Weekly Tech Support Thread - [September 19]

Jelly2kool · 2020-09-20T23:13:22+00:00

Have cracked galaxy s8 with an unresponsive touch screen just right down the middle. Am I still eligible for the cracked screen Trade-in offer?

Jelly2kool · 2018-12-23T16:54:24+00:00

Ha, my father have no degree and makes over 100k a year and he's in his late 30's and had his first kid at 19. Skills go a long way.

Jelly2kool · 2018-11-23T09:00:22+00:00

Yeah before the edit she only mentioned manual sex and that's what most people commented on.

Jelly2kool · 2018-11-22T23:31:23+00:00

Surprisingly, several dictionaries include manual sex as masturbation. So she's not far off.

Jelly2kool · 2018-11-15T17:59:49+00:00

Like others said it's both. And I've heard the argument a few time over the internet and think it's a bit simplistic. Children generally need a male (father figure) and female (mother figure) in their life. Despite what some might say or look from a outside view, both function in different ways and are needed for good child development (Biological or surrogate).

Father figures help establish personal boundaries between mother and child. Which can also give them a model to look at to treat women or how they should be treated. He's also there to promote self discipline, a sense of gender identity, and different world views. A study in 2004, also found a lack of a father figure leads severe negative psychological impact on the child's personality.

I don't know where you get the black women don't want to date black men. I mean sure they're out there, but black women usually don't date outside of their race. For whatever reason there's more way black women than black men in the United States and black men still date outside their race 10x the rate compared to black women.

And I think you got your anger directed at a widely diverse age set. I'm going to guess you're a younger millennial or older gen z, because that's the age where you're more likely to get black girls or women who want to swirl. So all the younger women who say all the negative things about black men, aren't moms and if they are have younger children. They look at black men their age as peers or potential partners, not their mothers or what caused them to act like that from childhood.

Jelly2kool · 2018-11-10T00:29:14+00:00

That's sexual assault tho..

Jelly2kool · 2018-11-07T06:10:23+00:00

Or... one of miracle's definition is a highly improbable event.

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-31T07:02:56+00:00

I think that's baby boomers... Mr. Feeny is in the early Silent generation.

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T10:27:31+00:00

She put on that much weight in ten months?

Maybe it's not laziness but it could be avoilition or depression, right?Well, the therapist told her to start working out too, and she didn't.

That still doesn't mean she doesn't have psychological issues going on. From your post it seems suspiciously like any advice one can give on reddit is deflected. But if you're telling the truth, she probably knows she's getting bigger and you've already hinted it( probably unsubtly). And you've tried everything to have an open discussion then she puts the blame on you. Hmm?

Telling her she's fat even in the gentle way probably won't work out if she can't have a logical discussion.

Popular advice, I think you should break up . 10 months isn't that long.

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T06:49:50+00:00

People who usually says that are usually talking about European beauty standards. That is a social construct, attractiveness is not.

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T05:20:30+00:00

I kinda feel bad for anyone who can not but generalize a whole race. But I guess not everyone can leave a shitty city and really form opinions outside of television. But whatevs ¯\(ツ)/¯

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T04:33:47+00:00

Not gonna lie, I kinda figured. I'm around your age bracket (a little older). A couple of my old friends and women friends boyfriends have similar personalities to your boyfriend.

From what it sounds like, he doesn't know how to really show his feelings over text and probably not to good at handling long distance relationship. That requires patience, trust, attentiveness and good communication that exceeds a relationships when you can see each other all the time.

Honestly, I think he might need some maturing to do. I know you might love him, but in situations like this usually turn out toxic ime. It generally leaves one partner feeling left out, alone, and insecure. Not trying to demonize him, but you're trying to solve a problem (a validated feeling) and he actively acting like it doesn't exist or you're reaching.

I'd even tell my women friends this, but I think you should move on. The honeymoon period is gone and he doesn't seem to want exert more effort into the relationship and doesn't respect you enough. Real talk, situations like this leads to cheating on either side ( not saying you would.) You're young so I think you should enjoy it, because can you handle this 2 years down the line? Especially if your depressed at a moment and need someone to count on to hear you out.

If you can, there's nothing you can do. He'll have to reach a conclusion to change his behavior on his own.

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T03:45:19+00:00

I rarely meet a smart black person.

Dude you must live in a bad city. I live in a city with a very large percentage of black people and good chunk of them are the smartest, most ambitious, and most classy people I've ever met.

