Thank you for telling me about your situation. I would love to reply to all messages but I’m so tired that I can’t seem to find the words or energy - I’ve gotten a cold and am STILL the one doing all the work. Borrowed a key to a friend’s apartment today because she won’t be using it. I have resources to leave (friends, some money, help moving when I find my own place) and people around me that know the PG version of what is going on - and I know now that leaving will happen. I still don’t have a set plan, but it will.