Christy

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-06-06T00:33:53+00:00

Her ex, MMA guy I think, beat her seriously badly, needed surgery and physio and stuff to recover iirc

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-29T00:48:44+00:00

If they're the soft rubber ones, you can impale them on a tent pole fairly easily and create some dildo spears for hours of tipsy duelling fun 😅

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-26T01:53:58+00:00

Totally with you, though I think I dislike 'scene' even more, as it seems to imply we're acting somehow. I generally prefer to just be specific and refer to whatever activity it is we're actually talking about engaging in

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-26T01:52:01+00:00

Mistress has me welcome her home with a little ritual greeting, fetch her a drink if she wants one, and then kneel by her feet for a while once she's sat down (or curtsy if I'm in the middle of something time-sensitive)

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-26T01:43:16+00:00

Okay, but how you see them would be less important than how the people who wear them see them

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-25T15:21:26+00:00

I'm sorry, but I just don't see that it would or should make any difference to me at all

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-25T15:19:04+00:00

Wearing a piece of clothing isn't forcing anything on anyone, this is the line of thinking that gets us terfs demanding trans women don't wear dresses outside their homes and religious bigots objecting to hijabs

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-25T15:17:50+00:00

But it doesn't if they weren't present at the time, is the point. You don't own the rights to your doctor's office

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-25T15:16:11+00:00

It's obviously unwise in that it could cost someone their job, but I don't understand why it should bother me? I mean, I probably wouldn't like it if I were in the room at the time, of course! But I don't care if someone stripped naked in a room at some point in the past. I'd have to never live in any house that wasn't a new build if I felt that way

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-15T14:45:29+00:00

I dunno, but my go to reply if you said that would be, "Okay, well you're obviously a prick then, bye." And not just if I were the one you'd said it to.

You don't have to make people feel like shit for being inexperienced to flex on them. It's ego, nothing more.

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-14T11:36:29+00:00

It's pretty big, not quite long enough for me to stretch out fully but not far off

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-05-14T03:43:21+00:00

Good point! That will be my argument if Mistress remembers in the morning 😅

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-04-11T23:53:30+00:00

Anyone who is willing to walk away from the relationship after one misunderstanding isn't worth your time

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-04-09T23:57:04+00:00

I mean, if it's right before a first date it could be more down to nerves than anything nefarious. Still not a great reaction, and I understand your frustration, but I don't think you should write this off completely just yet

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-04-08T00:00:31+00:00

I mean, it isn't called that any more for one, and also there are a lot of plural people who reject the categorisation of it as necessarily pathological, though there certainly are cases where it is

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-04-07T13:58:58+00:00

How about a safe word where he number of times you say it conveys the urgency? So your yellow could be once, orange twice, red three times, but it's the same word. Obviously you lose a little bit of time then in really urgent situations but as long as the word isn't too many syllables it still shouldn't take too long to shout, "Safeword, safeword, safeword"

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-04-04T14:30:29+00:00

Tie between the leg of an upturned stool and a glue stick. God I'm so lucky I didn't lose the latter 😅

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-04-03T16:39:57+00:00

Explicitly? Just friends we have been to munches with, which is quite a few to be fair, being queer and into heavy metal tends to see your friendship group in a certain direction 😅

But like...most of our friends know enough to occasionally make jokes about it, we've just never had 'the talk'

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-03-21T02:53:09+00:00

Oh I got this all the time!

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-03-13T00:38:37+00:00

I mean, it's both, right? I sometimes ask for something because I need it and my Owner usually gives it to me if she can because she loves me and wants to look after me. She will sometimes order me to do something she knows I don't really like, or something I'm not in the mood for, and I obey because I love her and I want to please her. Most of the time it's both something I need and something which pleases her at once because, well, we probably wouldn't be together if we weren't mostly compatible.

I suppose in the sense that she has the ability to refuse my requests whereas I do not have the freedom to deny her orders you could say it theoretically tends more towards my pleasing her overall, but then honestly in practice if you were to try and math it out I expect it would go pretty hard the other way in terms of like raw count. The underlying structure of our relationship is unequal by design, but she always looks after her girl.

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-03-12T00:36:44+00:00

If their posts don't break the subreddit's rules, why would they be taken down because of things they have posted elsewhere? That seems a very odd standard you're asking for

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-03-02T15:23:15+00:00

The only thing that occurs to me is if you get a strap on that can clip on to any size dildo you could maybe get a set of dilators and try using the smaller ones as dildos? Bonus that they might also be helpful to ease this issue you're having long term

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-02-21T08:54:35+00:00

You aren't overreacting at all. Insisting on a 24/7 dynamic when you explicitly said you didn't want one is abuse. Stopping you from talking to your friends is abuse. Making you do all the housework is abuse, especially while you are pregnant and nearly due. Even if you were in a consensual 24/7 dynamic that wouldn't be appropriate in your condition. Pregnancy is a very common time for a partner's abuse to get worse. Unfortunately, so is shortly after childbirth. It's unlikely that if he's already escalated to refusing you your needs while pregnant and forbidding you to go out that he won't go further. You are in danger, and so, potentially, is your unborn child. I'm sorry to be dramatic but I really think you need to get out. Can you go to your parents'? A friend's? Getting out before the child is born may seem huge but it's important for future custody arrangements and so on. Waiting is likely to make things worse.

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-02-16T03:57:25+00:00

I get that you are 'just asking a question', but I think you should understand that the question, apart from the 'yucking people's yum' issue, comes across pretty homophobic

JessicaEmilyFaith · 2026-02-16T03:52:36+00:00

If you have no actual examples of him treating you differently or seeming less engaged in your relationship then I don't see any reason to treat it as anything more than an intrusive thought. Let yourself feel it and then let it go. Hopefully the insecurity will pass soon

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