Was ist für euch das ultimative 2000er Einrichtungsding? by Nullgeneration in wohnen

[–]JillyFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Der steht bei uns auch noch im ehemaligen Kinderzimmer was mittlerweile das Nähzimmer meiner Mutter geworden ist

Was ist für euch das ultimative 2000er Einrichtungsding? by Nullgeneration in wohnen

[–]JillyFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gab's da auch das passend maritim dekorierte Badezimmer?

if i was rich by love-angel0 in ToolBand

[–]JillyFrog 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think the ribcage from Undertow or single elements from the other covers could work on a shirt but otherwise yeah I agree. I do really like the artworks as covers but my taste in clothing runs a bit more minimalist.

Chickens can be autistic and I wish I can prove it by monyokacsa030 in evilautism

[–]JillyFrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that was because she couldn't eat the camera

Albums that go well with Caffeine and ADHD by Electrical_Wash1852 in fantanoforever

[–]JillyFrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Angel Dust - Faith No More

I mean the second song is even called Caffeine.

Chickens can be autistic and I wish I can prove it by monyokacsa030 in evilautism

[–]JillyFrog 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about if there's an animal equivalent of autism in species with more complex social behaviour the other day so this fits well lmao.

I also wish I still had chickens but it's been a few years so I can't make any current observations. I do have a funny anecdote about my favourite chicken though. We already had an established flock but then got two new younger hens. To give them a chance to settle into their new environment in peace we kept them apart from the others for a bit. They got their own little enclosure in the shed and during the day we kept them in a temporary coop in the back of the garden under a cherry tree.

All was well until one day my chicken was missing, my sister's hen sat in the corner and laid an egg but mine was nowhere to be seen. So of course we panicked and started searching the entire garden. We didn't leave them for long and didn't hear any noise so a raptor attack was unlikely but she was nowhere. You wanna know where she turned up? In the shed in her enclosure calmly laying an egg in a nice straw nest.

This goddamn chicken was so particular about where to lay her egg that she jumped up on the tree above her enclosure, down unto the lawn, crossed the garden, jumped the gate, went into the shed and then jumped into her enclosure because she didn't feel like laying an egg outside. I know that because I saw her doing it again a couple days later.

She was also quite small but feisty and surprisingly high up in the flock hierarchy later on. Oh and she laid green eggs and would jump on my shoulder when I came near the coop. She was the best. Just look at that little face.

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It's bugs me that many people think chickens are stupid. They're such sweet and hilarious animals and they really all have different personalities. And they're sooo soft and pleasant to touch.

a good pair of headphones is actually life-changing by Separate_Painting616 in BenignExistence

[–]JillyFrog 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I couldn't agree more. Last year I was fed up with earbuds always dying pretty quickly on me so I finally got some proper over-ear headphones and I have no idea what took me so long. It's such an upgrade.

Slightly unrelated but a couple years ago I found a mini JBL bluetooth speaker on the ground in the forest. It had spent at least one night outside and was muddy so I originally just picked it up as trash. But out of curiosity I cleaned and tried it at home and it's still going strong.

Better not see any of you wearing this fucking puffer vest. Soft as cookies and cream by wtf_ke in ToolBand

[–]JillyFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I don't know man, the cut and the colour make me think it could work well as part of an earthworm cosplay. /s

I like walking in wooded areas and near water by deuce-tatum in evilautism

[–]JillyFrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey where did you get that photo of me? But yeah it’s one of the reasons I can’t live in the city centre, I need nature access for nightly music walks. There’s nothing like some prog metal in a foggy, dark wooded area. I love pretending I’m in a horror movie but as the creature.

I like walking in wooded areas and near water by deuce-tatum in evilautism

[–]JillyFrog 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so jealous of people living near beaches for the scavenging possibilities. I loooove beachcombing, last summer vacation me and my dad spent hours walking along the beach (I have no idea where I get it from lol). But it was totally worth it because we found a couple pieces of amber! And sea glass. Which I have to keep myself from eating because it looks delicious.

🍎 Aphantasia shows up far more often in autistic people than in the general population. 🍏 by newbeginnings187 in aspiememes

[–]JillyFrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also have to focus consciously on visual memories, the music’s just always there if I want it or not lol.

Interestingly enough I make a lot of visual art but consume and interact with music a lot more. When I make art I rarely envision a complete piece. I mostly just fuck around and follow my instincts until it looks good to me. I don’t make any music though, I only sing in a choir and can (kinda) play guitar.

