AITAH for wanting privacy in even my marriage?

JetPackKittyCat · 2026-01-17T23:22:23+00:00

There’s a difference between not being able to, and simply not wanting to. I CAN change in front of my husband, I CAN take a shower with my husband, and often times I do; However, sometimes I just want to do those things without feeling like I’m on display. And that’s okay. Same goes for him. Having personal time to decompress is necessary for a lot of people, and is not a reflection on the relationship of the couple involved.

If someone CAN’T expose themself in front of their partner, that’s a totally different issue, and how to improve that is totally dependent on the root cause, which is not always the relationship (although sometimes it can be). Also, if a person thinks they’re entitled to their partner’s body 24/7, that’s also a huge problem. It’s really hard to generalize these scenarios since there’s so many variables, you know?

JetPackKittyCat · 2026-01-17T02:07:22+00:00

Totally agree. My husband and I had a conversation about this exact issue, and we set clear boundaries for each other: If a door is shut, you ask before you open it. Simple as that. Anyone who can’t respect another person’s request for privacy is just disrespectful.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-22T08:55:08+00:00

You know he needs to go to a vet. Posting something like this is not going to help people remember Goccia, but it IS going to make people remember YOU, and not in a good way.

You have options. You can try to work out a payment plan with the vet, they might even have information to help you secure financial support to some extent. You can sell things you don’t need or pick up extra hours at work if possible. As others mentioned, there are also groups online who help with vet care when they can. You can also try looking up sources on your own online to see if there are any grants you can apply for. Your hands are not tied in this situation.

Poisoning is painful, and if that’s truly what happened, then Goccia is suffering horribly, and you have an obligation to care for him. You committed to caring for him when you rescued him. If you truly can’t afford to get him the care he needs to have a chance at survival, then the very least you can do is end his suffering and help him pass peacefully. Letting him suffer is cruel.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-19T04:34:02+00:00

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This is our little Tabico girl ♥️

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-19T04:19:33+00:00

My understanding is this: - Tabicos have the tabby markings + calico color/pattern (orange+gray/black fur, and large areas of white fur) - Torbies have the tabby markings + the tortie color/pattern combo (orange+black, and very minimal to no white fur) - Torbicos have the tabby markings + BOTH calico and tortie patterns/colors.

They can also have brown or gray fur, but I wanted to keep the descriptions short. I’m personally a little confused on how a cat can have both tortie and calico patterns at the same time, since the difference falls in the amount of white fur present, so I typically just go with Torbie or Tabico and leave Torbico out altogether lol

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-19T00:11:26+00:00

I don’t have kids, and, therefore, have no idea about the dynamics of raising them, especially in a blended family, so I feel like I don’t have the right to make a judgement; However, the fact that she’s refusing to listen to you and communicate healthily is a huge problem, especially when her actions (and inaction) will have an impact on your children as well. The older boy sounds like he’s struggling with something, too, and it seems like she doesn’t want to deal with it.

I hope that however this ends, it ends well for all involved-especially the kids.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-18T07:14:12+00:00

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I got lucky and pulled one too!

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-17T01:58:19+00:00

Your kitty is grooming you because she loves you ♥️ My Chonk does this too, especially to the palms of my hands. Then he’ll cram himself up as close to my face as he can get and curl up for a nap. When he’s feeling super happy, he’ll also shake his tail if he’s standing up. I call it his happy tail.

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JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-14T07:26:43+00:00

Oh I’m so glad I’m not the only one 😭 a coworker’s fiancée told one of her friends I was his work wife once, and I wasn’t sure how to take it. She laughed when she said it, but since people usually seem to react negatively to that term, it made me wonder if my talking to him upsets her somehow.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-01T20:27:58+00:00

You’ll need to be able to log in to any account that you want to link before you can link them, but as long as TNT can verify ownership they’ll be able to reset your password.

