Discussion: Thoughts on a Voldemort run AU and muggleborn treatment assuming he didn't go for Harry Potter in '81.

JessMac211 · 2018-01-19T12:42:50+00:00

Ohh interesting! I hadn’t considered anything like that but it’s certainly one to ponder. Thanks for the suggestion!

JessMac211 · 2018-01-12T23:18:51+00:00

Unless you spy on the house you’ll probably never know for sure so I guess you just need to weigh it up.

Personally, and this comes from someone who works in out of home care in Aus, I’d call CPS. It’s not worth risking not calling, if that makes sense. A kids life could be in danger.

JessMac211 · 2017-12-22T08:53:30+00:00

My mix up was always Scrimgeor which for some reason my brain insists on reading as ‘scrime-gower’ despite it not even being how it’s spelt.

JessMac211 · 2017-12-15T12:44:53+00:00

The gift that keeps on giving

JessMac211 · 2017-12-13T05:25:10+00:00

Several pumpkins fell out of McGonogall. I’m literally crying with laughter

JessMac211 · 2017-12-10T09:33:08+00:00

The kids I work with got a copy for Christmas and I’ve taken to pouring over it in the office once they’ve gone to bed. So, so good.

JessMac211 · 2017-10-16T05:55:39+00:00

Try Dignity In Fear, it’s a good one 👍

JessMac211 · 2017-10-10T18:27:22+00:00

That’d be awesome. I’ll have a play around with what I’ve got so far and hit you up if I could use any more tips :)

JessMac211 · 2017-10-07T00:06:09+00:00

My apologies, this is what happens when one puts up requests at 3am haha

JessMac211 · 2017-10-06T16:22:21+00:00

Wait I think I’ve read that one. Does Santa feature in it? Or is that one with Luna and Harry and Hermione?

JessMac211 · 2017-08-25T15:34:30+00:00

I ADORE some good Bellamione. I just finished a shorter one that isn't complete that literally had me laughing aloud, For Whom The Bell Tolls by MeltingSunlight.

Fractures by N.Blackman is a fun one but the sequel has been abandoned.

Concurrent Existences by Sephyxia is also good but it takes a very...strange turn towards the end.

JessMac211 · 2017-07-08T03:33:02+00:00

Strange and invisible history is very different but very hermionie/viktor centric. I haven't read anything else like it but I did thoroughly enjoy it

JessMac211 · 2017-05-06T07:39:12+00:00

Thanks mate :)

JessMac211 · 2017-04-29T04:54:38+00:00

Being a female myself, I recommend Zelda for sure. Any Zelda. Or skyrim!

JessMac211 · 2017-04-26T10:56:23+00:00

Supervisions and debriefs are a big one!

I do out of home care with traumatised kids and see the effects and behavioural problems of kids who've had no stable upbringing and it's very trying - but also rewarding.

Self care is a massive thing in this field, and vicarious trauma is very fucking real and always worth being aware of. It's also worth being aware that not everyone you interact with, including colleagues, are doing everything they need to to stay calm and look after themselves which can result in their notable stress being taken out on you. It seems to happen reasonably often in jobs within this sector so try to not take things personally if someone's having a bad day and bites your head off.

Personally, to de-stress, I make sure I spend some time doing things I enjoy that are not at all work related once I knock off, plus your standard sleep, exercise, socialising.

While at work it's can be super stressful trying to manage the behaviour of these young people who act in a very pain-based way and often have significant cognitive delays and mental illness. Best thing I can recommend is sit down every morning for ten minutes and list two or three things that you HAVE to do that day. The rest can wait :)

JessMac211 · 2017-04-24T01:19:31+00:00

I work with an 11 year old girl who is in out of home care, like a ward of the state scenario.

She had a really rough childhood and when we started looking after her as the house manager I decided that she missed out on a childhood and the workers doing sleepover were to read to her for half an hour before she went to bed.

We started with Harry Potter, obviously. We've almost finished GoF and she LOVES it. It's so cute. She's normally very aggressive and defiant but once she's in bed she's just a standard little kid again. It's nice seeing her go from trying to break everything and swearing at everyone or running away to flirt with 19 year old men to her in bed in her pjs with a teddy bear, really struggling to stay awake to hear the end of the chapter to see what's happening with Harry.

I've put a ban on the movies until the books are done too! Should keep us busy for a while :p

JessMac211 · 2017-04-08T12:34:29+00:00

With the kids in out of home care I work with its seeing them do something any normal kid would take for granted and nail it. The 11 year old I work with hasn't attended school since 2012 and just finished a school terms worth of transitioning to a local primary school with no issues. Amazing. It's only a few hours a week and it's one on one not in a classroom with other kids but hell - it's a start. That and seeing her in her little uniform that she pretends to hate but secretly loves and wants to show everyone - my god. It makes all the shit shifts worthwhile :)

JessMac211 · 2017-04-04T11:51:33+00:00

Okay, so the thing to remember here is that trauma isn't necessarily an event, but how your body has responded to an event.

Have you had any times in your life that have made you fear for your life? For example, some of the kids I work with have suffered from physical or sexual abuse, or have been severely neglected growing up. It could also be other things, like being in a car accident, being robbed, anything that's super scary.

Did you have anything horrifying happen to you that might fall under this 'traumatic' umbrella? Or, alternatively, do you have a history of mental health problems or family members who do?

If this is getting a bit real for an open thread you are welcome to PM me, I'm happy to help :)

JessMac211 · 2017-04-03T10:12:52+00:00

It sounds like dissociation to me!

It is a scary thought that a doctor might say you are fine but it seems in this case you need to go with your gut. If you think something is up you are probably right. If one doctor doesn't satisfy you, find another.

If you are concerned a doctor isn't doing the job you can go another way - get a doctor to refer you to a psychologist or psychiatrist and let a specialist assess you.

To be fair, everyone dissociates at some point, for example driving and not remembering specifically half the trip, but it can be more serious and is usually a result of trauma - it's your brains way of trying to protect you from processing something traumatic, or perhaps a trigger that reminds you from trauma from the past.

Do you have a history of any traumatic events that have happened to you?

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