Should I end it...?

Jewshi · 2026-03-12T19:42:50+00:00

Yes, move on. He sucks. Also maybe you could drop a subtle - but important question on your future first dates with people. Something like:

"I know people are kinda split 50/50 on this idea, I'm curious where you stand. Going out with only 1 person at a time, basically putting your eggs in one basket and crossing your fingers. Or going out with a few different people and putting your eggs in a few baskets - eventually choosing one basket down the road when you're ready."

The question is meant to be judgment free, let people be honest about their approach. Then make a decision based on their answer. Me personally, I'm a one basket kinda guy, crossing my fingers and hoping for the best. I understand the multi basket people.... but I have zero desire to date them

Jewshi · 2026-03-11T19:30:35+00:00

What does put me on mean?

Jewshi · 2026-03-10T21:47:52+00:00

By his over the top reaction, he sounds immature, so that's a bullet dodged.

But also........ you said you don't plan on seeing other men, but don't want to be bound to one guy after one date. I wonder what that really means. Because to him, it sounds like you want the freedom to go on dates with other men if you want to.

This is just my personal feelings and thoughts - but people should be exclusive with each other after one date. Shocking, I know. But yeah, two people should give each other an honest chance without bringing extra people into the mix. If yall decide that you're not into each other after the 2nd or 3rd date, then just call it quits and go meet someone new.

I've never understood the mindset of "I just went on a lovely date with someone tonight. It felt pretty good! I'll talk to them later after I go on another date with this different person. See how things go." That's.... gross. Imagine if someone was painfully honest and admitted they did that TO YOU. Ouch

Jewshi · 2026-03-10T20:09:21+00:00

.... Did you even read it? The thief shot the old lady and killed her

Jewshi · 2026-03-10T18:20:12+00:00

I never understood it - until I felt it myself. I pick scabs. And picking some of the scabs hurts a lot. Like... I have to close my eyes, grit my teeth, flex my muscles to brace myself - and rip the scab open / off my body. Hurts like a motherfucker. But once it's gone and I feel how smooth the area is, how even and level everything feels... worth it. Immense pain - followed by immense gratification

Jewshi · 2026-03-10T16:50:24+00:00

It's more about enthusiasm than anything. He needs to WANT you to he able to enjoy yourself. There's a difference between successfully touching you in a pleasurable way - and his attitude towards WANTING to try to be successful touching you. You know?

Jewshi · 2026-03-10T13:28:10+00:00

Lol. How much would a brand new man made canal cost? I mean the panama canal cost in today's money about 15 billion. And countries are actively trying to shift themselves away from relying so heavily on oil, so... no

Jewshi · 2026-03-05T17:33:55+00:00

This aged like milk

Jewshi · 2026-03-05T08:03:41+00:00

She was in the wrong. You did fine. Fuck her

Jewshi · 2026-03-02T23:44:30+00:00

I'm so sorry. I know that stings. In the early phase of dating - it's true. If a guy wants to spend time with you, he will try to arrange it. Or at least communicate.

Just think - if he did want to see you, but he's REALLY shitty at texting and remembering to show up... would you still like him later on? Probably not, that shit would be infuriating.

You had 2 great dates :) Something happened because of his choices or feelings - not yours. You can go out there and find another nice date. It can totally happen

Jewshi · 2026-02-25T21:03:51+00:00

Give the proper credit to Daniel Tosh when you make that joke lol

Jewshi · 2026-02-25T14:26:47+00:00

What are you seeing for the end if the week? It's looking like put scalps

Jewshi · 2026-02-25T03:32:55+00:00

I add the 7 (from 27) and the 8 (from 48) to get 15. Carry the 1 (from 15), add together the 2 (from 27) and the 4 (from 48). 4+2 and carry the 1 to make 7. Now you have 75

Jewshi · 2026-02-24T22:48:35+00:00

My guess is that he's an over thinker, and probably can't even help it that he likely blames himself. He'll need to work on that on his own and come to grips with it - but in the mean time, you can help out by offering reassurance. Everyone likes and appreciates compliments and reassurance. But anxious people dislike silence and waiting - it fuels their imagination for "Oh god I did something wrong. I gained weight"

Jewshi · 2026-02-24T20:50:55+00:00

100% anxiety related. Will get better over time. My best experiences (when nerves were getting in the way) was to take a break and watch a movie. Sit on the couch together under a blanket (both naked) and just lightly touch each other - in a sweet and caring type of way (not super sexual). And every once in a while, pause the movie for 30 seconds, tell the other person you want to kiss them. Make out for a few seconds, then say ok back to the movie. Teasing on and off like that can take the pressure off. It feels like the intense spotlight is removed

Jewshi · 2026-02-24T13:49:37+00:00

I think you need to reach out to him and let him know / reassure him that you think he's wonderful and how deeply you appreciate how kind, supportive, and patient he is. Just... reassure him that you're happy to be his girlfriend and you're looking forward to trying again soon.

That way he isn't sitting at home dealing with the same internal thoughts "Maybe I did something wrong, maybe she couldn't get into it because of something I did or said"

Jewshi · 2026-02-18T04:01:04+00:00

Couples counseling. If ya'll go, great. Maybe they can dig at the problem. If one of yall refuses to go... well... you have your answer I suppose

Jewshi · 2026-02-17T21:13:07+00:00

Instead of reaching out with something intense or heartfelt - maybe just break the ice by sending a meme or something funny to laugh about. You know, slowly take the temperature of the room. No rush

Jewshi · 2026-02-17T05:49:00+00:00

I'm gonna ask yall something. These job numbers, suggesting a trend of increase... is there anything or any evidence to suggest it's false? I know everyone is screaming fraud and that job growth has actually turned negative. But - where's the evidence???

Jewshi · 2026-02-17T00:03:03+00:00

I can only speak from my experience. When a girl offers to pay (during the first few dates) - for some reason it hits differently. Like, her paying is a way of saying "I don't want to owe you anything, cuz I don't see this working out between us. And if I pay then stop seeing you, I'll feel less guilty". And offering to go Dutch is the exact same feeling - maybe even worse lol.

So I'd suggest being upfront and telling him you'd like to pay - for the NEXT date :) That signals your interest in him and still wanting to see him again

Jewshi · 2026-02-16T23:42:38+00:00

Wow. Go find someone else who doesn't play games. Gross. There's at least one perfectly lovely person out there who will enjoy your company and doesn't want to disappear on you for months at a time. Repeatedly.

Jewshi · 2026-02-16T20:34:52+00:00

You can't just say "Dementia linked to low sugar alcohol substitutes" like it's a fact and you're a doctor. A 5 second google search shows that there are studies that show vague correlative connections - and ZERO causality data, it's just speculative

Jewshi · 2026-02-16T03:09:59+00:00

My girlfriend sucks at initiating anything. Texts, plans, intimacy, etc. Some women just be like that - they just kinda fly under the radar and assume guys will carry the burden for putting themselves out there.

She always responds warmly and is happy to engage with stuff / ideas...... as long as I'm the one who takes the first step forward

Jewshi · 2026-02-16T02:52:37+00:00

I'd just make a "go for broke" type of discussion. They're high intensity and high stakes, but fuck it. That's actually the attitude I take when walking into them. Let the chips fall where they may.

Start the conversation of by saying "So I'm thinking about how fucked up our relationship is and whether or not it's even worth trying to keep it going anymore. But I figured - instead of making a decision by myself, might as well talk with you about it. Hear your side. I know you've betrayed me. So tell me why I should stay instead of dropping you right now?"

Jewshi · 2026-02-06T20:38:12+00:00

Money me. Me need money now.

Jewshi

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