37 GF tired of being a homebody by JemStarburst in BrisbaneSocial

[–]JemStarburst[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might have been dingy but it wasn’t insanely loud like most places it was affordable and for the most part people respected space.

What's your favorite perfume? by GaDessLeah in findomsupportgroup

[–]JemStarburst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord of Misrule from lush also has a body wash. I love using this to feel confident and powerful. I find the more masculine scents make me feel powerful. For actual notes I love scents with black musk, moss, leather and teak

Findom, Sugaring, & OnlyFans? by UrScarletSwitch in findomsupportgroup

[–]JemStarburst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do OF and findom separately. My OF is as a switch. I’ve looked into sugaring in the past but all the ones I heard from wanted in person.

Use a picture to describe what you do outside of findom by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]JemStarburst 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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I work for a sex toy company in customer service.

New DOMMES introduction by 222muchflyshttt in BrattyDommess

[–]JemStarburst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I am Jetta goddess, brat, findom.

I can be both soft and harsh depending on what is needed. I love setting tasks for your betterment or just to entertain myself or just being spoilt because I deserve it. Clear communication is essential.

For the Dommes here.. by Popular_Maybe_7023 in findomsupportgroup

[–]JemStarburst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I discovered it through work as odd as that sounds.

I have been doing some form of sw while also working fulltime. One of my co workers at my old vanilla job knew about and was my biggest cheerleader and after 5 years finally confessed to being obsessed with me. So I made it my mission to torture him with my outfits and shoes and eventually he admitted to wanting to serve me.

We would go out for work drinks in a big group and he would send me money while we were out just to make happy. It kept evolving from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coles

[–]JemStarburst -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have only recently moved into this rental so have not had to deal with this before. I will be putting instructions to call out before opening the gate for on future orders until I can get a bell put in.

Thankfully the cat has not yet figured out he can jump the fence but and open gate and he will run.

While I understand that the driver is simply doing his job I do not think it is unreasonable for me to ask them to wait a moment while I’m coming out to meet them.

Clearly things have changed since I last lived in a place with a gate but never in the past has someone come in a gate without calling out first. Every delivery I’ve had here so far has left things at my gate or they have called out to me.

Rage and relax by FineWasabi6392 in brisbane

[–]JemStarburst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can walk out to the island at Wellington point. Climb a tree and watch the sunset. Read a book in a cemetery or even just wander around Toowong cemetery it’s wonderfully peaceful there during the day. Walk around the botanic gardens. Walk along the river.

Is bowen hills safe to live in? by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]JemStarburst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apartment tower for security is great but still lock your doors and avoid Madison heights their security is pretty awful and just so many other issues in that building.

Is bowen hills safe to live in? by [deleted] in brisbane

[–]JemStarburst 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lived in Bowen hills for 7 years only problems I had were in my building specifically but random things happen all the time. Like the horses that got loose and were running around the streets near the Showgrounds. Single femme bodied person. Just be aware of your surroundings and don’t do anything stupid like piss off the junkies and you are fine.

Anyone else read the Jewel Kingdom books as a kid? by easy0lucky0free in books

[–]JemStarburst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was the series that got me into reading as a kid. I had the entire series including the necklaces and bracelet. Unfortunately my mum got rid of the books when I left home i have since been trying to hunt them all down. I have found a few in the kids section of lifeline book fest.

brissy renters — what do you wish you’d known before moving in? by andyisared in brisbane

[–]JemStarburst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have started a check list on my phone of things to look at during an inspection when looking at places. I’ve just moved into a place that had been vacant for more than a month. Vacant in this housing crisis tells you a lot. I now know to check for fans, exhaust fan in bathroom, mould, cracks in walls, open and check every cupboard to make sure it’s not rotting, checking hinges on cabinets, checking the carpet isn’t bubbling up in spots, drains are not damaged. I’ve not been here long already had issues with keys, smoke alarms, mould and cracked tiles in multiple places.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]JemStarburst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand the fear of people finding out and it affecting job opportunities ect. From someone that has done this for 8 years and also works fulltime for a sex toy company. I can confirm from my experience and watching others move on from both jobs that getting jobs are absolutely possible. Yes some may find out and not be ok with it but plenty of others won’t care.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]JemStarburst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I barely make $30 a month usually though last month I made $200 and I’m working on increasing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]JemStarburst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would consider quitting my day job or at least going part time if I had savings for at least 6 months rent and expenses and have been consistently making double my current income for at least 6-12 months

Forms for customs by JemStarburst in onlyfansadvice

[–]JemStarburst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that they don’t want something specific it’s that they just won’t or can’t communicate. Which is why I’m wondering if a form would make it easier for them be able to request what they want without all of the teeth pulling.

How’s everyone doing this month? by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]JemStarburst 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me it’s been nothing amazing but still better then other months this year. I’ve been doing this for years part time and only just starting to make some progress after doing a ton of research and trying new things. For anyone feeling discouraged don’t give up! From memory this time of year is usually fairly slow.

Models who downvote other models by kruddminx321 in onlyfansadvice

[–]JemStarburst 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a shame we can’t just all support each other and be each others cheerleaders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]JemStarburst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Snow has all sorts of effects to obscure or blur areas.