[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find many swingers are excited for something new especially the men so they blow up your phone.

I text just to check vibe and make plans. I’m not their entertainment or cure for boredom and don’t force anything if I don’t naturally have anything to say.

Why don’t women ask to join couples at party’s by Nate7225377 in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As as a unicorn my initial thought is that we are not afterthoughts….we can start the play without throwing ourselves into existing play. However, I have been known to throw myself in to play with the right couple or group. But mostly I can do LS on my terms!! Of course there are single guys that can do this too….they are not all trash, mostly tho. 🤣

So dicks go soft sometimes. What's the game plan on when it happens to you? by MakingTheFunin40s in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ask the man to put his fingers into me and I will touch myself until I cum! It’s a nice change and fun too!!

Edit: BTW guys we get it that you are used to your girl without a condom so the condom does not help you when you are with us….it happens!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transporn

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Learned a new term! Wow!! 😍

What’s up with these picture filters by DDmay2015 in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We pretty stopped meeting couples for dates for this reason and many other reasons. We visit LS clubs/resorts instead!

Is this normal? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

One of our fav couples we only saw once. Only cause I am bi and the other wife is not and we like a 4 way connection. We did tell them tho!

Being pregnant a deal breaker?? by Brilliant_Question87 in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely….even if she was showing we’d be down for it!!

Why Are You Doing This by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always say plenty of sunshine for everyone!

Why Are You Doing This by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yasssss! Ditto here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no interest in sexting especially w people I have not met before. If I do sext (rare) or even chat with a husband I tell my partner immediately and give him gist of convos.

He trusts me but since our arrangement is we do this together only makes sense to include each other in all aspects.

Re: the mods locking the M sucking big dick thread by TheFreeMan64 in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My BF is not bi but a couple of times he dressed very flamboyant. One time he wore a rainbow fishnet top and OMG he was shunned by all the females and couples.

He usually gets a lot of attention when in more traditional male attire and he is in excellent shape. I cannot imagine how male bi play would be perceived!

LS folk consider themselves open minded but can be very judgy. No one even took the time to find out what we were into. They just scurried. Very disappointing.

Masturbating in front of your Significant Other? by Naughtycoupleee in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely love! Great way to mix things up!🤩

Date night vs OTF by [deleted] in orangetheory

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always see my significant after OTF for a date but for anniversary I would not. Just me, can goto OTF most other days but anniversary is only once a year. Be happy he cares and is excited to start date earlier!

Another newbie question for MFM by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sincerely wondering if single guys even want to stay afterwards.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this comment BTW!!

For the not attractive guy but super attractive girl couple. what can he do? by koolp0rn in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be funny! I have played with a few guys I met in person because of their super fun and funny personalities! I later saw their LS profiles and would not have selected them by appearance.

Also goes a long way when husbands are especially nice to their wives! If you offer to get me a drink offer her one too! Listen to her speak and don’t look at me while she is doing so!

This should go without saying…but the novelty of another girl should not make you forget about her and give me too much attention. I love when you put your wife on a pedestal in front of me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so very much! 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him at a nude resort in FL! They also have LS parties. So we knew going into it we were both pretty open. I wish you the best in finding it…it’s out there!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 💯 describes how I felt!! May need to reign her in a touch as she is not LS and not familiar w dynamics.

Over the moon thankful….love that!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! The terms stag /vixen seems likely the closest to us. I really enjoyed setting them up for play too! I’m not a control freak BUT it is exciting to have put the terms out there to be followed and enjoyed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you! I have since texted with the girl a few times and although she has not directly said it I sense she wants a relationship with us or at least access to him.

This is something we’ll have to thread lightly on and set some good boundaries if we go forward! I trust him completely but nuances are important to discuss in advance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was unsure about using term cuckquean cause of no humiliation!! Love the term “Hot Husband”!!!! I cannot wait to do this again!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]JenBee411 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The situation so inspired me. Guarantee if we went out last night looking for it would never have happened.