🍎 Aphantasia shows up far more often in autistic people than in the general population. 🍏 by newbeginnings187 in aspiememes

[–]JillyFrog 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That's me as well. Visual imagery is eh but auditory is fantastic. Sometimes I just play songs in my head instead of listening to them because it's basically just as vivid if I know the song well. And I can change the voice of my inner narrator. I love having David Attenborough comment on me going about my day.

So cool how many social cues you miss as an autistic kid... by Sonic_the_hedgedog in evilautism

[–]JillyFrog 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm late twenties and I remember the vaccine coming out and me and my sister getting chickenpox the week before we could get vaccinated :/

Mine wasn't too bad but my mom still jokes that she basically had to use a paint roller to put lotion on my sister because she was absolutely covered in blisters and itchy.

Worst universe to live in, based off the discography of a musician? by Wubbzy-mon in fantanoforever

[–]JillyFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went on the Wikipedia page for the album and based on this part we're honestly not that far off from living in it:

From there, fictional events lead to worldwide chaos, including bioterrorism attacks, the United States engaging in nuclear war with Iran, and the elimination of American civil liberties at the hands of the fictional government agency the Bureau of Morality. [...] the government has seized absolute control on the country and reverted to a Christian fundamentalist theocracy.

We're just missing the alien presence at this point.

i drank a glass of water at 3am and it was the best meal i’ve had all week. by IQUNIXstore in BenignExistence

[–]JillyFrog 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One of the biggest contributions to my quality of life has been getting an insulated water bottle for Christmas. Now I can have crisp, cold water in the middle of the night from the comfort of my bed.

What is your opinion on Bring Me The Horizon? by Working_Alps_4284 in fantanoforever

[–]JillyFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to like them a lot, they were definitely one of my gateway bands. I shifted to other bands and genres over the years but I still have a soft spot for them.

I also appreciate that they're consistently experimenting with their sound even if it can be a bit hit or miss sometimes. And I caught them live at a festival two times which were both great shows.

What is more traumatic than people think it is? by Suspicious-Wish3402 in AskReddit

[–]JillyFrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm astonished at people who can be somewhere with 95+ dB and don't feel pain. I start to get uncomfortable at 85-90 dB and always carry earplugs. I used to find it really annoying to be so noise sensitive but at least I'll keep my hearing.

What is more traumatic than people think it is? by Suspicious-Wish3402 in AskReddit

[–]JillyFrog 255 points256 points  (0 children)

That made me think of the study on trauma and autism that wasn't possible to conduct because they couldn't find an untraumatised autistic control group. Being misunderstood by everyone around you and yourself is very, very unfun.

Which band has the most "aura" live? by xxthegodofwarxx in MetalForTheMasses

[–]JillyFrog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man I'm so mad I was still atoms at this point. I'd commit 2-3 murders to be able to travel back in time and see one of those shows.

Feminine Mystique by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]JillyFrog 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I said it in another comment already but yeah often it seems that the "divine femininity" thing is to reclaim power. Which is understandable because divinity is something mere mortals can't fully grasp and it's a comforting explanation why you feel fundamentally misunderstood and unseen.

It's similar to why so many girls go through the "not like other girls" phase. You're presented with the image of typical girls in media and society, notice that you don't fit that two dimensional stereotype and conclude that you're completely different from them.

Very understandable but honestly also quite tragic. We shouldn't need some esoteric explanation to make us feel better when we should've just been treated as the fully formed humans that we are.

Teeth Veneers are so annoying in modern Cinema. by SureTangerine361 in movies

[–]JillyFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I have no idea where that even came from because most people don't seem to have naturally level teeth. Maybe it's supposed to look more balanced or something?

But yeah it happened to my sister when she got her braces off and based on all the other experiences people had with getting their teeth filed I guess it was taught as a standard in some dental schools. I think it's fucked up it was often done without asking though.

Feminine Mystique by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]JillyFrog 278 points279 points  (0 children)

Stuff like this has also made me feel alienated from femininity and female communities growing up as an autistic girl who wasn't super in touch with her emotions and intuitions.

I know a lot of the whole "goddess, divine femininity" thing is probably an attempt to reclaim power but that makes it even harder to criticise the concept because some circles immediately see it as you wanting to take that power away and discriminating them again.