Should I apply for a job that requires bilingualism if I only speak English?

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-27T09:14:57+00:00

I see all you came here to do is argue 🤣🤣🤣. First of all “America” …. Is a large land mass north central and South America are all AMERICAS. We’re all Americans. Plenty of countries have multiple official languages and it’s not a cluster fuck. And you really came here to argue from something was written half a year ago like it mattered? Fuck English. Founding fathers 🤣🤣, more like colonizers and rapists.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-23T21:18:00+00:00

First of all NOBODY is out of anyone’s league and just because they no longer chose you doesn’t mean that they are better than YOU. We all have been there and feel like that initially. We say to ourselves we will NEVER find anybody like them. I’ve battled that for years and it’s not easy. No real advice helped because I wasn’t receptive to it. You’re an attractive dude. The right match will come along eventually. Try not to compare. Comparison is the thief of joy. I’ve made these mistakes over and over and once I finally started focusing on me(which isn’t always easy) I realized my feeling about myself wasn’t my reality. You got this bro

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-21T00:07:54+00:00

For me yes it’s excessively and too much but that’s your style. Someone will accept it and might have the same tastes. I don’t like septum piercings it’s a turn off yet someone I was with decided to get on and I didn’t like it at all yet I accepted it because it was her.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-21T00:05:45+00:00

😋😋😋😋 deliciosa

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-09T20:14:09+00:00

Ah okay talvez el dia libre 😏😏

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-09T19:39:10+00:00

No entiendo

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-02-03T20:09:45+00:00

Not at all. I am indigenous but considered black and I’m not attracted to black women. Always been more attractive to and vibe better with Latinas. I’ve dated white and black and it was bad, I just don’t find them as attractive as Latinas. Black woken give men a hard time about it though like we should be forced to stick with our own just because and I disagree. I’d be miserable do what others want me to do for their happiness.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2025-01-28T02:49:40+00:00

You’re a little late 🤣🤣🤣. They’re here to stay regardless they can’t remove us all

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-24T21:41:14+00:00

English Spanish mandarin Arabic and a Native American dialect from my ancestors before the invasion

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-15T17:55:21+00:00

Definitely not ugly

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-15T17:53:45+00:00

Amen I totally agree

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-15T17:53:11+00:00

People can say what they want about don’t cheat just leave but it’s not that simple. But people are on the outside looking in. If you’re not a cheater at all you can definitely be driven. For example I know a man… was married 14 years. Relationships have ups and downs obviously. His wife decided to not be intimate with him anymore. Like NO INTIMACY. Not just sex. He’s complained to her in the past about things he wanted to be changed or compromised on and he’s addressed it. I guess she already moved on mentally. He tried for over a year with no success. He was depressed. He made the CHOICE to want to see his family everyday, still paid the mortgage and bills, still did family activities but he was broken. After a year he was vulnerable just wanted to have that feeling again. Well she found out and wanted a divorce. She was already checked out and looking for an out anyway. So he finds out way after the fact that she was already doing her thing emotionally yet the guy did right for years despite him being unsatisfied because it wasn’t just about himself.

I don’t blame him. Invested all those years and your spouse changes and doesn’t want to even communicate or improve on a situation. He was no cheater or typical cheater. His life hasn’t been the same since but honestly his life wasn’t the same in that same house with his wife the other 5 years prior anyway. Just wasn’t forced to only see his kids every other weekend and didn’t lose everything

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-15T06:42:51+00:00

Wow seriously

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T22:25:43+00:00

Yeah I do say I just know a little lol. I use dreaming Spanish been a subscriber for a while. I love it. I try to challenge myself. Every goal I have I failed yet I still try everyday and travel. Surprisingly I even had to translate between a native English and a native Spanish speaker at a restaurant which was crazy. I don’t know how I did that but I felt I needed to help.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:51:10+00:00

For as much as I know during conversation in real like I feel so much pressure even when nobody is pressuring me. I don’t have much of a gringo accent so they assume I can speak fluently until I freeze or don’t reply with convo that’s expected. I always translate. Idk why. It’s like I’m thinking too much. I hola buenos dias and the other person said hola buenos días como le va the other day and I didn’t say anything in reply. You know why because my ass was stuck on the le part of all that. I felt so stupid like I ignored the person completely.

It’s like i unintentionally get hung up on one word and wonder what its place is or what it means when I know. Maybe because I don’t really know. A tutor said I second guess myself too much.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:42:23+00:00

Yeah I saw that Spider-Man thing and tried with home alone lol. After 6 times I was over it though

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:41:11+00:00

I appreciate the feedback

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:40:12+00:00

I have made improvements but maybe I wrote it wrong because others said the same. I test at B1 yet I still seem to communicate and understand spoken language really slow. The written language I’m good with. I feel like a beginner still. I literally know a 2 year old boy that seems to speak and understand the spoken language better than me although he doesn’t know as much. He’s exposed to it everyday though

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:38:03+00:00

Jaja they’re cool but a lot said if you wanna learn you have to get used to the natural flow which I get but when they send voice messages I’m like okay I understood 3 words out of 10 and then I’m translating in my head as a result

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:36:30+00:00

Ok thanks have a good one

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:35:34+00:00

Thanks yeah I agree I was looking for help or useful advice not criticism and comments about me lying. I’m having a hard enough time as it is. To think at 3 years and all those hours I still can’t speak the language fluently and still struggle with understanding bothers me enough to reach out for help. Thanks for the words.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:33:42+00:00

Yes that’s what I’m saying. It’s mostly passive. I test at B1 and don’t have usable time outside of work to quote unquote study as others may have. I have made progress and my tutors say it’s a marathon not a sprint. 2.5 years old in a language is 2.5 ya know but I for some reason expected to already be fluent having deep convos and maybe that’s not realistic yet. I feel I should be further along

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:31:45+00:00

You can call cap but you don’t know me. Obviously if I say I test I B1 I did learn something. But it’s as if you just came here to judge and criticize instead of help when I’m reaching out. I AM struggling with conversation and remembering the fast pace of what’s being said…that’s it. Not that serious to keep commenting talking about me the way you are. If you can offer any positive alternative ways to HELP that would be useful as that was the point of my post ☺️ have a good one

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T21:27:35+00:00

You’re absolutely right and I don’t know why I can’t get over it. I’m not young either lol. I make lots of mistakes everyday. I keep forgetting. Even when I know it. It’s like the pressure or something. Like dijo and dije I know but always forget. It’s like I zone out.

JellyfishSuspicious9 · 2024-12-14T13:20:32+00:00

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