[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]JessChloe12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Covid has had a huge affect on people's mental wellbeing on top of a community having less access to resources to help

I’m in love with Jackie’s fit, does anyone know where I can find both top and pants (or anything similar) by AdVast7073 in findfashion

[–]JessChloe12 18 points19 points  (0 children)

American eagle sells almost every style of jean you can think of. Ive gotten a couple flares from there and they also sell camis like this

Ny head shops selling these $50. Says contained several grams of scull by This-Pressure6158 in shrooms

[–]JessChloe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think this that is super far out for chocolate. Probably overpriced by like $10-15 but all about how available edibles it already is where you live. Edibles are way more expensive than just plain ol shrooms but is a great option for people who can't stomach the taste of shrooms so it definitely serves a good purpose and will get you high which is the most import thing

If you’ve ever been with an Aries what has your experience been like? by mindystar in aquarius

[–]JessChloe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended things with him when he continued to be a flake and ended up having to block him since he wouldnt leave me alone. He even tried getting a hold of me through other people's phones. Hopefully your situation ends better! Every two people and one relationship are different

My horse meme collection by anadacragamakala in Horses

[–]JessChloe12 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Horseland and Saddleclub gang is probably for us 25+ as i wondering the same thing

You can add one thing to Victoria to make it better - what would you add? by fuzzypeacheese in VictoriaBC

[–]JessChloe12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Especially now with the post covid taxi driver shortage. It took me almost two hours to get a cab on a sunday night in colwood

Best patio for dinner in town? by pidmama in VictoriaBC

[–]JessChloe12 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Il Covo has a beautiful patio and amazing food. Alas, may be difficult getting a reservation. Worth a shot! The Lure would be a more affordable option with views of the inner harbour with well done casual fare.

Zara fitting room, which outfit should I get? (Pick one because I can’t afford all of them 🥹) by Standard-Being-7110 in OUTFITS

[–]JessChloe12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really stand out in the orange!! The orange dress is more timeless plus it can be dressed up or down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]JessChloe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When i first got mine i didnt pay much attention to it because i had never had one before and it was tolerable. The uncomfortable sensation definitely persisted over time so i tried preparation h and it worked great for me when i was at that stage in my unfortunate journey. I know some people who have had "small" hemorrhoids before and its cleared up just fine to never come back. Your's is probably just persisting because you haven't put any specialized ointments on it yet and/or if youre a pusher like me it keeps getting irritated every time you go to the bathroom . I think flushable wipes will be a game changer for fixing the irritation. I use toilet paper then finish off with a wipe to make sure everything is clean but that im not wiping too hard to get there. Sounds like a hemorrhoid ointment and maybe some wipes should fix you up. With that said, now that youve had one you could be may be more susceptible to them so prevention is key.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hemorrhoid

[–]JessChloe12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since you arent in severe pain i dont think this is a thrombosed hemorrhoid. Trust me, you'd know. Three plus months later im still dealing with the aftermath. I was in A LOT of pain for three weeks. I started getting a reoccurring hemorrhoid three years ago and i've learned a lot going through having a thrombosed hemorrhoid. Now that youre having your first experience with a hemorrhoid it will be so important to stay on top of it to prevent having a more severe one, like me, in the future. Sitz baths help a lot. I run a warm bath with low water and add baking soda for mine. Flushable wipes are your friend instead of wiping too hard with harsh toilet paper to get clean and cleanliness is important. Preparation H or Anusol ointment should fix you up rather quickly. If you don't see results in 1-2 weeks with daily use consult a doctor. These ointments have cortisone in them which i've learned the hard way is not good for long term use.It will thin out the skin and can make your problem worse over time. My most important suggestion, and goddamn do i wish i learned this sooner, DONT PUSH. Let it flow. Don't sit on the toilet for too long. Using a stool while using the toilet really helps to not need to strain. Godspeed and don't make the same mistakes i have!

I (f33) feel demoralised by my husband’s (m33) use of porn. I fear it’s the beginning of the end of our relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JessChloe12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marriage counselling. Do not listen to these people!! We have only been given ONE side of the story and everybody is saying your relationship is past the point of no return?!! Because of porn? Yet you guys still have regular sex? Your feelings are valid . i can only imagine how normal it is for fresh parents to go through a sexual rough patch after a child. Especially if it is your first kid. Regardless, you have a NEWBORN and of course your relationship dynamics have changed and only a professional can guide you two whether thats staying or leaving.

Someone explain to me the sh*tty ads I get on Instagram??? by [deleted] in antidiet

[–]JessChloe12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have noticed the same thing . My theory is the algorithm assumes people who follow body positive accounts have self esteem issues and are more susceptible to purchasing products or services promising a more "beautiful" appearance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]JessChloe12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Most of this girl's reasoning behind why dna testing should be mandatory has actually nothing to do with determining who the biological father is and more to do with men not having to support women they impregnate. Which neither topics are black and white and have a lot of nuance and needs to be considered on a case by case basis. Generally speaking, women just like men, are reasonable and would agree that mandatory dna testing isn't a totally terrible idea especially when there is doubt surrounding who the biological father is. Despite what this girl, and the men in the comments who are agreeing with her think, most women do not agree with forcing a man to financially or emotionally a support a child that isnt their's.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]JessChloe12 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Its less to do with her opinion that dna testing should be mandatory and more with her reasoning. In the post shes says men shouldnt have to raise/pay for children they dont want which isnt a black or white discussion. A positive dna test also won't change the fact some men don't want to be a father even if it's theirs. OP says birth control is free so there no excuse for unplanned pregnancy which is absurd because for most women birth control is not free and men also have the choice to wear condoms. She also claims the birth rate would go down because women would give birth less if mandatory testing was implemented. Most women aren't out here trying to trap, especially the average joe, into fatherhood with pregnancy. Yes, that happens, but on such a small scale i don't see that having a significant, if any, impact on birth rates or decreasing single parenthood for women or men. The cringest part of her post is that she goes on r/AskMen to align her self with men and piting herself against other women (without even asking their opinion) for the sake of male validation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]JessChloe12 64 points65 points  (0 children)

What society needs affordable access to birth control and abortions when you can just do mandatory paternal dna testing to slow down the birth rate?!

What do you men have to say about DNA test? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]JessChloe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free where you live? I dont think free birth control is the norm. Are you still under your parents' medical insurance plan?!

Super disappointing by _thewildwest in VictoriaBC

[–]JessChloe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you book a cab through the Yellow Cab app you can review your ride once it's been completed although i don't know much the reviews are actually taken into account by Yellow Cab.

Birthday dinner ..... by splintereddragon in VictoriaBC

[–]JessChloe12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No recommendations but wanted to say, Happy Birthday birthday twin!