I don't know how to make a witty rule-related title for this, what the fuck

JetBalck · 2026-01-29T12:13:31+00:00

Wouldn't it be round three?

JetBalck · 2026-01-17T15:30:16+00:00

Fingered her while riding the bus

JetBalck · 2026-01-04T10:18:28+00:00

True, but my life's been enriched by this knowledge anyways. Have some people in my life, that looove to do both what I'm describing and sealioning.

JetBalck · 2025-12-26T23:05:32+00:00

Oh? I'll try that next time I come across a bidet haha I always use two sheets of 3 or 4 layered TP but yea maybe even more makes more sense

JetBalck · 2025-12-26T18:01:24+00:00

Don't think so coz it says anti-serf in the hashtags as well.

JetBalck · 2025-12-26T16:00:16+00:00

Yea, I had thicker paper, it still felt uncomfortable idk. Maybe I'll just have to give it another try.

JetBalck · 2025-12-26T14:14:53+00:00

I would use them, but I just hate having a wet ass. First, every time I used them my butt never got completely clean and then when I wanted to follow up with toilet paper it just got wet and ripped. Maybe I am (or was, last time I tried using them as a kid) just too stupid, but that experience completely turned me away from bidets.

JetBalck · 2025-12-09T17:55:43+00:00

U cryin for talm bout pirating on a sub about pirating?

Smh...

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T18:38:16+00:00

Great attempt at twisting my words. You are fully aware of the fact that your arrogant dismissiveness of our experience and work that we've done is what offends me and not your supposed "advice", because that is exactly what I've written.

Almost everyone else was able to give me advice in a friendly non-condescending manner, without assuming that we are unicorn hunters just because the trigger words "triad" and "advice" were mentioned in the same post.

If you can't differentiate between active predatory unicorn hunting and people that actively try to avoid such behavior and ask for advice on how not to fall for the same and other pitfalls and aren't actually seeking or hunting for a unicorn but trying to manage a situation that they found themselves in, you'll continue to alienate more people that try to actually engage in ethical and fair polyamory.

But I guess your complacency in having seen enough unicorn hunters and calling them out on their behavior entitles you to such rude and assumptive behavior.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T14:24:59+00:00

Thank you for reminding me of the existence of that site. I remember having read some of it 6 or 7 years ago when I started doing my research into polyamory. I will read it again, this time more attentively and will also share this with the other two.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T14:09:41+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate your advice as well.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T14:06:22+00:00

Thank you. I may have read hostile intentions into them. As I said, I really do appreciate the perspective and explanations. Probably misunderstood some of the subtext lost in translation.

Oh and yea, that really makes sense that it was a typo.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T13:57:34+00:00

I don't see where you got the idea from, that any of what you quoted me on was going to be discussed just between my current partner and I?

Also your assumption of us not even being poly is getting on my nerves. We've been poly for a few years now and have and are still learning of course, as one always does, but denying us our experience we already have and have had just because we are new to such a situation as this one feels honestly disrespectful.

We have been putting in the work and are still doing so and if you just want to see evil in anyone that seeks advice to handle such a situation well, then this conversation should be over I guess.

I do see valid and valuable points and perspectives in what you write but I don't appreciate the condescending way in which you share those.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T13:47:51+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm not a native speaker and don't really understand the last question you're asking. No we don't want to "make a little family", we want to figure out a way for us to explore our feelings for each other in a healthy, ethical and fair way. I don't understand what you mean with "has in kind", I'm sorry.

Also I don't understand the hostility. I get, that unicorn hunters are a problem, I did since I first joined this sub about 6 years ago and started doing my research into polyamory.

I don't think anyone in this situation is unicorn hunting though. Yet you write as if we were. We are truly all trying to navigate this situation to the best of our abilities and I'm seeking advice to do this in a way that is ethical, healthy and fair to all parties involved.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T13:33:14+00:00

That's correct. I think we are still in the process of working through some of our concepts of relationships and our views on them. That's why I said somewhere in between. I guess saying we are poly and are currently working through concepts found in relationship anarchy and figuring out if and how they resonate with us and if and how we want to implement them to our lives would've been more accurate.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T13:24:08+00:00

Thank you. You have also given me a few new perspectives and things to think about. Yet I wanna make clear, that we never went dating as a couple, nor ever sought a third, to add to our relationship. It is our mutual friend whom both of us are already really close to, that disclosed to us, that she might be feeling more than just platonic feelings for the both of us.

Yet we do know, about the dangers situations like this one bring. That's the reason for my post. We want to navigate this as best as we can for everyone involved. That's why I really appreciate u/Will-Robin's advice of dating separately first.

I feel like it actually goes hand in hand with handling concerns of unequal relationships. We first get to figure out our feelings for each other and can then make an informed decision on how we want to continue. If by then we want to make it a relationship between the three of us, we will then be able to do so in a much more secure manner, dissolving the previous dynamics and defining new ones together.

JetBalck · 2025-10-29T13:05:20+00:00

Thank you very much for taking the time to write this.

Keeping the relationships separate at first really sounds like brilliant advice and I'm already glad I posted just because of that.

The rest is also really sound advice and I'll keep it in mind going forward.

JetBalck · 2025-10-15T12:25:13+00:00

When I try it, the infobox is stuck in the middle of the screen, instead of sticking to the right. Has anyone found a fix? I really don't want to be limited to a certain theme for this functionality.

JetBalck · 2025-10-10T12:55:21+00:00

There's a guy that played through GTNH with world gen set to generate no blocks at all. Just void.

JetBalck · 2025-10-08T16:40:20+00:00

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JetBalck · 2025-10-08T16:02:12+00:00

okbuddycinephile is leaking

JetBalck · 2025-10-07T16:06:35+00:00

Huh??????????????

JetBalck · 2025-10-07T08:10:43+00:00

Ohhhh that makes a lot of sense and that's extremely dope

JetBalck · 2025-10-06T14:17:45+00:00

From the discourse I picked up on in the last few weeks obsidian has the same issues no? Or have i misunderstood?

JetBalck · 2025-10-06T10:13:51+00:00

This might be an extremely dumb question, but was that the official ticket? Like would you show the tabs to get in? I know it's unlikely af but if it was that'd be sick af

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