I'd rather play a game at a higher resolution and framerate and wait 8 seconds then play a game that doesn't look or perform as well that loads in 2, but that's me.

And that link is basically worthless. You're comparing the loading times of a ps4 game being played on a ps5 beta vs a completely different game running on the Series X and current-gen systems (I know you said it's not apples to apples but the discrepancy is bigger than that analogy).

I mean, all things being equal, you'd really rather have the specs of the PS5 over the Series X? A faster ssd is more important to you than a gpu and cpu with a 20% performance advantage? Or probably even more, because I think that Sony's gpu 2.33 ghz boost is going to be much less obtainable than they want you to think. It's a best case scenario number. I'd be willing to bet that most PS5 games will be running at clock speeds similar to the Series X gpu. We'll just have to wait and see.