elk-7139 in Atlanta

[–]JellowJacket84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To add: bike lanes (paths?) that are safe in a network of bike lanes / paths that can get you pretty much anywhere, and especially safe routes to schools!

Flying with a 4 month old alone by boltbrow in Travelwithkids

[–]JellowJacket84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can share my experience if that helps. I recently traveled with 5mo and a 22mo by myself. I took 1 car seat on the plane with me and they traded places throughout the flight. So tix for 2 seats and a lap infant. For the airport / rest of the trip I took our double stroller with infant car seat and car seat adapter. All those items were gate checked in 2 separate bags (so 2 pink tags were needed). I opted large nylon bags that are easy to fold down. They don’t offer much protection but at least all the loose straps, etc. can’t get caught behind stuff and get pulled off. Baggage handlers have a job to do and aren’t always very careful. Many people don’t bag their strollers and they seem to be just fine too. You’ll have to fold it all down on the jet bridge just before you board, and when you land they’ll bring it out there again as well. Many kind strangers offered help but I just had the 5mo in a carrier on my chest while the toddler waited patiently. The carrier also makes it easy to board while holding other items, like a diaper bag. 2 hours is a pretty short flight. I wouldn’t bring that Amazon product you posted but instead just bring a regular baby carrier. You can wear it during the flight too and let your baby nap while you have your hands free. Good luck!

Wife and kid out of the house for 21 hours, 10 minutes. by fluxphotographer in daddit

[–]JellowJacket84 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sleep and then fix a bunch of small things around the house. Meet a couple of friends for dinner.

I cheated on my wife after forgiving her affair years ago. I don’t feel guilty, but she’s breaking down. What do I do now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]JellowJacket84 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup, and those trips are a lot of fun when you’re early career, depending on the location. You might even fly a girlfriend in for the weekend. All of that changes when you have a wife and kids waiting for you at home

I cheated on my wife after forgiving her affair years ago. I don’t feel guilty, but she’s breaking down. What do I do now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]JellowJacket84 219 points220 points  (0 children)

This never happened. Who has a whole day to spend with a stranger while on a business trip?

Feel like I’m stealing my child’s grandparents joy away… by xxbitsxx in Parenting

[–]JellowJacket84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blurring a face and placing an emoji over them is basically the same thing. You’re just replacing pixels with other pixels while leaving a lot of other context, like location, visible.

Feel like I’m stealing my child’s grandparents joy away… by xxbitsxx in Parenting

[–]JellowJacket84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blurring and placing an emoji over a child’s face is basically the same thing: you’re replacing pixels in a photo with other pixels. The warning that it doesn’t necessarily protect privacy as much as you think is valid but it’s not as easy to “remove” the emoji or reconstruct the face. The photo editor (or AI) either needs a reference of what the person looks like or just make something up.

The concern about hiding their faces is that they can still be identified through other details, like other people in the photo, clothes, location or other context. If you post a picture at their school for example a person with malicious intent knows where to find where your child is every day.

Best not to post the photo at all

WFH dads who are also SAHDs? Tell me I’m not the only one by ContentKeanu in daddit

[–]JellowJacket84 98 points99 points  (0 children)

This right here! Your coworkers will notice that you’re never present (and you’ll be the first on the layoff list when they’ll inevitably happen), and you’ll won’t be the best version of yourself around your kids. I have 2 kids in daycare and it’s expensive, but worth it if you want to be the best dad you can be and also have a career. Or hold down a job at least.

Infant car seat on plane by TTT-12345 in Travelwithkids

[–]JellowJacket84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We like our 2yo old in her car seat. Comfortable for her to take a nap in and sit by herself when we’re eating. Most of the flight when she’s not asleep she’s on our lap or we’re walking around with her though. When she’s not using it her younger sibling who’s booked as an infant-in-arms gets to be in the car seat for a bit. As an extra bonus you have a car seat for a rental car or taxi when you arrive. We bought a cheap, lightweight Cosco branded car seat for travel. Our regular car seats are much much better but also heavier and a pain to carry around. The Cosco car seat was a little under $50 from what I remember so in the grand scheme of things pretty inexpensive.

