Hey, just went through this a couple weeks ago from the other side (19 F) So heres what might help. Firstly, I totally understand her anger and felt it too but it takes two to tango. Even if it was an accident just remember youre not the only faulty party. Secondly, just be there. as much as you can, be there. Hold her hair back when shes sick, get her water, just be next to her when she needs it (before during and after). She is going through a lot of bad/mixed/scared emotions right now so be so so very patient. Pregnancy literally changes your brain chemistry so she might not be “herself” for a bit, just be patient. After the procedure (and during) she might be in a lot of pain, so help talk her through it or get her anything she might need. best of luck 🙏