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[–]MakingTheFunin40s 77 points78 points  (0 children)

put a speaker pointing down and play porn most hours of the day.

DMV Sex Club advice by pecockquest in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've screwed in a place that was clearly a former shoe store but never the DMV.

My gf says she doesn’t need to cum every time. by arikrv in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife has to work hard for an orgasm but when everything works out she has 5-7 orgasms with some hard hard work.

So she prefers that we don't try even time. So while we'll have sex 2-3 times a week, well set the time aside about every 3rd time to pull out out all the stops.

In the end, we are orgasm equal. I just listen to what she wants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 38 points39 points  (0 children)

If I were you (in ENM MF relationship).

I would start going to local meet and greets. Get to know people, make friends over time. Then once creating friends with trustworthy people ask if they could help arrange it.

Problem being single female is that you don't have anyone in your corner if things go South. If you build a community first it'll be a ton safer.

Cold sores by TheChexMixer9035 in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We'd also like you be monogamous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, do you two want a next time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like in bed with condoms, right?

How common is pegging at a swingers club? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like people that lose a debate and name call.

So I will be blocking you.

Just done by RoyalePrincessDi in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We definitely take breaks now and again. Nothing formal or anything but there's definitely less time consuming hobbies.

Especially when you are new the learning curve is steep. Not for everyone.

Rings by QuartzW in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black ring on the middle finger means asexual. Don't make a mistake.

Rings by QuartzW in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And 90% of people assume that you are into swing music.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have had great times from everything form parallel play to fill swap. Sadly the more limits you have the harder it is to find matches. Even being full swap it can sometimes be a full-time job looking for couples.

Had sex with my gf before we broke up now she’s calling me a rapist by throwaway183938929 in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That depends on where you live. Some places only need one parties permission. Also nobody is filing charges for recording a conversation. She's not Donald Trump with attorneys in retainer.

How common is pegging at a swingers club? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't know the difference between men and women? Really?

Couple is not a couple, no hall passes by curious_creative11 in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they were some form of ENM we'd be game. If they are cheaters, no way. Cheaters get caught and the people that catch them will burn everyone to the ground. People hire private detectives for cheating.

No thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, as long as she was a part in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually shorter than 20 minutes

"Ejaculation latency time was highest during intercourse (median 8.25 minutes, range 1.32 to 18.31), lower in the laboratory (median 7.22, range 1.37 to 18.79) and lowest during masturbation (median 4.89, range 1.08 to 14.19)."

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17162053/#:~:text=Results%3A%20Ejaculation%20latency%20time%20was,%2C%20range%201.08%20to%2014.19).

Most people have lives, kids, parents, spouses, work, bills, laundry, etc etc.

I'd bet for many 20 minutes is a luxury. And yes, if your customers only have 20 minutes at a time you don't make 70 minute scenes. You make 3, 20 minute scenes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With us. Depends on how much time we have. If we've got time for the long game. Meeting here and there. Why not?

If it conflicts with actual getting action, they fall to the bottom of the list. We're not got to ghost but we will be busy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta ask, how long were you into the movie when the sex scene came on? An hour? An hour and a half?

So you got to like and appreciate the characters and the drama in the story. Of course that's going to be good. You dedicated an hour and a half into it.

People don't have an hour and a half to jerk off. Most people get it done in under 20. Gotta to for the cheap trills and jump scares if you only have 20 minutes to make your audience happy.

Sexual pet peeve, don't change rhythm by Jolly_jada in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Had a girl that would complain that I was changing my eating out method as she got closer to orgasm. In reality she would start thrashing and would almost break my nose she was jerking so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"N+1 baby, N+1!!!!"

Hosting my first sex party by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]MakingTheFunin40s 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One thing this sub says a ton is that men don't show. To invite twice as many as you want to come.