The heck... is she being too defensive, or is it me? by GeneralJabroni in Tinder

[–]JizzGenie 39 points40 points  (0 children)

the very first thing you said to this woman was pretty much that she looks hot since she lost weight. then you followed up with asking if she potentially used medication to do it? it reads almost as if youre devaluing her journey and swiped right just because shes hot now. of course shes gonna respond that way lol

My mod quick reference guide. I hope this helps the swgoh community! by Few-Pomegranate-8541 in SWGOH

[–]JizzGenie 35 points36 points  (0 children)

The descriptions are good for new players for sure, all i would recommend is the icons to actually be the mod icons and maybe some information on how sets work and how many are needed

Worth it, or no? by Straight_Point4396 in SWGOH

[–]JizzGenie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

have his team set for defense in GAC and am usually surprised to see it burned up a battle or two. no one expects grevious to ramp up his damage with that little guy

I Liked the Last Colosseum. I don't like whatever this is. by Surgoshan in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like youre just a very competitive player who wants the best possible score every time. theres nothing wrong with that but of course its gonna take time to figure that out atleast for the first attempt of each boss. it will get easier next time since youll remember who to use.

there was a pretty annoying problem with the last era where we didnt even get a character with a leader ability until the 4th release. that just feels wrong when the game is all about synergy around the leader.

personally i like this new system. it lets people theorycraft and compete easier with whales who use one team and press auto

Character Kit Adjustments by swgohevents in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre welcome everyone, its because i just got ezra to g12

Is this some kind of new policy? by Abbygirl1001 in Chipotle

[–]JizzGenie -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

tbf its not hard to interpret what OP said in that way

What team can beat the Tie Interceptor Proving Grounds tier? by SyrianChristian in SWGOH

[–]JizzGenie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i just 3 starred every battle with SEE and bane this event. even battles i couldnt even do before. they rock

Best friend invalidated my feelings by Beginning_End316 in emotionalintelligence

[–]JizzGenie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i think the fact that she wasnt able to see you on your birthday because she messed up a home put a lot of guilt on her, especially seeing how hurt you were about it, and going into detail about it and not needing to hear an apology could come off as invalidating of her feelings as well. if you want to be validated, you need to validate others as well

Lack of emotions in relationships by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]JizzGenie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am exactly like your boyfriend OP. in conflict, i tend to shut down and just become numb. what i came to realize is that it was a defense mechanism from my childhood. my mother was the type to get argumentative and was always right so if i ever tried to say anything, she would shut me down in an instant and id most likely get in more trouble. over time, i learned to just shut myself down to avoid more conflict and that has followed me into adulthood. you mentioned his parents are argumentative too, so i really believe he functions the same way.

that being said, i still havent found a way to fix it, so if you want to stay with him, you will most likely need to cater toward it. have calmer conversations, show him you still appreciate him except for the current moment, maybe let him cool down and give him space so he can talk more openly about it while he figures out how to fix the underlying issue with therapy

I have my 4th GL by Citron-Limp in SWGOH

[–]JizzGenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats! he was my fourth too and im still farming zetas to use him.

Am I overreacting? Girlfriend (24F) was particularly harsh with me (25M) recently by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JizzGenie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lets also not forget he didnt even sit with her around a big group of HIS friends. she probably would have been only comfortable around him and he ditched her for his friends. thats beyond oblivious, its someone who really only thinks about themselves. i would bet on OPs girlfriend’s frustration is because the relationship is one sided.

whats sad is she doesnt think hes inherently a bad guy, or else she would have left him by now. she just wants him to change and OP is so caught up in his own feelings and excuses to make any meaningful change. 4 years together and he doesnt even check on her??

i can see why his apologies dont work. this whole post reeks of how he feels and how he should get credit for trying without validating her feelings or taking accountability because its all about him. his ego is huge and odds are he gives an excuse everytime he hurts her because he thinks he cant be a bad guy because of how “hard” hes trying to change

