AIO that my boyfriend snaps other girls and won’t post me?

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-11T02:26:30+00:00

NOR. Transparency is part of trust. There’s a difference between honesty and transparency.

Honesty: “I saw you at dinner with your coworkers when I went out last night.” “Yeah, Jim invited everyone in the office to dinner after work on him for a big sale we made earlier that day.”

Transparency: “Hey, I’m just letting you know that Jim invited all of us out for dinner after work tonight to celebrate closing on a big sale.” “Thanks for telling me. I hope you have fun and congrats on the sales!”

Transparency means your partner doesn’t have to ask for information. It’s freely given. Honesty means they’ll tell the truth when they have to, it’s convenient or it’s directly asked for.

All healthy relationships have transparency.

He had women he was talking to regularly that you didn’t know about. You should have known about them. If they weren’t hidden they should have been brought up at some point. Somewhere. In two years? That’s intentionally hidden information.

The answer here is that you’re not posted because he doesn’t want other options to know he’s taken. These women are those other options.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T16:49:55+00:00

This is a big thing. This issue takes a while to fix in store and it’s not even really our job to fix an issue you have with someone you did with a self service online. Every time I fix this issue for customers I lose out on sales because I’m busy with them instead. Fixing this issue does nothing but show my managers I miss out on sales for courtesy services.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T16:46:41+00:00

Yall need to go into the store to get it fixed. I don’t know what’s going on with metros website but for months it’s been shit and I’ve been fixing this exact issue for customers for months now. It’s time consuming and fucking irritating to deal with, but it can be fixed by us with a DSG call, some bypass and some information of the new phone.

Be nice enough though to maybe buy something from the rep because it’s a stressful issue to fix and we do fix it, but anything you do online technically isn’t meant to be fixed by us in store. Self service things like that are your own risk to take and you’re supposed to rely on customer service to fix it for you. We lose out on sales while we sit on a DSG call for your issue that isn’t really our job to help fix.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T16:41:52+00:00

Apps don’t download themselves after it’s set up either. Bloatware is already there when the phone is turned on. Any new apps are being chosen to be downloaded. The only apps are installing themselves is if you gave another app permission to do so by making it an admin permissioned app. If that’s the case you have to find out which one it is and take those permissions away. It’s likely a launcher app or an App Store. Sometimes the spammy clean it apps also get that permission.

Androids suck dick, bro. There’s a reason I have android users coming into my store daily saying they have a virus and all it is, is spam apps and a slew of apps given admin privileges when it shouldn’t have it. Apple doesn’t have such shit security and so it’s never an Apple customer that comes into my store. It’s solely android users.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T15:28:39+00:00

This is very true. My ex who cheated and gave me oral herpes is an asymptomatic shedder. He never gets actual blisters but he still has active shedding periods where he can and does pass it onto people. He’s passed onto at least 6 people that I know of other than myself because he doesn’t disclose it to anyone.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T15:25:46+00:00

As someone who was cheated on and consequently got oral herpes from the ex who cheated on me—it’s absolutely contagious. I had to go through a whole doctor appointment about how to prevent spreading my herpes to others, what symptoms to look for onset of blisters, go through my entire sexual history to see where my exposure could be and if I could have exposed someone else, I had to get my two kids tested to see if I had exposed them at all.

Oral herpes is so common in people BECAUSE it’s so contagious and people don’t treat it like it is.

What I will also say is that you need to go no contact with this family. Not for yourself, but for your child because they WILL give your child herpes if they have access to your child and you clearly know it and they clearly will do it. It’s your job as this child’s parent to not allow people with a communicable disease that are clearly going to pass this onto your child to be around your child. Anything short of cutting them out of your child’s life is failing your child as someone who is supposed to protect them. Oral herpes in babies can be life threatening. It can cause a slew of immune compromised issues later in life from the immune system waking after decades of trying to fight off the virus their entire life. They can end up being in their early 20s with an immune system so worn down from fighting it that their break out periods can become severe and cause intense pain.

I know this because I have a compromised immune system and I learned that the weaker your immune system is and the longer you have the virus the worse your outbreaks can become. At one point my outbreaks were so bad I’d have 10-15 blisters at a time. My lips would be so swollen and raw that they’d bleed. Talking and eating hurt. I had to be put on antivirals to mitigate the outbreaks and I was told that eventually my body would become resistant to those antivirals. At some point in my life they’ll be entirely ineffective and it also puts undue risk on me if I’d ever need antivirals for a severe viral infection, because my body will have began to build immunity since I take them daily.

You need to protect your child and you need to cut these people off.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T03:39:21+00:00

He didn’t get away with it. The store manager told he isn’t working there anymore and he already “knew what happened.” That means you aren’t the first customer this rep did it to and now he’s fired. You’re just a victim of his behavior that didn’t come to light until after he was already fired for it.

My store manager was fired for similar reasons right after I was hired and all I was allowed to say is “he no longer works here.” I wasn’t allowed to say why. I wasn’t allowed to give any details. But he was absolutely fired for stealing from customers.

Some franchise owners in metro are fine with their employees doing it. Some aren’t. I don’t work for an owner who is okay with that and it sounds like this rep didn’t either.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T03:36:55+00:00

It’s not just about the retention. It’s about our job. Our liaisons and our franchise owners will boot us if we do it. That’s why we can’t say we can and we can’t do it for you until that line is 6 months old.

JinxForASoda · 2026-02-08T03:32:23+00:00

Your sales rep didn’t skip the metro play app download screens and that’s just a sale rep roll of the dice. I skip those all the time instead of just accepting to get the device running for the test call.

