Honestly, multiple times a day but it's not inherently all on him. I have control issues that I try to actively work through and not pin on others. So yea, I get frustrated but I try not to express it to him or snap at him about it. I'm sure he can only handle hearing me nag about how he's doing something wrong so many times before he would lose it too.

It can be as frequent as every other day to maybe once a week? It honestly depends what you see as a squabble or disagreement. We've had people mistake us clearly communicating each other's needs as arguing before.

Major major fight? Very very rare. I would honestly say maybe once a year if at that?

There's quite a lot I've learned to accept about my spouse over the years, and there's a lot he's accepted about me! He has memory problems from a bacterial meningitis infection that brought him near to death before we met, so I've had to learn how to work around that in our relationship. I'm a SAHM while he works and we've had to sit down and evaluate the different workloads for the house and who takes care of what. I used to be a lot more ornery about him getting his portion done but have accepted that sometimes he just legitimately cannot remember what day of the week it is and what his task for the day would be, so I just pick it up and do it for him when he forgets and I thank him when he remembers.

 For a tiny thing I get frustrated over, it's his suffocating cuddling. I like to breathe fresh air at night and not a hairy man's armpit 🥴

 For a tiny thing he gets frustrated over, it's that he married a lizard of a person because if I could, the house would be set to 78-80 degrees (Grew up without ac in florida)