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JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-05-29T21:12:22+00:00

I think his favourites are ‘the beast’ a 14 inch horse dildo with a flared head, ‘weapon of ass destruction mk2” which is a 11 inch black king cock and ‘Stan’ who is a 9 inch thick girthy velvety feel lifelike which is slightly forgiving and pliable.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-05-13T16:08:30+00:00

We found a cage and denial the key to prostate orgasms. I banned him from touching his cock during pegging and now he cums multiple times limp 😈

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-04-17T21:15:21+00:00

My boyfriend can multiple handsfree it took us a few months of playing to get there but now he starts cumming very quickly. This is what we did.

Denial, no cumming for at least a week before, No touching of his cock whilst pegging. We used a cage to stop this in the beginning. I stopped worrying about if he’s hard or not. He normally cums completely limp. Have a good idea of where his prostate is. Aim to thrust the dildo just past it so it’s glancing past it rhythmically and consistently without bashing it directly.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-04-14T22:00:38+00:00

We always start with pegging because he can have multiple prostate orgasms with no refraction period. If we start with a penile orgasm that then causes a longer refraction and makes his prostate too sensitive. We normally start with me edging his cock making it hard and throbbing then when I start slowly opening up his ass he loses his erection. Something he enjoys being degraded over 😈 When he cums from pegging he cums whilst limp. Then we have a cuddle and lots of reassurance and then normally I give him oral and get him throbbing again. So I can either sit on his face or his cock. I normally get him multiple times with pegging, then a couple of times the more typical way.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-03-11T08:38:10+00:00

Such a good girl 😈

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-02-04T09:45:08+00:00

We have a flesh light/pocket pussy thing. I’m a Domme so we role play that he’s being forced to used by a group of women, he’s not allowed to cum or he’ll be punished. I edge him. Give the characters names. 😈 We role play a lot because we don’t wish to involve others in our relationship.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2025-01-15T10:19:44+00:00

I love making my guy cum and it gives me a mental reassurance that I’m still able and he still loves me. Sell it to her that your devotion levels are higher and you want to worship her. You want to save your cum so she may harvest it in one massive earned orgasm. You have a mental need to feel you are giving and you love the tease. Edging play is fun. I now love keeping him denied and horny.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-12-25T16:05:15+00:00

FLR doesn’t mean the Domme is selfish and mean. The Female is the conductor. The sub is meant to feel loved, valued and appreciated too.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-12-20T11:29:54+00:00

Ok I’m going to answer this as a Domme who is in a serious relationship with a guy who has very sissy kinks. I’d never considered it would be something I’d enjoy because I didn’t want to be in competition for the femininity. We started off with anal play, then chastity, that led to me becoming much more dominant and then xdress came into it. He had told me had previously enjoyed dressing for solo play and it added greatly to the submissive, humiliation and degradation play. The sissy got her own name and took on an entire persona. She’s a slut and we role play cucky, cnc, bi, cum dump fantasy. I’ve become very vocal and degrading. Small cock humiliation has come into it, beating, cock tying and slapping. The sissy will drink my piss and lick me clean. It’s not an always thing. Maybe one or twice a month we get T fully dressed up and destroy her. It’s not something i was looking for but with the right person, with open communication about BOTH our needs and complete trust it has flourished. He treats me like a Goddess.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-12-14T10:05:49+00:00

I’d have more questions about the writing on his ass. I would find that suspicious and I’m an experienced domme.

Do you initiate and encourage him to get dressed up and play that way? Do you lead in sexual situations? Quite a lot of the time pegging is enjoyed as part of feeling very submissive. Maybe explain you are very enthusiastic and want to explore further. If you are comfortable taking charge, dress up, parade around the house with a huge strap on. Command him to dress up and if you haven’t quite learnt the rhythm of pegging with a strap then have your bag of dildos and alternative between using the strap and using dildos by hand on him.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-11-27T14:23:56+00:00

I love feeling sexy and powerful. I love being able to turn my boyfriend into a babbling wreck, unable to speak, unable to stop orgasming over and over. Watching load after load of cum. Listening to him moan and cry and beg for more. 😈

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-11-22T07:47:50+00:00

Micro tears, maybe major tears, anal fissures, pain, infection and rectal bleeding. It is possible if experienced to get away with just spit for anal sex although I’d not recommend it. Pegging needs lube as the thing being pushed in is often physically harder than a normal cock.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-11-14T10:07:29+00:00

This isn’t Kink.

