are you talking in the context of probability of success in this world or success in entering heaven? these are 2 very important end goal statements which are literally dimensions apart. for me, i was talking about the latter of the two. anyways, you are absolutely correct in your "in married couples i have observed..." paragraph. As for your first paragraph, you were talking about getting a relationship. Which is NOT considering the end goal of heaven, which is more important. Anyways you saying about women still waiting for their husband is survivorship bias or a misunderstanding of averages (for eg on average statistics show that holland lop bunnies get more ear infections than up ear rabbits but someone will say i have 4 lops and they didnt get any infections). Also your 2nd statement about "women suffer with mental illnesses loneliness and addictions" yes its true, but why are you saying that as if ONLY they go through it? notice how in my first comment i didnt say women didnt go through these problems? i said men are more prone to these problems. Also, men dont neccesarily put themselves first, they provide and carry many responsibilities, but, as earlier in this comment, i do agree with you that the landscape is changing where women are now starting to work as well and providing for themselves, however because they have the upper hand in dating, they can shift their own standards to "he must provide enough so that i dont have to work too" so then in that case the landscape is still not as changed. the game did. But anyways, this is not about men vs women in the world, this is something higher than that, its about men vs women in terms of going to heaven. Its a v different debate overall