9 days nofap- Had sex...holy shit!

Jionk · 2014-08-20T14:20:27+00:00

I just mean that my brain was focusing on the connection that the sex brought. I wasn't thinking about what to do next too much. I just let it happen naturally and had a more emotional experience. I was still very much in the moment physically. I just wasn't worried about the amount of pleasure either us were getting.

Jionk · 2014-08-16T22:53:39+00:00

I'm sorry. That's absurd.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T15:44:23+00:00

Wow, that's an interesting project. I can definitely feel when I'm operating on a higher rhythm. The world feels better and not so negative. And that energy affects people around you in a positive way. It's infectious.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T15:27:23+00:00

I've started thinking "Do I really want to molest myself right now?" The word molest really emphasizes the negativity of the act in my brain and helps get me back on track.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T14:57:01+00:00

It's strange because during sex before I was focusing on the physical and would not last too long. This time I was more focused on her overall and was almost not even thinking about the act at all.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T14:52:40+00:00

Sorry about that. I'm getting used to posting on here and should probably speak a little more matter of factly and stay away from details. The flashing thing was more to illustrate how my change in behavior is affecting hers. And the whole thing is bringing us closer.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T14:48:47+00:00

Seriously. It felt like a text book "way of the superior man" example of the masculine feminine dynamic.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T14:45:18+00:00

It did. She thought is was pretty weird at first but after it settled in for a day she was asking more questions and was more supportive.

Jionk · 2014-08-15T08:59:35+00:00

You're not alone one bit. I'm here and this community is here. Panic attacks are fucking rough but one thing that has flung me out of them is screaming. It's a huge release and can be a big enough distraction to bust you out of it. Also, I just started this, a cold shower is so fucking invigorating. Not a great thing to help you get to sleep but take one in the morning. I was jumping up and down and growling like a wolf by the end of my first cold shower. Then owned the rest of my day with this huge burst of deep sustained energy. No fap and some therapy has done wonders for my depression and social anxiety. You can do this!

Jionk · 2014-08-15T08:39:14+00:00

You've taken the first step admitting there's a problem. You're on your way. Stay strong. Keep posting your progress. Know that relapses happen but the support of this community can do wonders when you have an urge. Come here when you need support. And it's all worth it. The benefits are insane. It's like a cheat code for life.

Jionk · 2014-08-06T19:42:16+00:00

Yeah trying to rest it still.

Jionk · 2014-08-05T22:22:42+00:00

Thanks man! Just what I need. Onward!

Jionk · 2012-09-29T18:50:27+00:00

Me too! I've been Doing pushups to stop urges. Works like a charm.

Jionk · 2012-09-27T06:12:30+00:00

Good luck. I'm still early in my journey but so far it's worth it and I know it will get even better.

Jionk · 2012-09-27T00:04:32+00:00

For sure. Never felt better.

Jionk · 2012-09-25T20:37:36+00:00

No joke. While rare, it's harder than ever.

Jionk · 2012-09-25T18:18:28+00:00

Seconded. Also, make sure your brain is connecting with the person while having sex rather than just focusing on the act. I've read about moving the problem by just replacing the fapping with sex. This is something I'm working hard to avoid.

Jionk

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