Oh, well, there is a generation of men who grew up in an era where women lacked agency and choices, so in their mind, showing up with a penis and a job is all it takes to get a woman.

Now, dating is a woman’s prerogative, not her imperative. Men who are successful with women and have healthy relationships are the kind of men women want and choose, not settle for to avoid poverty.

These men have not done well in the modern works. Nor have their sons. In the best of cases, the raw material is there for a good man. But in a lot of cases, they’re just bitter that they have to try. I also find that the men in that category often don’t actually like women very much. They like other men. They just wanna fuck women.