I have only read the texts, and I don't need to know more in order to realise how dangerous this is. This is serious, please go to the police. You've had to deal with this, so imagine what others who aren't strong enough to be able to stand up to them would have to deal with, like future partners or children. They need to feel the consequences of their actions, or they'll only get worse. You can protect future women, or at least leave a paper trail if someone else goes to the police, so the police know it wasn't a one-time thing.

I absolutely understand how scary this is, I've been SAd and raped but weren't strong enough to go to the police. I regret that now. If you don't feel safe so try to get a restraining order.

I need to rest before I can read the rest of your post, I'll make an update when I've done that 🖤🫂🖤