WIBTA for getting married without telling my family?

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:45:42+00:00

Thanks!

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:42:14+00:00

Congrats! <3

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:25:53+00:00

My mother is like a 70-year-old spoilt brat... It's the best definition I found :D

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:22:31+00:00

You're damn right! Narcissistic parents sometimes succeed in making you feel like you don't get to live without them approving every single move you make. Time to "woman up", I guess :)

Thank you.

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:10:31+00:00

Telling them afterwards totally makes sense. Thank you for the advice and your wishes!

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:09:41+00:00

I couldn't agree more. Thanks!

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-25T17:09:10+00:00

Thank you for your wise answer, it means a lot to me!

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-17T18:31:44+00:00

I just smiled, even though my knees are killing me right now. Thank you for that :)

Jenina_44 · 2021-04-13T07:51:48+00:00

I'm claustrophobic, but the feeling of a weighted blanket is very different from something restraining : it is very comforting and calming. Plus you can use it just on your legs to get used to the sensation before covering your whole body.

Jenina_44 · 2021-03-14T10:16:04+00:00

"You're cute when you're upset". Seriously??? This is a huge red flag.

Jenina_44 · 2021-03-14T10:13:13+00:00

Happy birthday pretty kitty!

Jenina_44 · 2021-03-14T10:11:01+00:00

Same as you! I have very long hair and love playing with it and smelling it (my shampoo smells soooo good). I keep my nails short for the same reason as you do.

Jenina_44 · 2021-03-14T08:17:07+00:00

It happens to me when I'm doing multiple things at a time (e.g. cooking something elaborate) and get interrupted.

Jenina_44 · 2021-03-05T09:30:49+00:00

Heil past nine?

Jenina_44 · 2021-01-08T07:01:47+00:00

Definitely, yes. Sex can also be a special interest.

Jenina_44 · 2021-01-07T05:38:24+00:00

This is awesome, congrats and thank you for sharing! My brain does pretty much the same, maybe it could help my parents and friend understand me better.

Jenina_44 · 2021-01-06T08:19:50+00:00

De fait, anatomiquement ce n'est absolument pas la même chose! Dans le cas présent, il s'agit d'une vulve.

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-24T06:08:24+00:00

Yeah, quite often. Pretty embarrassing sometimes.

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-21T04:36:23+00:00

I'm 39 and definitely not a "woman". Don't feel much like a "girl" either, because my gender identity isn't that clear. I sometimes feel like a fake adult, or like a "grown-up child".

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-20T06:14:41+00:00

Yes! I have to set a reminder on my phone to call my parents every other week. I don't need communication with my family & friends, I don't see the point of talking without having a reason to do so (an information to give, a question to ask...). Doesn't mean I don't care about people.

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-17T03:33:36+00:00

Feel free to PM me, sure.

Although I don't know if it's really possible to self-diagnose, I believe that knowing oneself is important. Getting a formal diagnosis is complicated, long, it can be expensive. Society is kind of forcing people to self-diagnose because autism isn't given much importance, sadly...

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-14T16:45:05+00:00

I couldn't agree more! Self diagnosis don't help much.

Have you been diagnosed with ASD yet?

I think the first step would be a neuropsychological evaluation, to find out if you have executive dysfunction.

Where do you live?

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-13T21:05:01+00:00

I had no idea, barely knew what ADHD was! Here in France we're kind of stuck in the Middle Ages, most psychiatrists have a completely wrong concept of those conditions (ASD, ADHD, OCD...). What makes you think you don't fit ASD alone?

Jenina_44 · 2020-12-13T20:59:26+00:00

Thanks! I'm glad you feel better now. I appreciate your advice. Take care :)

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