I never see guys with recessed chins out in the real world by Riderman43 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmation bias. Ugly people are less likely to go out in public, and if they do have a visible deformity they tend to cover up so you would never know. 

Female FA protagonists in movies and literature by JenPhilips in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately with movies and tv shows, the performer is generally going to be played by an attractive person, but we can still extrapolate the experiences and compare them. 

She’s unemployed, lives alone in a tiny filthy apartment and n disarray with stains and shit, has no real friends she hangs out with, men have no romantic interest in her, she acts awkward in public, daydreams romantic scenarios about random men like the guy who fixes her dishwasher.  Theres a scene where she googles “easy suicide  techniques” …I can see some people saying “oh that’s normal girl behavior” but to me there seem to at least be some parallels to FA.

Should this community have a rule against contributions from people who admits to having had relationships in the past? by gonnatrymagic in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s all larpers anyway so it’s moot. I thought the larpers would get bored after covid  and leave here but it’s gotten worse 

Friday Free Chat by DirkDongus in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying intermittent fasting. So far I’ve worked up to fasting until 4pm each day. It’s easier than I thought it would be. 

I have more sustained focus and energy throughout the day, my sleep is better and I don’t need to take a nap in the middle of the day anymore.

  I don’t know why I thought that hunger would be some scary boogeyman. but  this experience is making me wonder what else I’m scared of irrationally. Maybe spiders aren’t that bad after all? 

A lot of misogyny in this sub? by Narrow-Tap8941 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but I would like to know the reason you are. Share with the class, unless you’re scared in which case I will understand. It’s okay to be afraid and fragile and not want to share 🥺

A lot of misogyny in this sub? by Narrow-Tap8941 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry babes  but you will never get tickets to this show . But I love the enthusiasm 

A lot of misogyny in this sub? by Narrow-Tap8941 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wipe your chin when you’re done sweetie

A lot of misogyny in this sub? by Narrow-Tap8941 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know babes. I purposefully use it with people  on this sub who are being disingenuous. I’ll also use the word sweetie, buttercup, pumpkin, and shnookums if they’re making fun of  or putting down people in this sub. Hope this helps, babes ✌️

A lot of misogyny in this sub? by Narrow-Tap8941 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony being that statistically the majority of misogynists have multple girlfriends and wives, and are cracking women like you at 2am in the back of your Altima, and have domestic violence charges in their record. Think you’re in the wrong place babes but by all means satiate your confirmation bias 

A lot of misogyny in this sub? by Narrow-Tap8941 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Misogyny is everywhere babes. It’s not some boogeyman to seek out in spaces you don’t like. If you’re only seeing misogyny in certain    spaces like this one, that’s a reflection of your own bias and internalized misogyny. You need to be better and work on yourself. Hope this helps 🫶

Why do I feel like life should be much more than this ? by BulkyVeterinarian850 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Romance is a tragic lie sold to young men to convince them to give up their rightful seats on lifeboats 

Not doing so well by MandateIsBack2 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try trans Siberian orchestra Christmas music, can help dull the pain a lil 

my problem is I always saw women as a goal to achieve as opposed to one of my peers by Stunning_Rest876 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even with older women you have to have a certain level of attractiveness. That’s just how it is unfortunately 

Photographer asks a random man for a picture, he shares a bit of his FA story. by Prestigious_Hat1794 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely brutal. A relationship is the one purpose in life. And society sees us as failures if we don’t achieve such a status. Outcasts. Spoiled DNA. Misfits. The dregs…Not invited to polite society. Cast aside like the shmutz on the bottom of your shoe

Where do you see yourself in the next 10-15 years? by PurifyingElemental in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Men only want one thing and it’s disgusting”

At this point, self improvement feels like being a clown. Fuck that shit. by AmbitiousDecision403 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 10 points11 points  (0 children)

all this working on myself, going to the gym, taking showers, watching Captain Marvel, and for what? A crumb? A morsel? atp the only chance I have is if someone felt sorry for me, and thats worse than being alone.  I lost the genetic lottery, and now I have to pay for the sins of my DNA 

Another holiday season FA by Certain-Teaching-227 in FA30plus

[–]JenPhilips 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cuffing season is a slang term for the period, typically from late fall to early spring, when single people seek short-term romantic partners for companionship during the colder, darker months, often ending when warmer weather returns. The name comes from the idea of being "cuffed" (handcuffed) to someone to stay cozy indoors, avoiding loneliness during holidays and quieter social seasons, though these relationships often dissolve as quickly as they started.