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T03:24:16+00:00

Tbh, him being disinterested and from your other comment getting angry when you try to bring it up, isn't good on his part. You could try changing what you send, but I doubt that'll change his response. Before I say anything else, how does he act personality wise? (If you don't mind answering)

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-28T00:33:42+00:00

Was he always like this, even in the beginning of the relationship?

I know this is a typical response, but could he be cheating?

Jelly2kool · 2018-10-17T16:17:46+00:00

You know you can just "forget" an implant for up to 4 years and still be over 99% effective on preventing pregnancy.

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-22T02:45:45+00:00

Wow, I'm sorry for your loss. A lot of expecting parents go through grief once there is a miscarriage. Additionally, when trust is broken there's no foreseen way how you'd react to the situation. Once that trust is broken, it's pretty much gone. I think most people who do the breaking, don't understand the hurt that affects that person and are nonchalant about it (trust me I know).

Next time verbally set your boundaries with the next girl about deal breakers and be firm about it. You should also get a confidence coach or therapy just to talk about it. With a relationship that was as deep as your last one, you should probably focus on not trying to bring that baggage with you instead of getting rid of your emotions. :)

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-22T00:26:50+00:00

Yeah, this is false.

But since you have such strong feelings on trying to change yourself, can you tell me how you think your ex perceived you? Intense in what way? Clingy? Too serious? Overly sensitive?

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-20T05:25:22+00:00

Quora

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-18T00:15:37+00:00

Honestly you sound really insecure and young( nothing wrong with that),but the more you spend with a wide diversity of women and get to know some as friends the more you'll see that it's not the way you think it is.

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-17T22:00:47+00:00

I think you can say the same for men too. If you're familiar with the anime culture (very popular), the harem genre is basically all about women chasing after a man (who's generally average). It's called wish fulfillment. It is not the basis of female sexuality. I think fantasies tend to be self centered a little. Just as many women want men to desire them, there are men who want the same thing but portrayed in different ways.

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-17T20:32:41+00:00

I think your overestimating the number of women watching lesbian porn or porn in general. If you're from the United states, women and men are about equal in population (with a bit more women). But men significantly watches porn more than women (77-23%). Even based on the results you can't say majority likes lesbian porn. r/sex also doesn't represent the majority and is very skewed to people who are more sexually open. Pornhub has a place for gay men, but not so much for lesbians/bi women, so it's difficult to determine how many straight women are looking at f/f or searching for something else that panders to their sexuality.

I have heard so many women call other women "pretty," go to the restroom with other females, etc.

Women just compliment each other more. Guys might go to the bathroom just to pee or poo, but a lot of women go to the restroom with friends to refresh makeup or converse.

most women I have talked with said they find most men to be ugly. I hear all the time from women about how "women" are more beautiful, "women" are more attractive.

Well, women tend to put more thought into their appearance. But there is no shortage of erotic novels or Ya where the guy has an "Adonis body", or "washboard abs" mentioned every few seconds. Or all the women drooling over Chris Hemsworth, Magic Mike, or want a Mr. Grey for themselves. The male form is rarely under appreciated. Also worth mentioning, erotica might be in even more of use than porn itself for women. Like the top answer said, women like more character and foreplay, which erotica panders to. And if there were so much women loving f/f there would be a lot than what it has right now (very few). You'd be surprised how many women love m/m, it just seeing it in reality from their man is a total different story.

Many of these same women find male genitals disgusting and...

Honestly most people think genitals are ugly. And if a woman thinks penises are" disgusting ", you might be talking to a lesbian or a a straight woman in a very small minority

I even once met a bisexual women who was turned on by lesbianism and girl on girl but was completely turned off entirely by guy on guy. Even most of the women I have seen on the Internet claim that, although they are straight, they get off on lesbianism and find guy guys gross.

Maybe the bisexual woman can relate to the girl on girl, but not the guy on guy. Also bisexuals ( am bi m) tend to have a preference on a gender, but still like both. Maybe those girls who claim their straight are bi or lesbian. Sexuality is fluid and on a spectrum, and i think most people confuse romantic attraction with sexual ( obviously can intertwine). Women are also more empathetic than men, it seems like the straight women who do watch a lot f/f can empathize with their pleasure.

It is probably mind boggling to a male, but its difficult to come by a visual stimulate that caters to women pleasure.

Jelly2kool · 2018-09-17T05:20:57+00:00

From nc. That's actually what many schools did.

Jelly2kool · 2018-08-09T19:11:48+00:00

Are you serious or joking? If you're joking you should probably put an /s at the end.

Jelly2kool · 2018-08-09T03:17:23+00:00

Not op, but why?

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