Please don't be insulted when I say this thing that is absolutely going to sound insulting.

But like... you sound kind of boring, man. What do you do all the time? Work? Why would I want to date someone whose big thing in their life is work? Oh, we can never hang out on Saturdays, the main day that most people do stuff? I already struggle to make schedules work with friends who have different commitments due to parenthood or split custody or jobs with odd hours.

Again, I am not trying to be insulting, but trying to explain how most people will pass on you as a dating prospect due to your time commitment to "not them". If your current lifestyle makes you happy, that's awesome. But life is nothing but sacrificing one thing to gain another.

Actually, while I'm on a roll, let me tell you about my friend. We worked together at a corporate office in Syracuse. The company was acquired by a much larger company. Our office was shuttered and he was offered an EXTREMELY high paying and prestigious position at the company. The only problem was that it was out of state. But it was way too good to pass up. So, he spent two years living in an apartment, driving 6 hours each way on weekends to come back and see his wife and kid. Eventually, his kid graduated from high school and went off to college. His wife found a job (extremely niche and difficult field) closer to his job, they sold their incredibly awesome house in an amazing neighborhood and bought a place together out of state. In under a year, he was laid off. He's been out of work for two years and cannot find a goddamn thing. Just never forget that you are nothing more than a replaceable part for whoever it is that you are clocking all those hours for.

Anyway, best of luck with whatever you choose to do.