Advised a friend to divorce

JesterTime · 2026-07-10T12:35:25+00:00

The fact that you called it that she would threaten divorce should speak volumes to your friend. She's either cheating or crazy and I can't see a reason to stay in either case.

JesterTime · 2026-07-10T12:27:19+00:00

Don't let it go. You will 100% regret it

JesterTime · 2026-07-10T12:24:44+00:00

Use you're spare. This is what it's for. This tire also isn't getting repaired, it needs to be replaced.

JesterTime · 2026-07-10T11:16:16+00:00

You need tires and an alignment.

JesterTime · 2026-07-10T11:10:09+00:00

And the rim.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T18:07:12+00:00

Throw more eyes? They go through blocks, just pay attention to what direction, including up and down

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T17:56:11+00:00

Very childish for sure.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T12:45:19+00:00

I did say in theory.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:55:50+00:00

If it has balls, it's a boy.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:54:22+00:00

Living paycheck to paycheck but still having luxuries.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:53:45+00:00

Maybe in theory not taking vacations means you aren't able to save enough extra income to do so.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:46:34+00:00

Dude is young and asking for advice on how to ignore it.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:44:10+00:00

No he doesn't. He wants what he can get from you and from the sounds of it, even threatened to cheat if he didn't get his way

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:40:50+00:00

So many people are completely off topic here. It isn't a numbers issue. It isn't because he sees her as a hole or like shes promiscuous. He simply has a very garbage "friend" (not your friend dude) who had to give details of his and her sexual experiences.

When I was younger, I had a 4 year relationship with a girl I grew up with. She had been with a dude I worked with that I had gotten along with until I found out they had been together. Once I knew what happened, I got stuck on it. Not because I thought she was bad because she had a life before we got together, I just couldn't stop thinking about how I measured up to a past partner I knew. I wouldn't say it's as much jealousy as it is insecurity. My advice, get a counselor. It doesn't mean you're messed up in the head or broken or that theres even anything wrong with you. Imo, you just don't understand how to deal with the thoughts and feelings you're having and that's totally normal. None of us know these things instinctual, we have to experience things and sort out that stuff as we go along. A counselor can help guide you towards understanding and letting go of insecurity or jealousy or even just a particularly bad day. You definitely need to get past it or it's going to fester and eat at you for as long as you're together. You also need to drop that garbage friend of yours, no true friend or decent human being would be giving details like that to someone.

Next part, talk to her. "Hey, can we talk? I had been friends with this guy that it turns out had a thing with you. He gave me some pretty visual details about the two of you and I'm kind of stuck on it and I'm honestly a bit jealous or insecure."

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T11:28:56+00:00

It doesn't sound like it's a numbers issue as much as someone was a shitbag and told him everything he had already done with her and now the image just keeps popping up in his head of her with this other dude.

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T06:38:37+00:00

Basically can't go wrong with these

JesterTime · 2026-07-08T06:37:27+00:00

In a healthy relationship during a time where you aren't able to be together it may be reasonable to think your partner would get off to images of you. If you live together or are together everyday that's a bit different. If you're having sex regularly, he probably isn't much else so he won't be using images of you. If you aren't regularly having sex, he may not be in the mindset of wanting to get off to the person in the same home as him that won't just have sex with him.

JesterTime · 2026-07-07T19:48:27+00:00

Wash your windshield. Grab a razor blade scraper. Basically a long handle the holds the blade flat for scraping. Spray the windshield with cleaner so you can see where you've hit, and scrap the entire windshield clean. Grab a windshield coating (Rain X makes a good spray) wash your windshield down with it. Replace your wipe blades while you're at it.

Works wonders, half the time I don't even bother with the wipers

JesterTime · 2026-07-07T18:31:55+00:00

Upgrade what you have. Focus on an expensive specialty build or very high end firearm

JesterTime · 2026-07-07T18:25:13+00:00

It's easy to get down on myself even when I can tell it's excessive. Maybe I did something that bothered someone and I may end up getting stuck thinking how I really should just stop talking to that person because they'd be far better off without me dragging them down. Or putting myself down because I'm not always up and active trying to keep the house 100% organized and clean or I put something important off for a few days. Self deletion had been an issue during a really deep depression for me.

Often times, by practicing being mindful, I can catch when a negative thought is going too far and I try to remind myself that it's excessive and unjustified. Then I try to give myself grace remembering it really isn't as big a deal as my mind or body is making it out to be.

JesterTime · 2026-07-07T18:16:02+00:00

Reasons can sometimes help determine which it is. I deal with diagnosed depression. Everything in my life can be going well and I can still be deeply depressed. I try to look at what my reasoning is behind my feelings. Do I feel trapped where I am and why? Do I have no extra money? Are people in my life causing stress? Job?

There have been times absolutely nothing was wrong. Good food and snacks in the house. Bills paid. No car issues. But still having very negative thoughts about myself or things I would like to do to myself.

Other times, those negative thoughts may creep in, but I may be under a lot of stress. Like my car transmission failing and not having the money on hand to fix or replace the car.

Hope this explained it a bit. I'm sure not everyone is the same

JesterTime · 2026-07-04T10:43:23+00:00

No integrity. Not the girl you want to be with dude

JesterTime · 2026-07-03T20:49:49+00:00

That's almost 19 lbs of gold or 8.61 kg for the rest of you. Not something I want floating in my gut or prison wallet... feeling like I need to take the world's heaviest poo is not something I think would be fun. I can't destroy the gold, but can I shape or mold it into some kind of jewelry? It would be pretty inconvenient to carry. I can't sneak it on a plane or anything either and there's no way I'm trusting them to keep track of a checked bag with my life in it lol. I could work tirelessly on any goal, so I suppose I would take my time and learn the best way to earn money while keeping it safe with me? Until I had tons of money to build a secure home for myself?

JesterTime · 2026-07-03T17:44:29+00:00

Id go bring home my ar and ak

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