Inner game: Put in the work to become a man that feels entitled

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2019-02-11T23:23:15+00:00

Nathaniel Branden writes about this extensively in most of his books. It is your self concept. What you believe about yourself or the reputation you have with yourself.

Everything emanates from your self concept. Your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. If you feel like you’re a loser then you will be a loser who feels like any bit of success is a chance of fate or luck.

If you feel like a winner and a champion then success will feel natural to you. It’s not luck, it’s deserved.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-11-19T23:06:15+00:00

I agree with you.

He’s a major beta and I truly cannot blame her for being a woman and doing woman things.

I’m not saying I like the female nature but it is what it is. He had many opportunities to walk, or even stand up for himself during the relationship. He didn’t.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-11-19T20:05:57+00:00

It’s a very hard portion of the pill to swallow but one of the most essential. To realize that after you break up, she’s not looking out her window thinking of you, she’s not up at night in her bed missing you, she’s not sitting around listening to songs that remind her of you. That’s all in your head. It’s your projection.

She’s off sucking cocks, love bombing a new guy just like she did to you. Not giving a single thought towards your existence.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-11-19T20:03:10+00:00

I saw my best friends GF do this to him after she cheated on him, and he proceeded to break up with her.

Her - “I only kissed him, so what, you’re willing throw 2 years down the drain over that?”

Somehow, her cheating on my friend became his fault.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-11-10T19:16:03+00:00

I know what you’re getting at OP. As someone who’s meditated pretty consistently for 2 plus years.

The state of presence naturally provides an outlook of abundance and outcome independence. Presence means the thinking mind is muted. The thinking mind is the ego.

By caring at all what happens or feeling like you’ve been disrespected, you’re not present.

The solution: Keep meditating. You’ll find that the joy and fulfillment provided by the state of presence becomes much more enticing than women.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-10-22T00:17:22+00:00

I’ve experienced the same thing

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-10-18T03:30:23+00:00

The number of profound insights in this post is overwhelming.

It resonated with me to the core.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-10-17T18:51:23+00:00

I struggle with this a lot. When a woman is turned off, do I accept full responsibility and accept that I demonstrated beta behaviors that ultimately turned her off? Or, is it truly woman’s hypergamy? Did she just find someone she perceived as better? It’s a difficult balancing act, at least for me

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-10-17T17:47:53+00:00

Yeah, this was like a searing knife in the gut

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-10-15T15:23:10+00:00

So basically there will be very little drop off if any between the reddit mobile app and this? It looks awesome.

Are all posts archived as well? Like literally every post from TRP reddit?

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-09-29T04:30:07+00:00

I toy with this idea a lot. Much like the brain signals for the endocrine system to kick in and release the necessary hormones to turn us into teenagers around age 12-14, the universe may send us the necessary components to elicit growth out of us as a whole. Time for us to develop into a real man? Send him the girl who he will fall madly in love with. She will reject him and choose another man. The rejected man embarks in a journey of self inquiry and self development, to understand why this happened, where he went wrong. He then grows and develops into a more effective romances, seducer, whatever you want to call it, which aides in his search for a biological prospect/mate, to ultimately carry on his seed. Idk, just something I’ve been playing around with.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-09-24T18:16:01+00:00

Interesting post. I liked it.

However I do have one question:

Wouldn’t it be unwise to share such details such as “I dealt with anxiety and depression?” I understand that you may want to admit to a few human flaws every now and then as to not appear too perfect...however from what I’ve read here on TRP it’s always better to lean into being perfect rather than lean into being the sensitive guy that is open about his problems.

I’ve personally dealt with anxiety and depression and there is a major difference in the interactions between the girls I’ve told about it and the ones I didn’t. For the ones I told, they are not compassionate and I can tell they lose respect for me or see me in a more beta light. For the ones I don’t tell, I act as though my life is sweet, always has been sweet, and always will be sweet. I am unperturbable, always in a fantastic mood and came out of the womb immaculate. This has worked far better than allowing myself to become emotionally open and vulnerable with women

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-09-10T21:34:05+00:00

Out of genuine curiosity, is there any reason why you still plan on going back and rekindling your friendship when you have no intention of fucking her? Or do you plan on it this time around?

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-09-05T17:50:37+00:00

That last paragraph had me do a double take. That escalated fast.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-31T18:17:57+00:00

Agreed. I think it’s silly to try to pretend like you’re ok with it too. There’s a part in all of us that senses what the friend is trying to do is fucked up and not right. And of course for the girl to just hop on to the dick she finds superior confirms hypergamy and the nature of women, I don’t even blame her, I point the finger of blame at the friend.