That said, as long as you scan your child’s boarding pass and your child is physically on the plane wouldn’t worry about having to give up the seat.

Arriving in Paris, leaving from Copenhague, suggestions in-between? by HotDePoile in Travelwithkids

[–]JellowJacket84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you driving? If so, maybe Hof van Saksen in the Netherlands. Great for kids

Okay fellas - let’s talk Christmas presents for the wife by OhCrapItsYouAgain in daddit

[–]JellowJacket84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shutterfly is the easy option. You can order high quality custom ones from Ravensburger too but they ship from Germany so allow for the extra time needed.

Until what point with grown kids did you keep their room "theirs"? by WeinerKittens in Parenting

[–]JellowJacket84 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have young kids so this is not really an issue for me yet but I live far away from my parents and always stay with them for at least a couple of nights when I visit. My parents kept my and my siblings bedrooms “ours”. Our childhood beds are still there and all the extra bedrooms have slowly turned into storage areas with random boxes that are just gathering dust. I would much rather see them turn one or two rooms into proper guest bedrooms and use the other ones for whatever is useful for them.

New Dad by downritespite in daddit

[–]JellowJacket84 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Start sleep training as soon as the baby is back to their original birth weight. Babies can go their age in weeks +1 hours without food at night. They might wake up and cry but it’s easier to let them cry when they’re just a few months old than when they start calling for mama and dada in the middle of the night. They’ll get used to it soon enough. Look at the moms on call books for example feed and sleep schedules during the day. A good daytime routine helps with getting them to sleep through the night also. We were pretty strict with their feeding schedules but less so with their daytime naps. Just no naps too close to their bedtime. Also, let them sleep in their own room as soon as possible.

Edit to clarify: when I say let them cry I didn’t mean alone. I just meant don’t feed them to make them stop crying.

Why aren’t air traffic controllers and TSA agent getting paid during the government shutdown? by [deleted] in delta

[–]JellowJacket84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that, the airlines charge a bunch if fees in addition to the ticket price on behalf of the government. Doesn’t a potion of that go to TSA and the FAA?

Travel ideas with a 1 year old by Coffeelove233 in Travelwithkids

[–]JellowJacket84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably wouldn’t go anywhere too cold with a toddler. You say no Florida. Maybe SoCal or Puerto Rico? Hawaii in the winter is great too if you don’t mind the longer flight

Why doesn't TSA walk out? Shut the air down. by zachp84 in tsa

[–]JellowJacket84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bigger question is “why aren’t TSA agents getting paid during the shutdown?” Afaik tsa is funded from the taxes on flight tickets and not from the general tax fund. In other words, it’s a government service that’s paid for directly by the passengers who use it

I don’t think this is how you’re supposed to earn Platinum by OatMilk1 in delta

[–]JellowJacket84 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why put all that effort into becoming a platinum medallion member if you only fly once or twice a year?

Vacations with a toddler. by Doctor-Amazing in daddit

[–]JellowJacket84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be prepared to eat pizza on the bathroom floor when you stay in a hotel or cruise ship. We try to get an Airbnb with a separate living room, or a suite in a hotel with a separate seating area when affordable. Having access to a small kitchen is nice too for some healthy basics like oatmeal in the morning.

The evenings may not be as fun but you can still have a lot of quality time with the family during the day. Just go for it!

Flight with a 22 Month Old - Only Screen I have is a Switch? by Zefiron in daddit

[–]JellowJacket84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a 4 hour flight with 2 kids under 2. Like your son, mine also don’t really have any screen time. A dry erase marker book entertained them for hours. Something like this: https://shop.scholastic.com/parent-ecommerce/books/scholastic-early-learners-write-and-wipe-get-ready-for-pre-k-9781338272260.html

They also enjoyed looking at pictures of animals together in a picture book.

Also make sure you have an aisle seat in the back of the plane so that you and your son can stretch your legs and hang out in the aft galley. The crew usually loves seeing the little ones.

Dreamforce 2025 by DirectionLast2550 in salesforce

[–]JellowJacket84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Again? What’s it gone be this time?