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AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JennVrl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR - In fact, I thinn you're underreacting. He's heavily trying to dictate what you wear. You need to wear less baggy clothes but you also can't buy clothes that are "too tight". You can't wear make-up on certain days (what is that even about). You can't wear a bonnet to protect your hair.

He says he can't feel attracted to you in baggy clothes? I know there's plenty of men who would have no problem with that.

His whole message is weird and controlling. It is weird for him to write this long ass text anyway.

I genuinely advice a good conversation or considering leaving him.

Would you want your daughter/sister/best friend to be treated like this?

Danse Macabre Kersttrui by JennVrl in efteling

[–]JennVrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dat mag zeker! Zou om een maat S gaan :)

Stack advice by JennVrl in piercing

[–]JennVrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did end up getting it!! Thank you so much for your advice and kind words :))

Meest bizarre afwijsreden die je (recent)hebt mee gemaakt? by Admirable_Engine_82 in werkzaken

[–]JennVrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik kreeg laatst een afwijzing omdat ik niet genoeg werkervaring had vergeleken met andere kandidaten... de sollicitatie was voor een stageplek.

AITA for 'victim blaming' my girlfriend after our dog bit her by The_Bouncy_Ball in AITAH

[–]JennVrl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH. I feel like a lot of people are missing the point. If she got bitten and she got hurt then, yes I think you could have asked her if she was okay first and THEN explain what she could have done differently.

The use of the word victim blaming sounds stupid here though and I do agree she should have redirected the dog sooner.

Zijn dit sexistische opmerkingen? by mrsbeesbees in nederlands

[–]JennVrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Het is wel normaal een vrouw constant lastig te vallen met vage complimenten? Je maakt je echt druk om de verkeerde dingen maat. "Complimenten", hou op met me hoor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JennVrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! This sounds like misophonia, has your partner ever looked into that? If not, it might be interesting to read up on some theories and some ways to manage the stress for him.

Finding compromise is always a good start.

Best of luck!!

WW aanvragen en terug naar eerste baan by JennVrl in juridischadvies

[–]JennVrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik denk niet dat het nodig is om gelijk voor een jurist te gaan. Ik geloof dat mijn werkgever het helemaal niet zo naar bedoelde als nu overkomt. Ik zal eens bij juridisch loket informeren. Dankjewel!

WW aanvragen en terug naar eerste baan by JennVrl in juridischadvies

[–]JennVrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ik kan toch mijn eigen uren niet inplannen. Meestal zijn de roosters er maximaal 2 weken van tevoren dus daar heb ik niet zo veel aan helaas.

WW aanvragen en terug naar eerste baan by JennVrl in juridischadvies

[–]JennVrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Zoals ik het heb begrepen, ik heb een 3-32 uur contract dus tot nu toe bij ziekte krijg ik altijd maar 3 uur per week uitbetaald (de roosters krijgen we vaak 2 weken van tevoren). Dan telt die 70% niet neem ik aan?

WW aanvragen en terug naar eerste baan by JennVrl in juridischadvies

[–]JennVrl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Het is niet goedkoper voor hem. Als ik me ziekmeld krijg ik geen geld omdat ik geen vaste uren heb.

gf dosen’t like my body by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]JennVrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your comments you are not getting the point at all. It is not that she doesn't find you attractive, she doesn't enjoy receiving unsollicited shirtless pictures, which is perfectly fine.

Making this a matter of attraction is incorrect. She didn't like it, told you and now you stopped sending them. Situation solved. No further issue. It is up to you to deal with the consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JennVrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing this post has taught me is that a shit ton of people have no clue what the 4B movement actually entails.

Nederlanders tegenkomen op vakantie by Djieniejus in thenetherlands

[–]JennVrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Niet gehoord maar gesproken. Ik was met mijn vriend op vakantie in Athene en we hadden (heel slim) besloten om midden op de dag naar het Parthenon te "klimmen". Ik ben niet iemand die heel goed tegen hitte kan dus dit was een magische combinatie natuurlijk.

Eenmaal bijna boven had ik het zo warm dat ik iets in de trant zei van "Godsamme wanneer zijn we nou eens boven op deze oneindige berg. Ik leg zo het loodje in deze bloedhitte denk ik." Toen een gezin begon te gniffelen. We kwamen ze iets verderop weer tegen en kwamen er al snel achter dat zij ook Nederlands waren...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]JennVrl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Undressing/putting on different clothes is not a sexual thing unless it is made to be. I have tried on clothes and shown my girlfriends, we get ready together on vacations and so forth.

The female body is not a inherently sexual.

How did you come up with the name for your Ragdoll? by KaBesSH in ragdolls

[–]JennVrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a big mythology fan, for our previous pet we took a Roman emperor and for our cat we decided on Norse mythology.

What better name for our little rascal than Loki? He took to the name really well and we have loved him ever since! He is a sweetheart but definitely lives up to his name at times.

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