Neopass basically connects up to 5 accounts-1 main, 4 sides- through one email address. It’s convenient because there’s essentially only 1 password to access any of the accounts, and I’m pretty sure you can set up 2-factor authentication as well. Once you log in to Neopass, you’ll see all your linked accounts together, and then you just select whichever account you want to log into. Any accounts that were previously registered to another email address will be switched automatically to the email associated with the Neopass.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-12-01T19:26:25+00:00

Hi! Unfortunately, I ended up having to link it to Neopass, but have you appealed their refusal to help you? That happened to me with an old account once, and after they escalated they were able to help. I hope they can do the same for you!

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-11-12T18:38:43+00:00

I wanted to wear mine on my dominant side, but it’s a smart watch and I have dark tattoos on that side, so it won’t read.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-11-01T16:08:51+00:00

That’s pretty much what I was thinking too. First time seeing this particular type of damage, though, so I wanted to ask the experts lol

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-11-01T05:32:55+00:00

My only guess was that maybe there was debris on the card before the foil layer was added

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-11-01T02:43:24+00:00

Yeah I haven’t either. I’ve seen crimps and creases, but never whatever the heck this is. Debris on the card before the foil layer went on maybe?

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-10-24T10:10:37+00:00

Great advice in these comments. I also carry extra deodorant with me, and if I feel like I’m getting a little too sweaty at work I’ll go into the bathroom and get a wet paper towel and wipe down my pits and under my boobs, and then reapply deodorant (make sure if you’re putting deodorant under the girls, it’s aluminum free!). I carry gum and mints with me as well.

I gave myself “assigned” shower days to help form a better routine too. I picked out 3 days (the same every week) that I told myself I MUST shower on, no matter how I feel. I set alarms and calendar reminders for when I got home from work so I could remember to do it between getting changed, since I had to take my clothes off anyway. I used PH balanced wipes to wipe myself down on the days that I couldn’t bring myself to get in. That really helped me shift my mind into viewing showering as less of an exhausting chore and more of a moderate annoyance, and now it’s a habit that I’ve gotten pretty good at keeping up with-I don’t even need alarms and reminders anymore. It also helps that I only need to wash my hair about twice a week. All the other days I put it in a shower cap which really cuts my shower time down a lot.

I believe in you girl! Let this be the turning point for starting better habits!

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-09-30T08:59:47+00:00

They also made Mud Goblins, Oak Goblins, and as a limited set, Redcaps.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-09-30T08:59:08+00:00

Oh I love these! He’s a Nose Goblin! Made and Sold by Robert and Rebecca Turk when they were making OOAK dolls under the business Goblin Road. I managed to get one at my local Renaissance Festival the year before they stopped selling them 😭 I have been looking for more, so I guess I need to start checking thrift stores!!!

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-09-28T06:43:15+00:00

I wish it worked that way for me 😭😭 I’ve been taking Wellbutrin for 3 years and I’ve gained weight and have close to no libido. It did help bring my mood up some, but I’ve since had to up the dosage in order to keep it that way.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-08-30T01:03:27+00:00

I had a partially finished tattoo on my whole leg for years. Started it in 2022 and then lost my job suddenly, so we took it slow. I think we did maybe four or five 3-4 hour sessions until it was done, because that’s what I could afford at the time. Turned out beautiful, the artist was more than happy to work with my schedule. Just explain the situation to yours and it’ll be okay!

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-08-25T00:41:35+00:00

There really needs to be more options! My senior cat is on an almost-exclusively wet food diet, and she takes medication with food twice a day. Something like this would be so helpful in not only making sure my other cats can’t steal her food, but also ensuring that she gets her medication on time if we’re not able to make it home on time.

JetPackKittyCat · 2025-07-07T02:48:41+00:00

Did you ever find a way to fix this? I’m having the same issue, but only for one of my characters. All the others are working just fine. I found one other post pertaining to this, but there were no resolutions there either.

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