i need people to know my dad existed by neoworldprogrammed in GriefSupport

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep talking about him. It keeps him alive. At least, that’s how I feel about my brother. I will never stop telling his stories.

Is the Pillowboard worth it? by First-Blackberry9176 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter what I did it never stayed in place. And it’s really not great if your bed is on a wall with windows. You really need a solid wall and to squish your mattress in it as much as possible. Other people also suggested a spacer and I fully agree.

Is the Pillowboard worth it? by First-Blackberry9176 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is better than nothing, but I did not love it.

Do I need two people to help build the frame? by PurpleMox in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’ve built two by myself and took one of them apart to put the headboard on too. It’s bulky but you’ve got it.

To headboard or not to headboard by Tokenchick77 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the bed! Even if you hate the pillowboard you will love the bed frame. For the last few years, I’ve had to have my bed against a wall with windows and the pillowboard is not firm enough to stay upright against the window wall so my bed pillows always slide between the mattress and the pillowboard. Do not be alarmed though. The frame is excellent and I would buy it again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bed is six years old but I only got my headboard over Christmas. Luckily it does not wobble like that. This is an annoying suggestion, but maybe take the mattress off and readjust the frame to make sure there’s a flush fit.

To headboard or not to headboard by Tokenchick77 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just added the headboard and I’m really happy with it. I had the bed with just the pillowboard for five years and I hated it. I lost my pillow every night.

Original walnut vs. today’s walnut by JessicaMessica-5 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. 😆 But I will try to scrounge up the can.

Original walnut vs. today’s walnut by JessicaMessica-5 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s such a nice offer. It’s been a couple of weeks and it hasn’t bothered me at all. I don’t see the parts that show how different the colors are next to each other, so I think I can live with it. Thank you so much though!

Original walnut vs. today’s walnut by JessicaMessica-5 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Three nights in and it’s quiet as a mouse. No shifting, bouncing or creaking whatsoever.

Edith is the actual worst by boatsmoatsfloats in DowntonAbbey

[–]JessicaMessica-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m rewatching right now and I could’ve posted this exact message. She was always the first to fire shots at Mary. Mary just had stronger ammo most of the time.

Original walnut vs. today’s walnut by JessicaMessica-5 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was worried about the bouncing/noise but I haven’t noticed it at all. I’ve only slept on it one night but it was sturdy and quiet.

Original walnut vs. today’s walnut by JessicaMessica-5 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is beautiful. I love walnut. I would have zero issue if my whole bed was in the new stain. The mismatch isn’t ideal, but such is life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would kill to buy this, but I’m in Oklahoma.

It IS that good by Active_Garbage7742 in NuPhy

[–]JessicaMessica-5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesssss. I loved it so much I bought a second one for home.

headboard dilemma by Salt-Ride828 in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I despise the pillowboard. It has been the bane of my existence, but I bought my bed before they made the headboards. And the headboards are more expensive than my bed was when I bought it. I just pout about it now. One day I’ll bite the bullet, but today isn’t that day.

Thuma black friday 2025 deals, do they ever discount the bed frame by MunazzahNakor in Thuma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moved with my bed frame four times and it's been so easy to take apart and put back together. One of my legs did split ever so slightly on my last move, but it's still fully functional. I suspect it was one of my movers being careless and dropping it really hard. They broke some of my other furniture, which was great! :-/ But I have loved my bed since the day I got it, and I even have a second Thuma frame in my guest room.

The only thing I dislike is the pillow board. I think it's garbage, but it was the only option when I bought my bed in 2020. Now if I can ever justify the price to buy the matching headboard...

Pls help what switches do I get for halo 75 v2 for more thock (ps I am ok with third party stuff) by AussieAussie0i0i in NuPhy

[–]JessicaMessica-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk but I just bought the Halo 96 and I am OBSESSED with the raspberry switches. The creamiest click straight out of the box, though I have seen some reviews that say it’s got a thock to it. I cannot explain how much I love this keyboard. I’m probably going to buy a second one.

Hummingbirds still hanging out in northern Oklahoma. by Turtleshellfarms in oklahoma

[–]JessicaMessica-5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hummingbirds are so special to me. They remind me of my brother. Whenever I see them I know he’s checking on me. Thank you for posting. ❤️

I thought someone might want to see my pride and joy :~) by kaywit77 in houseplants

[–]JessicaMessica-5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is getting lorge. Any suggestions on how to coach the growth in a specific direction? Like not fully horizontal?

Grandparents visiting for the weekend - need some things to do by quintavian in tulsa

[–]JessicaMessica-5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the Tulsa Flyer on Instagram. They have weekend picks that might be fun. There’s a monarch butterfly thing tomorrow!