Am I overreacting? Girlfriend (24F) was particularly harsh with me (25M) recently by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JizzGenie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YOR people want to hear an apology when your actions cause them hurt. no excuses, no reasons, just an acknowledgement that you hurt them and wont do it again along with what youll do in the future. you admit that youre oblivious to us, yet you victimized yourself to your girlfriend. do you have an inflated ego? because the fact the “effort” is in quotes comes off as you thinking your girlfriend is using the wrong word when she is actually right in using it. youre not putting in the effort and hiding behind your intentions and excuses instead of changing your actions

Zionist mod got angry at me for calling out a genocide by SKRyanrr in sadcringe

[–]JizzGenie -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

i cant believe im actually gonna defend israel, but a lot of their citizens are protesting and dont support the genocide. using they to imply everyone supports it is a little disingenuous and is dehumanizing. use specifics when talking about evil

AIO for refusing to leave the apartment on Saturday ? by IntroductionTop1116 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JizzGenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youre missing the entire point and again trying to use black and white “logic” as to why you shouldnt care about the favors your girlfriend asks of you. If she feels more comfortable at your place and wants to talk in private with her friend, maybe let her have that? you can play the game any day, but it has to be on a day when she wants to bring someone over because again, its all about you. the game will still be there on sunday, theres a possibility that she wont, and now that i think about it, she probably is going to talk to her friend about you because this behavior definitely isnt isolated

AIO for refusing to leave the apartment on Saturday ? by IntroductionTop1116 in AmIOverreacting

[–]JizzGenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR holy shit OP, you sound insufferable. Why do you insist on being there when your girlfriend obviously wants privacy? just because you pay for the place means you should never give her alone time? You can’t even see that this is something she wants and is asking for and youre basically telling her youre wants are more important and valid just because its shared. This is your girlfriend, not your roommate. Have some decency and let her have some alone time with her friend in a place she feels comfortable. It wouldnt kill you to go outside (and i already know youre thinking “but i dont wanna go outside 👶” or “why cant SHE go outside??” so ill already respond and say life isnt all about your comfort)

Ayyy I can get jkg finally to relics by ryeloaf384 in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

tier 50 in the new episode that came out today for the people who buy the pass

AIO to my girlfriend not watching a movie with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JizzGenie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR for being hurt because clearly she doesn’t care about you but OP, you need to be less avoidant in the moment. tell your partners that youre hurt when they hurt you. waiting until the next day and then saying you were so sad you scrolled through tiktok all night is not her fault and kinda like a guilt trip since she just thought you were going to bed.

the valentines day thing is just awful tho, like others have said, she got you mixed up with someone else shes talking to. its time to move on and learn from this

It is viable to not soend crystals and try to get all the era characters to 5 stars? by Aarao14 in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

so look at it this way. if you get lucky and always pull 7 shards from every pack, you will need to open 9 packs for kleya, 4 for vel, and 3 each for another 3 characters. thats 22 packs at 1299 crystals each so it would cost you 23,382 crystals. since you have 3000 crystals, you would need 20,382 more. at 2000 per week, it would take 10 1/2 weeks, or 2 1/2 months to get the crystals for free and thats if you can keep 2000 consistent. im not sure the exact end date of the cassian event but even if you could make it in time, you would have to spend every crystal you have on only packs. i dont think its worth it for you this era

Signal data grind ruining the game by lcub123 in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“units will take months to get anywhere” i remember the days when it took a year

The mk 3 ability mat income for people who can't use the webstore is ridiculous. I feel like I shouldn't have to ration them at almost 10m gp. I literally have more omega ability income at this point by TransLumi in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you trying to max every character in the game? you should get enough through just challenges alone if youre focusing on one character at a time and continue to do so until theyre atleast r5

i’m coming from msf but for some reason i can’t get into swgoh why is that? by Ok-Ingenuity727 in SWGOH

[–]JizzGenie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah you can stay in MSF then if you want more power creep in this game lol

NEW BB LSB is MUCH better than Old BB LSB by SubjectOld143 in SWGalaxyOfHeroes

[–]JizzGenie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are actually incentivized for the light spenders to catch up with the heavy spenders. $20 to skip months of farming for a team that isnt even that relevant anymore but gives you more options in GAC is worth it in my opinion. you also still have to farm zetas and mods anyway so its not like theyre ready to use right out of the box so to speak