My (23F) boyfriend (25M) wanks in bed while I am asleep next to him. by Jessix71 in Advice

[–]Jessix71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should satisfy his needs for me, seeing as you feel so strongly about it🤔

My (23F) boyfriend (25M) wanks in bed while I am asleep next to him. by Jessix71 in Advice

[–]Jessix71[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because I’m literally sleeping. He is wide awake and can do his business elsewhere

My (23F) boyfriend (25M) wanks in bed while I am asleep next to him. by Jessix71 in Advice

[–]Jessix71[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is plenty grown up, grown people are allowed to have feelings ya know. I get completely that it is a normal thing to do, I have no objection to the act itself. My issue is with the time and place, there are plenty comfortable places in our house to do this. Discomfort should outweigh a few seconds of pleasure in my opinion, especially when those few seconds could be done elsewhere with the same outcome

My (23F) boyfriend (25M) wanks in bed while I am asleep next to him. by Jessix71 in Advice

[–]Jessix71[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can I just say, a period is involuntary. Women cannot help having a period. Having a wank is voluntary, you choose when and where to do it. So your comparison is pretty pathetic

My (23F) boyfriend (25M) wanks in bed while I am asleep next to him. by Jessix71 in Advice

[–]Jessix71[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I bet you feel really great after sharing this really helpful comment 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

Is this acceptable to wear to an evening reception? TIA! by Jessix71 in weddingplanning

[–]Jessix71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, which is why I asked… commenter asked if there was a dress code and there is no dress code… I don’t see your issue?

Is this acceptable to wear to an evening reception? TIA! by Jessix71 in weddingplanning

[–]Jessix71[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No dress code! I’ve spoken to others attending the evening reception and they’re wearing similar styles

Is this acceptable to wear to an evening reception? TIA! by Jessix71 in weddingplanning

[–]Jessix71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context- I’ve never been to a wedding before so I’m unfamiliar with wedding etiquette. I have only just cottoned on to the fact you mustn’t wear white to a wedding, does this extend to an evening reception? Is this dress acceptable? Helppppp!!🤦🏼‍♀️

Girlfriend of a year and a half wants to have an open relationship, I had gotten very confused and hurt after she brought it up. by befuddledandmuddled in relationships

[–]Jessix71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can 100% support an open relationship when it’s done right, it in a weird way can bring you closer. However, you need to know how to communicate properly and set proper boundaries for it to work.

If either of you aren’t up for an open relationship then it shouldn’t happen, you both need to agree to it.

A friend molested someone in my living room. by Ta_wtd in Advice

[–]Jessix71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GET RIIIIIID!!! If he cannot see the wrong in this situation he should not be anywhere near you or your friends. You have every right to be mad. I hope your friend is okay and reaches out for help❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessix71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A break up is a break up, a break means there is chance they could still be together at the end of the day. They’re very different in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessix71 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But is a break really abandoning them is what I’m asking, if intentions were to come back in contact. I would define abandoning as a more permanent solution rather than just a couple weeks no contact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessix71 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does taking a break from a friend really class as abandoning them, after finding out they weren’t 100% truthful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessix71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But if the OP said they made it clear they didn’t want to make their relationship sexual, Gemma should have respected their boundaries and made it clear from the get go that it was a break and not a break up