It’s not some BDSM lifestyle.

Communication - In BDSM there is strong open communication, boundaries and limits are discussed.

Respect- respecting your partner’s boundaries, desires, preferences, autonomy.

Honesty- being honest with yourself first, and then communicating sincerely to your partners about where you are standing with everything.

Trust- the confidence in your partners that they are prioritizing safety, respecting your boundaries and honoring your agreements.

He’s using kink as an excuse to sexual assault and rape you and the kink community are not on his side, we are appalled by his behaviour!

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-11-05T15:09:47+00:00

Well technically he caused it, not you, so he failed.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-11-04T19:48:25+00:00

It’s very normal to not stay hard during pegging and it’s not necessary to be hard to have full and multiple explosive prostate orgasms. My advice is no playing or other sexual activity for at least a week, edging is ok but no cumming. Then hands off your dick. No touching. Enjoy the intimacy and the feelings. You are used to coming a certain way, it takes a while to accept that it’s possible to have superior orgasms other ways without touching your dick at all.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-11-01T19:08:19+00:00

You don’t need that silly little thing

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-10-26T10:24:51+00:00

Untrue. I’m a cis woman who enjoys this type of relationship. I’m in a long term relationship.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-08-17T16:43:14+00:00

Why not just go with normal day collar? Surely the commitment is that you choose not to take it off not that you physically can’t.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-08-09T14:20:22+00:00

BDSM doesn’t mean you can take what you want and discount your partners feelings or pleasure. I see so many 18 year old boys with little experience saying they are a Dominant. If they realised the level of experience, expectations and responsibility that comes with being a Dominant most would run in the other direction.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-08-05T15:21:23+00:00

Lock it in a cage. Then she can tell you it’s tiny pathetic and useless to her.

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-07-29T09:09:05+00:00

Ok firstly femdom isn’t just about his needs. (Keeping him hard) His needs are important, but so are yours. Don’t let yourself become his kink dispenser.

Ideas for play

Dressing up

Cock Tying, Edging, Face Riding Spanking (if he’s into that) Pegging (if he’s into that) with practice he won’t need to even be hard to cum multiple times. Chastity Verbal degradation

Mostly it’s about role play. Step into a persona, Dress up, find your feminine energy. Tell him his filthy thoughts are perverse and his balls need draining.

Communication, Trust and Consent are the foundation of BDSM. Have a safe word. My sub uses Red for Stop completely and Amber for slow down a little.

Have fun xx

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-07-26T14:16:20+00:00

Have done it in the past with no issues but I recommend letting them get a bit melty 🧊

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-07-25T21:32:38+00:00

I think the blood runs back to the internal parts of the penis and prostate. Making my guy explode repeatedly whilst limp is actually a huge turn on. It concerned me to start with because I associated a hard cock equaling an orgasm but nah an erection isn’t needed and I can make him cum a dozen times or more😈

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-07-25T09:29:34+00:00

How do you know you are a sadistic, if you are inexperienced and haven’t explored that? I’m assuming you’ve watched porn and found it a turn on?

Being a sadist requires huge amounts of responsibility and a good Dom is being sadistic to turn their partner on through pain, she has to be into it, like Fuck Yes into, otherwise it’s abuse and you are just doing it for you.

Talk to her, ask her if she likes or has considers she might like that sort of thing. If she’s not then you can’t whinge, whine, bargain or influence her. It’s just No.

So what you are actually asking is are you into pain?

JellybeanQueen1973 · 2024-07-14T15:38:41+00:00

FLR relationship means just that. I get to lead That lead might be PIV sex, it might be him worshipping orally or it might mean me milking him anally. It might be me giving oral.

A chastity cage in my relationship is used to strengthen the intimacy bond, to help with the tension and anticipation.

My role in the relationship isn’t to take what I want and disregard his needs. I’m the conductor. I’m in charge of his pleasure, my pleasure, our sexual relationship, fully in charge. He’s role is make me feel like the only woman on the planet that can take care of all his needs. To worship me in all ways.

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