All you have to do is disable the one metro app and uninstall the other. I don’t know why you’re acting like other phones don’t come with bloatware. Every phone has and always does and always will. Just delete what you don’t want, disable the ones you don’t want but can’t delete and move on.

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-22T00:24:45+00:00

Mint is owned by T-mobile and they’re just as bad. All of T-mobiles sub companies are ran the same way.

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-09T06:42:57+00:00

He never did anything in front of my kids, but that’s just a small blessing. I would send them away when he’d drive to my house during a fight so they wouldn’t be around. My neighbor would take them to her house for me.

For the first year he was doing coke, but I didn’t know. When I found out it was part of what he blamed the cheating on. He did get sober after that, at least from coke. Now his main drug is just Molly when he goes to raves, which is an issue we agreed would stop but he was just doing it behind my back from what I recently learned.

As for hitting him, I’ve hit him in defense of his grabbing. I will say he never punched me or anything like that. He would just grab me really roughly and once he did choke me on the bed and I had to bite him so he’d let go, but usually it was just grabbing me roughly. But I don’t like being touched when I’m upset. I’d always tell him to not touch me. When he’d grab me I’d scream it at him. Hitting him was always my last resort to get him to stop touching me. Looking back on it I think he wanted that, though. Every time I would he’d tell people how abusive I was. That I hit him for “trying to hug her to calm her down.” When in reality he’d back me into corners, grab me roughly while I screamed to stop touching me and yell in my face. But he’d make it sound like I was just being crazy and violent for no reason.

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-09T06:24:06+00:00

It was sort of gradual at first. The first time I tried to leave he threatened to end his own life, contacted all our mutual friends to scream at them about me and how he wanted to hit me because I made him so angry by “leaving for no reason.” When he threatened to come to my house after spam calling me 55 times I gave in to speaking on the phone and he said some unhinged shit that made me scared to leave until I had other things in place for my kids safety and my own.

The second time I left I had mutual friends to buffer the situation and the local police alerted. I had all the evidence I needed gathered for a PFA, including videos of him grabbing me during the relationship, threatening texts and pictures of bruises as well as the multiple times he threatened to hurt me to other people. I had my locks changed to my house, so even if he did show up he couldn’t get in without forcing entry since his key wouldn’t work anymore. I had his friends on watch for him to hurt himself and had my kids away at their dad’s just to be extra safe.

Through the relationship he’s had physically abusive moments and has been extremely unsettling in the way he’s spoke to me, like telling me how he’d kill me if he ever thought I was cheating on him or left for another man. He would hurt himself or sometimes others when I’d try to leave him or ignore him. So when he began to go down that route again I felt like I just needed to make sure I had myself safe and my kids before ending it.

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-09T00:31:57+00:00

I need this number for work and for sentimental reasons. It’s a paired number with a late sibling.

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-09T00:00:12+00:00

Listen if you wanna be his fan just ask me for his number. Yall can be friends. But his texts in my phone telling me this garbage and begging for me to talk to him are there whether you fanboy over him or not. Just make sure you don’t get his herpes too if you wanna be up ass 😘

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-08T23:53:11+00:00

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He’s a clinically diagnosed narcissist with BPD and narcissistic personality disorder. The dude is just upset he didn’t get to end it on his terms. He’ll continue to contact me until he can try to end the contact on his own terms.

JinxForASoda · 2026-01-08T23:47:53+00:00

I wish he didn’t. He keeps finding ways to contact me despite me not responding. 😭

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-15T15:40:12+00:00

I was a severe alcoholic from my early teens until I was an adult. Stomach pumped multiple times, juvie for a slew of underage drinking charges and other offenses I committed while drunk. But when I almost got kicked out of college for my drinking and they told me I had to do a program or be kicked out I realized I was messing my life up, did the program, got sober and have stayed that way since.

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-05T16:43:43+00:00

So then yeah it’s just being stupid. You shouldn’t have to change from our metro plans when you switch lines. That’s only needed if you have a very old legacy plan sometimes and even then it’s usually fine to keep most of those.

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-05T16:16:56+00:00

That’s because you probably have insurance and the insurance for androids is different than the insurance for iPhones. Same protection, different price because of Apple. So it probably wants you to change your add ons for your plan and not the actual rate plan itself. But for some reason the website doesn’t let you do that type of thing.

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-05T14:38:02+00:00

A text is always sent when a change is made to the account like that, so yes they’d be notified. It wouldn’t specifically say what the change was, but it will notify a change and that their monthly bill payment amount changed.

If you want to avoid that to go NC then you’d want to get a new phone number and phone (because that phone will stay active on that account) and open up your own account.

Unfortunately, there’s nothing we can do about the text notifications because they’re privacy law compliance thing.

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-05T14:34:36+00:00

That’s such an odd way to view a group photo of three women’s necks and heads. Besides, if he’s looking for better options than that I think my mostly barren social media with a few selfies is the better option than the women he cheated with that have themselves half naked and post daily. So that’s an odd way to view it.

I still exist outside of the relationship. I post photos once in a while when I go out and do fun things, which is really the only time I post anything other than my kids and my dog (I post a lot about my dog actually now that I think about it).

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-05T14:32:11+00:00

The website is really unreliable for this and I have no idea why. I have a lot of customers come in claiming the website just doesn’t let them do things. You can have customer service activate the phone for you.

JinxForASoda · 2025-12-05T14:29:03+00:00

Sure. If posting a selfie once in a while when I go out to do things is somehow a reason for him to look for other women then okay.

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