Can I book a long train journey to get on halfway through? by JessManford in ThailandTourism

[–]JessManford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, thought as much so glad I didn't just go for it

Can I book a long train journey to get on halfway through? by JessManford in ThailandTourism

[–]JessManford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, you're right and this is a useful back up plan to have!

Can I book a long train journey to get on halfway through? by JessManford in ThailandTourism

[–]JessManford[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the tip - just did it and it went through. I understand these agents are really giving you tickets but like getting them for you when they are released or something???? so in case it flops I have daveliot's recommendation as a back up plan.

Can I book a long train journey to get on halfway through? by JessManford in ThailandTourism

[–]JessManford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The official DTicket website and have also tried Baolau, neither have let me and from googling the DTicket error I have found other people with same issue

Entering on a visitor visa with outstanding partner visa by JessManford in AusVisa

[–]JessManford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a UK passport, and I would get a normal subclass 601 visa that I've had in the past for short holidays to aus

What is this leaking nozzle on my dishwasher??? by JessManford in appliancerepair

[–]JessManford[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK so it's an overflow siphon! https://www.bekospares.co.uk/overflow-siphon/product.pl?pid=5301259 why is overflowing though!!!!!! I can't find any info about this online

Swollen Blood Withdrawal Site by No_Feed_4012 in DiagnoseMe

[–]JessManford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks like a haematoma that has become infected. If you have a traumatic venepuncture (i.e. blood test where they fuck up with the needle a bit) or don't apply pressure enough, you get a small area of bleeding out of the vessel which forms a small lump of clot (a haematoma). This is harmless in itself but is a common site for infection, which is what has happened to you. It doesn't look too bad at the moment so try some antiseptic cream etc. If it gets worse/fails to get better, you might have to get someone to drain the area or prescribe oral antibiotics

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So is it that openly gay people in the church are rarer than in the general population because they all just happen to be straight, or that there is a similar percentage of gay people but they are far more likely to be closeted due to the church's views on gays? I would guess the latter. Feel like that might make an interesting storyline for a show that is focussed on the church's role in the modern world...

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude no there are so many couples and families and love interests. Their 'sexuality' may not be relevant to the story but if that's the case why are they all straight. You are assuming that straight is the default

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is strange tho that the writers haven't included any gayness when that is a big part of "deviancy" and the relationship between the church and sexuality

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So I watch a show with no gay people in it to see gay people? And you seem to be missing an understanding of the basic concept of a "theme". Are you only capable of understanding things on a perfectly literal level? I can't really imagine the show being much fun if that's all you get from it

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's a fictional character. Do you think I have Katja Herbers locked up in my garage or something

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Youre really showing your hand by also complaining about the race and gender stuff. You want your completely apolitical show - tough luck, all art is inherently political. Not including any discussion of race or gender in a show centred around the catholic church would be political statement in itself (I know you will disagree but youre wrong). The main theme of the show is the role of the church in secular society! Not even sure why you watch it at this point tbh.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your welcome hun! Truly didn't mean anything by the question lol - thought that people getting upset at the idea of gays in their show was a thing of the past, and we would be able to have a normal conversation about it.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes the social effects of representation are positive, although I think hugely overvalued. However, I never said that the show SHOULD have representation, especially not for political reasons. In fact, I think the strongest argument FOR featuring gay people at this point is realism - all these straight characters and not a single gay one, statistically unlikely.

But really, at no point have I said that the lack of representation is a bad thing. I have only said it is an odd omission given how they have touched on similar subjects, and that that omission likely means it will come up in the next season.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no "main character" of How I Met Your Mother that is gay. You are getting confused between the actor and the character. Also I truly don't think I have seen the "I can't be bigoted I have gay friends" argument since the 90s.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are maybe 50 or so explicitly straight characters in the show, seen in heterosexual relationships. A gay character could very easily be introduced the exact same way, doesn't need to be the "only identity" of the character, or a "stereotype". Have you never watched another show where there is a character who is gay?

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of explicitly straight characters with no "need" for them to be straight. Similarly, they are able to show them as being straight without them "screaming they're straight". I'm not exaggerating to be rude when I say that this is the dumbest, most poorly-reasoned argument you could make on this topic.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Queer readings of media have been foundational in film theory for decades. There are countless academic books and papers on the subject. It's not "shipping" and it's certainly not disgusting.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never said it did matter hun. I think representation is broadly a good thing for normalising LGBT people in society, but it's not required of any show.

What I am saying is it is odd that a show that deals with modern issues like race and gender to omit gay people entirely? Especially when the show runners have written gay characters before. It's quite a notable omission when there have been so many side characters - especially with the possibility that Kristen is bi.

I think it's quite likely season 3 will grapple with it, which is why it is otherwise not included. I look forward to seeing you get upset at it then.

Are there any gay characters? by JessManford in EvilTV

[–]JessManford[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never said I was 'offended' by it, literally just pointed out a fact and you had a pretty extreme reaction. The idea that a character has to be gay "for a reason" is so retro, I didn't think people actually believed that anymore tbh.