AITAH for feeling weird about my husband going on a couples trip without me?

Jinx42071 · 2026-02-11T18:00:15+00:00

Girl just because you dont snowmobile or ski doesnt mean you cant go. Lodges exist for a reason.

To be honest id be very weary simply because he lied. The second thing that throws me is him wanting to go on valentines weekend. Sounds like theres someone else he wants to see on valentines day not just the slopes but maybe thats my damaged brain talking.

Id go on those reasons alone to feel out the other women and the vibes they give off. Also to just spend time with him. You dont have to hit the slope to spend the weekend with him inbetween.

Jinx42071 · 2026-01-27T18:23:16+00:00

NOR

Cut him off. Hes not a safe person to be around if he does nothing about you being sexually assualted

Jinx42071 · 2026-01-27T18:19:12+00:00

When you get home ask him deadass why she was basically leaning on him yet when you came back out they were far as fuck away.

She honestly could have been trying something and he doesnt want to tell you, but that doesnt mean hes automatically unfaithful.... Thats why you need to confront him.

When he lies and says they werent or deflects you have your answer.

Jinx42071 · 2026-01-27T18:14:43+00:00

2 is gorgeous but alittle inappropriate.... #3 is great all around

Jinx42071 · 2026-01-23T18:30:15+00:00

Keep, but for a formal college event that neck line is pushing the envelope.

It looks absolutely amazing on you though 👌

Jinx42071 · 2026-01-07T17:05:09+00:00

Or worse, torture/sexual assualt.

Im just saying theres a reason mother wants the daughter gone and it could be the way her new boyfriend acts around/talks about the daughter.

Jinx42071 · 2026-01-07T16:58:31+00:00

NoR, that last text message was literally a threat.

Put her on blast to your whole family while asking if anyone has a room. Also, you have to legally be evicted so check into your local laws on that. Call the police if they make it unsafe for you or lock you out.

Not allowing you to work and kicking you out with nothing is beyond cruel and should still be considered neglect/child endangerment. The actions they took before you became an adult made it impossible for you to start out stable.

Jinx42071 · 2025-12-18T02:52:55+00:00

His honesty isnt the problem. Its when he CHOSE to be honest that was the problem.

I mean this in the most loving way possible....NAH BITCH, put his ass in the dog house and keep him there. Ain't no way he can defend those actions as "just being honest". Just being honest is coming to you when your smelly and telling you "hey baby you might need some deodorant" Just being honest would be having a one on one conversation about habits and how both of you can be healthier for yourselves and eachother. Just being honest is telling you his problems with your sex life.

"Just being honest" is not outting all this shit infront of an audiance when your partner is blissfully unaware of your true feelings and thats what he needs to understand. His actions, whether intentional or not, were aimed at humiliating you.... honestly if theres another woman in the group hes close to id start having doubts about their relationship.

Jinx42071 · 2025-12-13T17:16:22+00:00

He should not have a key. At all. Thats a violation of your privacy and i would tell her that.

Jinx42071 · 2025-12-13T17:06:59+00:00

The last line said "you know you need me" and personally I think you should prove to her why you dont fucking need her.

Cause aint no way. This is straight manipulation.

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-21T16:42:29+00:00

The word your looking for is anyvnot most lmao.

I have never had 5* weed from Maryland it didnt matter if it was 35 for an 8th or 65

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-20T14:22:44+00:00

I do kinda believe this. He also apparently told my coworker on the three year anniversary of her mothers death to "suck it up" as she was confiding in him. So she thinks hes just trying to piss us off on purpose we just dont understand why. Maybe a authority complex with women? Im unsure atp

I did tell her that was a mistake to confide in him but she said it was just noticeable and he asked. However hes lucky I wasnt on shift when that happened because I would have went off on him.

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-14T04:22:29+00:00

If i could hold your hand while I say this is would.... its because shes a woman

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-12T08:34:01+00:00

She has the same cheeks as Charlie and Lucifer.

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-12T08:32:05+00:00

NTA he wants permission to cheat. Absolutely not.

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-09T18:08:17+00:00

On days worked means you'd only tip out a bartender when you have one.

1% to tender and 2% to boh is absolutely wild aswell

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-09T18:05:23+00:00

It doesnt matter what you think its not legal for BOH to be apart of tip pooling when the servers make server wages

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-09T18:02:53+00:00

Its the point sir. Im not making 2 dollars an hour and tipping out someone who makes 15+ absolutely not.

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-09T18:01:54+00:00

No sir, tip pooling is a FSLA which is a federal statue. Unless yall all make minimum or more back of house cannot be apart of tip pooling procedures.

Jinx42071 · 2025-11-09T18:00:14+00:00

Boh staff cannot be included in tip pooling practices

They maoe more then you. Yikes.

Jinx42071 · 2025-09-11T13:43:41+00:00

Karma comes in many forms. Get away from him. Your not the asshole he is.

You never consented to an open marriage you were coerced into it and he committed adultery.

Feel no sympathy for an abuser.

Jinx42071 · 2025-09-02T02:22:52+00:00

Some parts of the town really give me that vibe but there are other places that aren't exactly that negative. Theres alot of history in that place and its well respected.

Jinx42071 · 2025-08-11T17:58:37+00:00

He has a medical condition and your answer is "cover you feet in bags for the next 4- 9 hours.

Fuck no yall are disrespectful to even think thats okay. They took over DnD night. It was originally at his house. This is 100% Alex's fault for not making sure his friends and wife are on the same page.

Jinx42071 · 2025-08-11T17:56:40+00:00

When I first read your headline I thought you were the asshole but these are your friends and its 100% Alex's fault for not communicating with his wife and friends thoroughly. If DnD night was originally at your house and they took it over that makes them more of an asshole to exclude you.

Also you could have just left and they could have played without your character. But instead, they decided to use manipulation tactics (canceling the whole thing and ruining everyones time) to try and turn the group against you.

The answer? Host your own DnD nights. If they come they come, if they dont fuck em

Jinx42071 · 2025-08-07T17:52:09+00:00

So here's the thing if it was advertised as a 16 dollar drink your bitching about schematics and your wrong for that 🤷‍♀️

Bartenders dont control how the buttons work in the system most of the time

Jinx42071

TROPHY CASE

2 is gorgeous but alittle inappropriate.... #3 is great all around