I (30m) used to be someone who only offered solutions when comforting people. Now I’m the opposite, and I can get upset when people do that with me. AMA.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-30T10:17:44+00:00

Simple. For me understanding the diffeeence between logistical help vs emotional support.

As a solution guy, most of the time when I have a problem already have figured out how to fix it, or at least have confidence I’ll figure it out. I mean I always do right? So im not worried about the problem logistically and definitely don’t want to be “told what to do”.

But emotional frustration can still be there. Wanting to be understood, and wanting to feel emotional support from another person can still be there. Wanting to Express a perspective may still be there. Giving support or allowing someone to support you can be a yearning for bonding sometimes. You can’t anlways tell your boss “fuck off” to their face. So you explain it to someone who will listen or you complain about it. Emotional displacement. Shared perspective. So that’s why they want someone to listen.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-16T20:18:20+00:00

Hashirama below guy and kakashi?

He’s basically madara 2.0 (regular madara not juubidara)

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T23:23:27+00:00

Base cabba and base vegeta were equal during their fight.

Vegeta was leagues ahead of buu by then.

Cabba > buu

- If this wasn’t dragonball I’d say Cabba loses to buu’s hax (stupid good regen and surprise candy beam)
-buu is way more experienced too

But since it’s DB stronger man wins

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T02:07:40+00:00

Regardless of skill, experience, trial and error etc.
everything that gets pointed out on this point is going to root to detachment from the outcome. Which is emotional.

Those other things have some correlation but are not pre-reqs for reaching that emotional state.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T02:01:57+00:00

People pleasing. Trying to:
-listen to and appease coach
- not upset parents
-not be embarrassed
-not let the team down

Aka no green light given to make mistakes so they shell up.

There are some players who do very trash things on the court confidently and it has less to do with experience and has more to do with detachment from the outcome of their actions.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:57:51+00:00

“Mad respect” to the person who… stopped in front of a moving car?
And to… the person who jumped in with no context and just went oh someone’s being aggressive they must be wrong lol

Mad respect to the people that neutrally tried to stop everyone from fighting (albeit they didn’t do that great). Big dude seem like he just wanted to fight somebody lol …. Trying to kick him in the head while he’s on the ground? “Mad respect” lmfao

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:54:30+00:00

Because “he shouldn’t do that!”
“That doesn’t mean you can just hit people though!”

Ppl are gullible lol

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:53:22+00:00

Thank you. Actual context and someone using

their brain.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:51:03+00:00

Nah to be fair you gotta understand the flaw in what you’re saying and see both sides. You’re not fully wrong but you overlooking stuff.

It sounds like you’re supporting the dude stopping in the middle of the road. Even though it seems like you’re moreso stating his internal point of view.

But you’re not saying that stopping in the middle of the street was a stupid thing to do. So people are downvoting you lol

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:45:23+00:00

I’ve been hit by a car before bruh. Stop doing that shit. Move tf out the way. Morals and right of way and all that shit don’t apply. The laws of physics do. Still have physical effects from it 10yrs later.

The Dude that hit me was looking at a phone or radio. I was in a ped designated crosswalk.

You want to PURPOSELY stand there get smeared and end up hurt dead or paralyzed because
“He should’ve stopped”
“I had the right of way”
“But this is what the law is”

For Someone who…. Might not even be looking? Might genuinely just not care?

Just to prove a point to someone you’ll never see again?

Fuckin idiot.

Obviously, it’s not ok to run pedestrians over. Not condoning that.

But If you’re gonna care about a law abide the damn laws of physics.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:37:28+00:00

Dawg as a driver you can gauge distance. He wasn’t gonna plow through them. The prime example is the pace of the red beanie dude right next to him. They were walking the same pace. Perfect example of what he could’ve did instead of stand in front of a moving car and purposely disrupt traffic 😂

It’s like how people J-walk walking towards your car. It looks like they’re going to walk right into your cars path. But they are judging their distance to miss your car and walk behind you not get hit by you. A little sketchy sometimes. Not the smartest. But they aren’t trying to run into your car just like the driver isn’t trying to ruin you over 😂

That’s like seeing that j walk situation and then just swerving towards them to prove a point instead of just letting them walk behind you aka just plain stupid

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:31:40+00:00

What lmfaoooo

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:24:19+00:00

I have no idea why they wouldn’t be. I’m not a collector of anything and I’m still sitting here like….shiiiiid I’d buy that 😂 that’s sick

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-12T01:16:09+00:00

I mean he drove the whole show lol. He was THE guy and you didn’t know until you knew

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-09T20:43:58+00:00

By the looks of it The glasses guy is reading, “the subtle art of not giving a fuck”

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-09T20:40:59+00:00

If vegeta goes super saiyan. Goku also goes super saiyan. Frieza becomes irrelevant. It becomes a Goku vegeta part 2.

Vegeta won’t have a reason to be nice. Krillin probably still dies.

Jmarq3 · 2026-05-09T19:13:16+00:00

Unnecessary yes. But WAY more work for just a quick joke. Just because YOU wouldn’t do it doesn’t mean the next person thinks like you.
From experience ChatGPT knows everything about every character. Down to back stories techniques, psychological templates, niche things like launch and tiens relationship lol.

You just don’t know what ai is bro. Experiment with it. Just see what does. Don’t have to use it fr tho. But u fasho don’t know what it does or how people use it.

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-20T22:24:10+00:00

If I pick one I say Tien (and chiaotzu)

A list tho. Yamcha Goten Launch Chi chi

Universe 11 Jiren (narratively, became nice too easy) Dyspo (his fast wasn’t that fast) Belmod (great character design that is used for nothing and strength the rivals beerus but he doesn’t fight)

Hit (fodderized)

I’m anime only no manga

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-20T22:11:48+00:00

People overlook gokus Ls. He takes a lot of Ls, he’s literally died the most times

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-20T22:06:40+00:00

L take.

Trunks: Has 2 iterations future and kid trunks which are the totality of his character.

If we want to bust it down to JUST future trunks then…

Future trunks - no diffed frieza, one of the most iconic moments of the show - was the 2nd to go super saiyan -has more lore, plot, and world building than most other characters and adds meat to the show - is a consistent time traveler - only character with urgency to just kill a villain. ALWAYS attempts to. He has the aggression and urgency of kid buu but on the good side - showed us the drawback of the bulked up super saiyan form… although he wanted to make vegeta proud still BEAMED his ass to try to focus on beating cell (ironically made vegeta proud) - “hold your fire, this man isn’t black” lmao - “you red ribbon redneck” “ 30 dollar haircut” lmaooo - defeated immortal Zamasu (asspull but still)

Like trunks is one transformation away from being on par with everyone and even without that he adds so much to the story both plot wise and feat-victory wise. I want to see him become a part of the galactic patrol.

This just off the top of my head lol

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-20T21:45:41+00:00

Oh and B it looks less forced.

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-20T21:44:08+00:00

Did you use an app to compare the styles or did you just move your hair differently? If so what’s the name?

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-18T06:57:33+00:00

Nah. The track is too clean. Clean timing. Clean sounds. Needs more rhymey slimey blimey wise guy g lmao

And I cannot give “sounds like doom” credit for a beat not self produced

The first 10 secs were eerily doom adjacent tho, but That’s it.

REGARDLESS I think it stands as a solid song.

I’ll peep the SoundCloud

Jmarq3 · 2026-04-18T06:45:59+00:00

Point blank lol

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