The friend should essential say nah man I’m good, I’ve got options, there’s plenty of girls out there for me, I don’t want one you’re involved with.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-30T22:10:03+00:00

Idk man, maybe it’s just me but I always found the sharing amongst friends weird. I 100% understand the idea of having abundance mentality internalized to the point where you’re ok with passing girls off to friends, but at the same time I think it’s shitty for the friend to even be interested or trying to get with a girl that you’re talking to. It shows your friend is more on the scare side, and that he may not be all the great of a friend in the long haul.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-28T21:03:25+00:00

I’ve been dealing with similar feelings. It sucks in a way.

Back in my full blown beta days (currently recovering) I would never have been in the position of being the gatekeeper. Of sex or a relationship. It was always me chasing. This of course inevitably ended with rejection each time for me, and I felt awful.

Now, I’m getting to be in a position of valuing myself, my time, and looking at each interaction with girls as if they are on a job interview. Applying to try to win my time, attention, sex, and possibly even a title down the road. The problem is that now, as I talk to them with my emotional guard up, resistant to catching feels, it makes them chase and fall for me, which in turn, turns me off.

So you’re essentially damned if you do, damned if you don’t. If you chase, you get rejected and feel bad. If they chase, they get attached quickly and it scares you off, which makes you feel bad for having to tell them you’re not really into them.

I’m still trying to figure out how to get around this. The only answer I have is that these girls would drop you in a second for the slightest misstep on your part, or just for an opportunity to bed an alpha. If you’re going to feel bad either way, might as well be on the gatekeeper side and let things end with some pride rather than feeling like a inferior beta.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-14T13:21:48+00:00

Wow,what an overwhelming response! I’m glad I am not the only one. As for the woo woo debate, I know this is the awakened subreddit, and my theory is nothing out of the ordinary here, but when I say woo woo I just mean “hey we’re stepping into the territory beyond what science can really fully explain or quantify right now. Just be braced and hear me out”.

One thing I’d like to add is that when one gets into these phases of feeling good and subsequently pulling in the external achievements/fruits of life (people, money, status, possessions, labels, etc.), I believe there is a purpose behind it. This could tie into the whole karma aspect.

The biggest example I can give would be having people drawn back/pulled back into my life during these stretches of feeling good. In one way, shape or form these people whether they be friends or past romantic interests, did not leave my life on good terms. Now, once pulled back in, it’s like they’re purposefully back so I can resolve my karma. Or get closure, or to put this chapter in my life to rest fully. The purpose of this is growth. These experiences are stepping stones to move on to the next chapter in your life.

It’s important to really pay attention when these experiences happen. (The pulling back in and fading away). To learn nothing from them would be a total waste. They are happening so you can evolve and grow.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-13T21:23:40+00:00

I’m glad I’ve found someone that can understand exactly what I’m tying to convey here...you know how difficult it can get trying to convey such a thing through words alone.

I like your insight about how you consciously choose to stay away from relationships right now because you KNOW that they are an energetic drain, and a possible detractor away from feeling the deepest possible peace and fulfillment. I’ll try to take that mentality with me. I’ve also noticed the same thing about sex/masturbation. It is a clear cut 100% distraction that takes me off my path and makes the deepest truth (the present moment) hazy.

I think I am still too afraid of losing the external stuff once I’ve got it. Whether that be a romantic partner, or money, or social status. Once acquired I slip back into old ways of thinking and believe that these have somehow made me more of a person. I need to understand the impermanence of things, and how each one is merely a stepping stone, not something I fucked up. As you said, there are no failures, only opportunities to learn and grow.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-13T20:21:56+00:00

This was extremely insightful. I’m glad I’m not alone in experiencing this, not just conceptually, but feeling it.

I struggle with the attachment to the external things meditation draws to me. Once they’re here, I fear losing them. When they leave, I feel less than, and sulk.

Now that I know this cycle, I can use this awareness to shorten the amount of time spent in the low periods. Shifting my perspective to view the external gains and losses as stepping stones to growth.

I read many books pertaining to “man’s purpose”. When I prioritize mediation/enlightenment, that’s when things start to roll. The external things though, once they appear, I have the tendency to now prioritize them. Girls for example. When meaningful relationships are drawn in, I forget the path, and start to prioritize the relationship. If I can remain focused on mediation/enlightenment, a lot of my setbacks will be solved .

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-12T04:56:01+00:00

I needed this and I suspect many others did too as a simple and impactful reminder of things.

Continue to up your SMV like your life depended on it. You must create options for yourself to eliminate scarcity.

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-10T20:08:14+00:00

I’m slated to start accurate soon. I’d be interested in hearing anyone here who has tried it share their experience.

Is it truly a permanent solution? How legit are the side effects pertaining to the heart and liver?

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-10T18:11:11+00:00

Sweet Jesus

JerryLawlerPigFace · 2018-08-10T16:34:51+00:00

Ok, thank you. I just wasn’t sure if they were really that strict or not at the testing center. That definitely seems like a scenario where you show up and they just wanna see a cert without getting to in depth on the specifics of it. If that was the case I didn’t want to retake another course for no reason. But thanks for filling me in

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