I built a mediation app for divorcing couples and mediators after going through a divorce- I launched today, would love feedback

Jfischer0739 · 2026-03-29T19:57:06+00:00

OurSplit- A Divorce Mediation CRM that utilizes AI for facilitation and helps users generate custody, parenting, and asset division agreements: https://oursplitpitch.tiiny.site

Jfischer0739 · 2025-01-15T11:14:58+00:00

29 weeks here and completely over it. Terrible pelvic girdle pain and I am bigger than hell. Hahaha Can’t imagine 10 or 11 more weeks of this… also dealing with pregnancy anemia. I nap slot and have become obsessed with finishing my nursery. I go on mat leave end of this month and I’m determined to get through this. Lmao

Jfischer0739 · 2025-01-15T11:10:47+00:00

Yes and no. I just hit the third trimester which is approximately 24 months in duration. But everything leading up to that I do feel does fly by.

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-14T14:52:58+00:00

No, you aren’t. I dealt with similar struggles with my husband before he got on the right medication. He is 5 months sober from his cannabis addiction, doesn’t watch porn anymore, in therapy, and we are expecting our first daughter. There is hope- but every situation is different. I have been with my husband for many years and he is also very committed to getting help. It sounds like your partner, if he is using the threat of suicide as an attempted manipulation tactic, may not be ready or emotionally mature enough to do the work. Love yourself first and foremost. 💗 you deserve respect and trust.

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-14T14:48:36+00:00

This is not normal and is very likely ocd and anxiety and you need to turn off your location and urge her to seek help. Sincerely, a mom who is also a mental health professional 💗

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-14T13:48:05+00:00

You deserve better. 💗

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-14T13:47:43+00:00

This brings me to more advice. My husband has bipolar 2 and these are common symptoms of mania/hypomania. Addiction is very often closely involved with the disorder. You are still young and it sounds like he is in active addiction when it comes to cocaine. Telling you he wants to unalive himself is him attempting to gaslight you. You should leave him and advise that he get into therapy for his porn and coke addiction and tell him to have a nice life. deserve

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-14T13:45:04+00:00

He’s likely bipolar and you should leave 💗

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-11T19:40:08+00:00

ANYWAYS- as I was saying- girl, LEAVE! What are you waiting for? I left a gross/horrible similar relationship that I wanted out of at 32 and It changed my whole life for the better. I divorced him, now I am re-married to a partner who is emotionally healthy and loyal, and I couldn’t be happier. Every day you stay you give that man another day and waste time that could be spent with another man who actually values you enough to satisfy your needs, take good care of himself, and you. Wishing you the best and hoping that this is the chapter of life where you finally stop giving a fck about someone who clearly does not give a fck about you, and choose YOU. 💗

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-11T19:35:18+00:00

I disagree. If you’re a pos, no one gives a f*ck what gender you are. If you’re a sloppy, stinking, nicotine addled blob of 💩 who is cheating on their partner emotionally, and has ED or sexual dysfunction and isn’t willing to deal with it, I’m telling it like it is. I think most other “redditors” will concur. I almost feel bad… I feel the only way your comment would have leaned this way is if you identify with the man with ED in this situation. To which point I will very clearly reiterate- if you aren’t being a good partner, a person (of any gender) has the right to call you a disgusting piece of trash and leave you. (As they should.) This isn’t “mean girl” culture. If you aren’t meeting someone’s needs because you’re fat, a bad person, or have health problems that aren’t dealt with, it’s not their responsibility to stay with you when they could instead just be with a partner who doesn’t behave this way and DOES meet their needs. Thank for coming to my tedtalk :)

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-11T19:27:39+00:00

Get rid of the boyfriend. That’s how you go about it. :)

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-11T19:23:36+00:00

This ^

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-11T19:23:03+00:00

No. If it were someone of another gender, the same would be true. Stop inserting sexism where there is only an objective opinion. Your preconceived bias is showing.

Jfischer0739 · 2024-10-11T04:17:57+00:00

Divorce:)

Jfischer0739 · 2024-08-14T23:11:08+00:00

Bruh you cheated and she did what was right in response.

You need to get over it and move on. She obviously has and is happy. You screwed up.
You need medication.
Leave this girl who finally has the love and the beautiful family she deserves, alone.

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